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myviewprem

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Kumud should not go around asking forgiveness from Saras so many times. It becomes irritating. Give him sometime. Let him come to turn with his thoughts. I think he had forgotten how his mom died and all those incidents have come back to him after 25 years. So give him time to recover.

And he is not only rude with Kumud but with Dhuk Baa too. Today he said i have learned to live alone and refused to eat anything. Dhuk Baa also felt bad but gave him time and left the place. He was angry with Kusum too a few days back when she came to call him for lunch. So currently Saras is angry with everyone in general and Kumud in particular. So Kumud too must allow him some time.

Also she must not have adviced him about sharing his pain with his mom, friend etc. She has no idea of his family how they are? And then she told "I know you have lot of pain in life, i know". No human likes when others start commenting on their pain especially if its about his family.

Every human hides the pain their close family gives because they belong to that family and do not want to speak against it. Saras is doing the same acting as if he is an arrogant egoist person so that he hides his isolation and his abuse from his family to outside world. Kumud must not try and start asking or advicing him on his pain. Instead she must try and make friends with him make him laugh and happy. And remember a father's betrayal, a mothers unnatural death and a family's indifference is a very big pain to be remembered all of a sudden. It takes time to be back to your normal senses.

That is what Sunny his friend does he makes him laugh and talk all stupid things to make him feel better. That is why Saras shares all his pain with him even from India where he was telling on phone"I hate coming here as it reminds me of my mom". And Sunny advices him so correctly like how he told go to Ratnagiri and apologise.

Kumud must try and do the same. But in this serial Kumud is shown as immature. She speaks what she does not understand or know. I think Dukh Baa and Sunny understand Saras perfectly and let him be. Kumud irritates him by following him asking for forgiveness. Give him a couple of days he will forgive. Do not be behind his back asking forgiveness. True forgiveness comes from heart which takes some time. So Kumud must give him that space and time.

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-bornalee-

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Posted: 12 years ago

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i dnt agree wid u completely..i think saras is a bit rough wid her 2day n will b in upcoming epis..she didnot knw anything abt his past,she jst pulled d prank jst for fun..she is nt at fault i believe..saras sud understand dat she had no idea abt his mothers suicide,he sud understand dat she did it unintentionally...n saying tat he is right rejecting her on her face was too harsh..no gal can take it easily..if i wer in her place i wud have slapped him right there n thrown him out of my house :D :D

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Posted: 12 years ago

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I don't agree with you, hence, reserved.

Will edit tomorrow.

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MistyDawn

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Posted: 12 years ago

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In my opinion, if there is anyone who is capable of bringing him out of this deep pit he find himself in, where there is loneliness, darkness and despair, it is Kumud. She is the only one who could connect to his pain when she saw his eyes without even knowing about his past.. She is persistant but she is able to get reactions out of him, even if that is anger..If he is left alone at this point he will again go back in his shell and live like he has been living his life all these years.. Kumud is the only one who can bring him out of this shell.. he might resent or even shout at her..but why do I feel that deep down he wants her to be around? Cracking jokes might make him divert his mind for a moment, but does that alleviate his pain?...if that had been the case then he would not have been in so much pain for so long..Its time he pours his heart out to someone..and Kumud is the one for him.

Edited by vaishali-AR - 12 years ago

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harshana1

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Posted: 12 years ago

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I agree with you. I feel bad for kumud and saras is being a little to harsh but I don't blame him. When some one is mad they naturally feel like lashing out to everyone and to be a little dramatic about it. Kumud should just give him some space she shouldn't be stubborn about it and just keep bothering him about forgiving her. I know she didn't do it on purpose but when someone is mad they don't think of that, she was goating him to go into the water so naturally he's going to be mad at her. She said what she had to say and now she can only give him space and than when he cools down can he properly process everything.

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*Reemz*

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Hasn't he been given space for probably over 25 years? Enough space to make him the lonely soul he is. Isn't it time someone barged in to it?

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NERMINE

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Posted: 12 years ago

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I agree with you, when someone have pain, he wants to be alone to think and calm down.
But when you have the face of the person that she gaves you this pain, you can control yourself and be angry.
So of course KUMUD must give time to SARAS because he's a good person but his past is very difficult and I think she must understand his pain.

NERMINE 😊
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Kruti

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Posted: 12 years ago

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I dont think he needs space anymore...he had that enough since the day he was taken to Dubai...he needs someone to share that pain with, to come out of that shell that is buried himself into, to have confident in himself that he is a good person and can mend new relations...and that is where Kumud comes into the picture...she is going to fill that void in his life...yes of course it will take time...he is too much in pain, he is mad and then there is also a bit of ego...actually both of them have one thing in common and thats their EGO 😆

it will take time for him to come out of the shell but that does not mean ke Kumud should not try at all...it might be irritating for him but for the kind of girl Kumud is...she has her ego and principles but if she at fault she will not hesitate to ask for forgiveness from that person even if it is numerous times...I think somehow their dynamical characterization makes them even more intriguing as a couple...she is not the regular happy go lucky type of girl and neither he is the regular guy in pain...

for a change we have real characters and with flaws!

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charmz517

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Posted: 12 years ago

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I think he has kept himself so enclosed, that he needs someone like Kumud to help him get back into a normal life. It is possible that he is having a hard time understanding and accepting the fact that there is a girl who is yearning for his apology and is doing whatever she can to seek his attention. He has not had that for all his life, and now here comes a girl who is giving him that respect that he deserves by apologizing nonstop. I actually think this is such a beautiful and intense track that will lead to something even more powerful.

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