Sibling jealousy taken too far

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I donot undersatnd why tv shows these days are trying to project young minds in a complicated way :(
Sibling jealousy is a known term and a known issue amongst siblings but all siblings do overcome this and live happily ever after (atleast most of them) ....I have stopped wayching Bidaai regularly but sometimes i do stop while flipping channels and dont undersatnd Tammy's behavior. Why is she feeling insecure with Khushi and why does she ask her to get her own mom? If they were real sisters then also will her reaction be the same ??? in this case, Khushi and Tammy have always been together (not that Khushi was brought in later and tammy was asked to treat her as her sis) from birth and she should have been accustomed to Ragini's attention towards her as well but Tammy is shown being overly possessed with jealousy :(

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Posted: 15 years ago
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sibling jealousy is reality but the way it's being potrayed is so far-fetched and unfair to both kids, as it gives the impression that one is going to be negative and other positive.Kids should be shown as kids and having fun and fights and makeups as normal kids do.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Actually Bidaai CT's donot know human psycology.I have 2 nephews 1 neice each of which are below 9 years.They quarell and indeed make a whole lot of fuss when they come together but the very next day they forget everything and they are back to normal.Small children in this age donot keep jealousy etc since their nature is like that and in this stage their memory power is still growing only.Only after 10 years, it is said that we remember clearly incidents that take place in our life.All the rest, we have only a small idea of what happened.
Bidaai is showing extra ordinary things...Earlier the CT's where hell bent on destroying Ragini's character by showing her extra sad when Ranvir went to jail...I still don't understand why she blamed Sadhna and was so angry towards her.Now it's Tammy's turn and not to forget that Bidaai CT's are the same...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i dont think they are trying to show sibling jealously, its way beyond their age and mental capabilities (although khushi's mentality seems to have excelled by 10yrs or so). what they've tried to show is that tammy has been on the recieving end of all misunderstandings (which could have and should have been cleared) and the poor child is confused and feels insecure, not because of khushi herself but because of how differently they are treated.

i think tammy's character is absolutely human but the same cant be said for khushi, and the way they have protrayed this whole thing is quite misleading so it makes tammy look really bad...this is just my opinion, who knows i might be completely wrong!

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: ding_dong

Actually Bidaai CT's donot know human psycology.I have 2 nephews 1 neice each of which are below 9 years.They quarell and indeed make a whole lot of fuss when they come together but the very next day they forget everything and they are back to normal.Small children in this age donot keep jealousy etc since their nature is like that and in this stage their memory power is still growing only.Only after 10 years, it is said that we remember clearly incidents that take place in our life.All the rest, we have only a small idea of what happened.

Bidaai is showing extra ordinary things...Earlier the CT's where hell bent on destroying Ragini's character by showing her extra sad when Ranvir went to jail...I still don't understand why she blamed Sadhna and was so angry towards her.Now it's Tammy's turn and not to forget that Bidaai CT's are the same...



Well said elsa. It is true why they showing tammy like this
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Bidaai is a great big joke now. This is part of the joke...the crazy portrayal of children...children are supposed to be very forgive and forget, and they don't hold grudges like grown ups.

Although I'm a Salekhian and have obvious reasons for HATING Alekh's remarriage to this new character...another reason I hate it is because they are doing it for Khushi...and Sadhna herself left Khushi to RAGINI. In my opinion, NO ONE can be a better mother to Khushi than Ragini, except Sadhna.

I don't watch the show anymore...but it's heartbreaking that Khushi cannot be raised until her last day in her parents home by Ragini...that would have been the ultimate tribute to Sagini...but they broke Sagini, might as well break this bond too...

Again. Sadhna gave Khushi to RAGINI...they didn't even shwo her soul visiting Alekh and saying..."please take care of our baby"...no she went to RAGINI...and they are ending that now.


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