Rachna, Gunjan and Competition

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Both the sisters are driving each other crazy. Gunjan with her phokat ki philosophy on Rachna. Rachna with her stubbornness to prove she is not less than Gunjan. (Guys please differentiate between ego and stubbornness. Rachna is not egoistic. She doesn't consider herself best. But she is not ready to accept she is inferior. She is just being stubborn).
Gunjan jab dekho Rachna se gyaan baatna shuru kar deti hain. "... For me, this competition is nothing. We should not take competition too much to our heart. Leave competition and show yourself to doctor first..blah blah...". (It is more like mother pestering daughter). The more she says this, the more she makes Rachna stubborn.
Rachna has totally lost it. Who is she trying to prove? Herself, Gunjan or the people who kept comparing her with Gunjan and made her feel inferior? (It not only includes Vihaan. It includes her parents as well, who were full of praises for Gunjan after Vihaan exposure). Rachna's anger shoud have been towards the third category. But by accepting Vihaan's help in her struggle, she is scoring self goal. Girl, get your target correct.
Gunjan, why should you feel bad if Rachna does not share everything going on in her mind. You also used to hide lot of things. You lied to Mayank about Vihaan during Mayank's engagement, lied to Rachna about Vihaan during her engagement. Now, no need to go to the righteous mode.
Rachna, you don't need to force Gunjan to stay in competition to prove yourself. We love your sweetness anyway gal. Hope, after the competition both the girls learn to give space to each other.
By the way, what is the message CVs are trying to give us. Once there was a cute simple girl. Her family members wanted their daughter to be mild and sweet, but were full of praise for some other girl who was bold and strong. They thought this sweet girl should never go alone to any event or party unless accompanied by that strong girl. People made fun of her and called her Behen_ji. One fine day, she wore shorts for the sport event, then a guy fell for her sexy leg... Wah! Kyaa badiya baat hain. Does it mean, nobody would have fallen for her sweetness? Only the sexy leg mattered?
Rachna's struggle should have been with the hypocritical attitude of the society and family. But our soap has given such a simple and bright solution.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I totally agree with you!!
and why does everybody want Rachna to become like Gunjan. Rachna was brought up in a whole different setting than Gujan.
Gunjan was given all the freedom, right to make decision for herself, party and hang out with whom ever she wanted. whereas Rcahna wasn't allowed to go any where outside without someone going with her, as it was shown at the begging of the show that she used to go outside with Dholu. She wasn't allow to go to her school's party, play Hockey, everyone made decision for her. Now All of a sudden everybody wasnt s Rcahna to grow up, act mature and be gunjan. Anyone can't grow into a Mature, understanding, bold person like Gunjan over night. She needs time and we should give her time and the mistakes she is making now, she will realize it later on and will learn not to make those type of mistake. 😊


I hope nobody got defended, its just my POV.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Fantastic post 👏. Exactly what I have been feeling. The girls are just seventeen/ eighteen they have a few years where they can afford to make a few mistakes. Nothing has to be perfect now.

Gunjan is a mystery to me she was in a love with Mayank and had no problems breaking it off and getting him married to a girl dressed like her while she did everything possible so that Rachna s engagement to a lying manipulative schemer survives.. She loves making up false stories , she lied to Mayank, rachna and now Shayl that all is fine between them but she expects Rachna to tell her every detail of her life.

Rachna on the other hand is all heart no brains. She has passion, can work hard but has no control. Every little thing affects her and she does not stop from expressing it. She had no issues telling Vihaan that he took her innocence 😲 🤣 and even went to accuse Gunjan with no proof about the shampoo kand. She needs to learn to bottle stuff up and then maintain a cheerful facade.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Yes. Today I felt bad when Shayl said, at least one of the girl is sensible. Not a single time she is thinking, what has made Rachna wrong. She feels her upbringing is perfect. Nowhere she regrets, they are also at fault by not giving enough freedom to Rachna in her growing up years.
Second, that hug. Felt sorry for all of them. Each one is right in their own way. Gunjan is missing her parents, she did deserve it. As for Shayl, when you are dealing with someone else's daughter, you tend to show more concern than your own. Deep down the heart you feel, your child will understand you. But it may not, everytime. Rachna feeling sidelined is right from her angle.
It is from my personal experience. Whenever I see my child is having a problem with his cousin, I always tell my child to give up. (The other's parents also do the same). But when it repeats for couple more time, I see my kid getting restless (everytime his mom taking the other child's side). I realise, it is time to leave.
I can understand Rachna's insecurities. She is made to share everything of her. Still nobody notices it. Instead she is suffering from inferiotiy complex because of the constant comparison. Rachna needed her mother only for her since the engagement kand. But unfortunately Shayl cannot devote that attention, which is breaking her. Shayl should let Gunjan stay with her dad. Both the girls need someone who pours all the attention to them. For Gunjan, it is her dad. For Rachna, it should be Shayl.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Finally Competition gunjan win and rachna won't dersevce win
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ana1Supergirl

I totally agree with you!!
and why does everybody want Rachna to become like Gunjan. Rachna was brought up in a whole different setting than Gujan.
Gunjan was given all the freedom, right to make decision for herself, party and hang out with whom ever she wanted. whereas Rcahna wasn't allowed to go any where outside without someone going with her, as it was shown at the begging of the show that she used to go outside with Dholu. She wasn't allow to go to her school's party, play Hockey, everyone made decision for her. Now All of a sudden everybody wasnt s Rcahna to grow up, act mature and be gunjan. Anyone can't grow into a Mature, understanding, bold person like Gunjan over night. She needs time and we should give her time and the mistakes she is making now, she will realize it later on and will learn not to make those type of mistake. 😊


I hope nobody got defended, its just my POV.

O god, I just said something similar to this in another thread. OOPS😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: usrfan

Yes. Today I felt bad when Shayl said, at least one of the girl is sensible. Not a single time she is thinking, what has made Rachna wrong. She feels her upbringing is perfect. Nowhere she regrets, they are also at fault by not giving enough freedom to Rachna in her growing up years.

Second, that hug. Felt sorry for all of them. Each one is right in their own way. Gunjan is missing her parents, she did deserve it. As for Shayl, when you are dealing with someone else's daughter, you tend to show more concern than your own. Deep down the heart you feel, your child will understand you. But it may not, everytime. Rachna feeling sidelined is right from her angle.
It is from my personal experience. Whenever I see my child is having a problem with his cousin, I always tell my child to give up. (The other's parents also do the same). But when it repeats for couple more time, I see my kid getting restless (everytime his mom taking the other child's side). I realise, it is time to leave.
I can understand Rachna's insecurities. She is made to share everything of her. Still nobody notices it. Instead she is suffering from inferiotiy complex because of the constant comparison. Rachna needed her mother only for her since the engagement kand. But unfortunately Shayl cannot devote that attention, which is breaking her. Shayl should let Gunjan stay with her dad. Both the girls need someone who pours all the attention to them. For Gunjan, it is her dad. For Rachna, it should be Shayl.

It is so true. I feel bad for both Gunjan and Rachana. They both are right in their own ways.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Shayl is allowing Rachna a lot of consideration. She can see that Gunjan is not being competetive, only Rachna, but she is not pointing it out as Rachna's mistake, she said both girls are involved in competetion.
Even to Dayal she is not letting Rachna down. But it has to upset her that her daughter is not as nice a person as Gunjan and that she is mean mean and trivial.
She sees the injustice to Gunjan caused by Rachna and is trying to pacify and show love to a motherless girl. I do think Gunjan needs to remove herself from the Garg family and go to her dad. It's time for him to get back.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Nice posts everyone..

Life is never a fair one,each and everyone was treated in a different way,but every single one has to face different typesd of problems , pains , and have to struggle may be for money , may be for food,may be for career,may be for love,may be for justice and etc...

Even we had faced these, we were heartbroken ,but every single of us have faced our problems in different ways, and solved in different ways

The way we face our obstacles and handle our issue will lead to a next level of life .. Thats y we see successful people and unsuccessful people...

Every terrorist has a background story why they hv became a terrorist, But may be another person who faced the same issues may not be ended up being a terrorist as that person has handled the issue in a more mature way ..Though whatever the initial reasons were world hates terrorists and want to punish them,
Every criminal, thief has a background story, so that doesn't mean that we can say that They are right in their angel,,,
Thats y you have a brain and a heart... The people who use them properly will be successful and the people who dont are unsuccessful and they started to embrace the hatred ..
Since this is a serial which telecast in a national television they will try to show the good deeds.. though the reality wont be the same
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Hashii

Nice posts everyone..


Life is never a fair one,each and everyone was treated in a different way,but every single one has to face different typesd of problems , pains , and have to struggle may be for money , may be for food,may be for career,may be for love,may be for justice and etc...

Even we had faced these, we were heartbroken ,but every single of us have faced our problems in different ways, and solved in different ways

The way we face our obstacles and handle our issue will lead to a next level of life .. Thats y we see successful people and unsuccessful people...

Every terrorist has a background story why they hv became a terrorist, But may be another person who faced the same issues may not be ended up being a terrorist as that person has handled the issue in a more mature way ..Though whatever the initial reasons were world hates terrorists and want to punish them,
Every criminal, thief has a background story, so that doesn't mean that we can say that They are right in their angel,,,
Thats y you have a brain and a heart... The people who use them properly will be successful and the people who dont are unsuccessful and they started to embrace the hatred ..
Since this is a serial which telecast in a national television they will try to show the good deeds.. though the reality wont be the same

So true Hashii. A valid point 👏👏👏
Edited by rnfan - 12 years ago

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