Secret marriage : start or end of romance??

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Few years back after watching a movie i swore i wanted a secret marriage . I would tell everyone bhaag ke shaadi karungi 😆. I found the thought of secretly getting married without your parent s knowledge and approval very romantic. The thought of secret meeting ,glances,touches made me swoon. The idea of building your own small world with your beloved is definately exciting. Sadly i saw three secret marriages in my friends circle and all three of them dint work out. Harsh reality made the relation bitter and the couples never gathered the strength to actually go and confess to their parents about their 'marriage'.
Alas the most romantic thought turned out to be the end of romance for people around me.😔


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Posted: 12 years ago
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i doubt abt the marriage part 😳
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i think at the end moment gunjan will back out
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Posted: 12 years ago
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yong immature girls getting married secretly ...either they develop problems or either of the familliies have issues ...and if the guy is also not independant and earning then it becomes a major issue
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I hope she does not marry him. If the guy is financially secure there is no need for a secret marriage. Only guys who are not financially stable opt for the secret marriage but somewhere all the love goes down.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: vibz88

I hope she does not marry him. If the guy is financially secure there is no need for a secret marriage. Only guys who are not financially stable opt for the secret marriage but somewhere all the love goes down.

no it is not abt financial stability ...most of these children r well off so they r nnot ready to adjust ... in arranged marriages ...there r a lot of people to support u and encourage u .which is i think must so once the romance is over they come to realise that there r many other things required for a marriage to work ...and if u r not ready to adjust and let your ego go ...then it becomes a nightmare
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Posted: 12 years ago
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A Secret marriage is for somebody who will not dare to face the world,stand up and fight the battle for one's love.👎🏼
It may feel totally romantic and colourful in the initial stages but this Romantic world would definetly come crashing down when reality strikes hard.
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Being in love and being in a lifelong commitment of marriage are two different situations.
If you do love someone go ahead tell the world, be damn sure of your committment and then get married. This would be my advice
Coming to this series about Gunjan &Mayank,. Gunjan being the more mature and stable one😒 should be able to convince Mayank that the the entire issue of eloping& a secret marriage is wrong .

There is no happiness & prosperity in a married life without the blessings and love of the near & dear ones😭
This is the least we can expect from Gunjan! Do you agree?❓
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Awesome post...I think sm is a fairy tale at the end u will happy in dream but in real life there lot of problems came when you stand in front of society and yours parents...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Wow Vibha! What a post! 😎

Well firstly, I believe marriage is an institution that needs to be shown to the world. Not necessarily anything big, but atleast make it known. Hence, I'm absolutely against any sort of marriage done in secrecy for whatever the reason may be. 🤓

I can understand about your viewpoint when you were younger, since the movies didn't help at all! 😆 But like you did, I did and alot of people did, we grow up to witness the results of these marriages either first hand or otherwise. So its only natural for Gunjan and Mayank to feel this whole secret marriage is highly important and romantic, since they are, afterall, extremely young.

Hmmm...personal experiences... 🤣 Never had thoughts of a secret marriage.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I think the marriage will be stopped before it happens. After all her uncle is having people look for them.

I understand Mayank's thought process, though flawed. He did try to make his Mother understand that he didn't want to get married, but she deduced it to cold feet instead of really listening. Still there will be a new set of problems if they go back and announce they've gotten married. Can't wait to watch the drama.

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