Usha...it is Usha right? This is shelly from the old SNS forum.
I was crazy but I guess I still am. He wrote me back but pretty soon my family left India and a good thing too because who knows what would have happened if I stayed close to him. We remained pen pals for years. Any time I went back to India I found ways to "see" him. During college we lost touch. There were lots of other "crushes". He got married had kids. Then I got married and had kids. We didn't keep in touch. But I know everything about him because his family and mine are family friends. Some of my cousin feel it is their obligation to keep me in the loop about his life. I guess my crush wasn't all that secret.
I am crazy to still think about him!