Precap for 8/20/10:Mod's note PG8 - Page 3

Originally posted by: Lennie

The reason she went against Mamaji at the wedding was for the family and Ragini - there is your biggest proof there, what and who Sadhna was doing it for, however much is hurted her to hurt her Mamaji who means the world to her

I didn't get you. I know that Sadhna didn't marry Aalekh for herself (Although, I wished she did!)..But still, her motives were wrong. She shouldn't have thought so much about Ragini or RagVir that she very easily could forget that Aalekh was a human as well. But anyway, it (the marriage) turned out to be good for both of them..So, I really shouldn't be complaining. 😆

Originally posted by: Lennie

The reason she went against Mamaji at the wedding was for the family and Ragini - there is your biggest proof there, what and who Sadhna was doing it for, however much is hurted her to hurt her Mamaji who means the world to her

She was doing everything for her jiji and her bright future. But there was no guarantee and to be honest I thought that RagVir will marry due to the condition and Ragini will suffer cos Ranveer won't accept her so easily. Then Kaushi and Nani curse Sadhana even more. But fortunately this didn't happen. In fact RagVir is the only couple in the show who married for love.

@Ashrozia and Lennie..

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

@Ashrozia and Lennie..

MY pov is both Sadhna and Sakshi gave in to Vasu's terms definitely, but Vasu never forced them. Vasu as a business woman dealt with them and fulfilled her promise (except Ragini's marriage), Sadhna or Sakshi both gave in because they were majboor.

But its upto us to judge. To me Sadhna's intention was never her personal gain, I mean her OWN gain...whereas Sakshi is thinking how to run away with the jewelleries to settle down with Tarun. And Sadhna was gried sticken, when she found out that her wish would get fulfilled, thus she went to the temple.She came back to Alekh, even when Vasu gave her option that she might leave Alekh.

Sadhna never schemed and planned against Vasu or Alekh...

Just watch the episode again. lol She left the house saying that what's left for her here. Then in the temple she got her senses back.

Originally posted by: Ashrozia

I didn't get you. I know that Sadhna didn't marry Aalekh for herself (Although, I wished she did!)..But still, her motives were wrong. She shouldn't have thought so much about Ragini or RagVir that she very easily could forget that Aalekh was a human as well. But anyway, it (the marriage) turned out to be good for both of them..So, I really shouldn't be complaining. 😆

I agree that Sadhna put Ragini above Alekh, but I feel when she signed the divorce papers, Alekh already passed her a verdict that "had he been normal, he would have never married Sadhna". Alekh was preparing to get married to Mallika due to Vasu's insistence I admit, there was nothing left for the marriage. Thats the reason when Alekh broke his engagement to Mallika after getting evidences against Vasu, Sadhna said "aaj hum ek hain, kaal phir alag hp jayengey"...because they both needed to work on their marriage. It was their misfortune that due to other people's influence, such a relationship turned sour.

@OmShanti1111 (Why did you call me Ashrozia?! 😡.😆)

Anyway..Yeah, I know the motives are totally different. But all I am trying to say is, selfish or selfless..Neither of them thought about Aalekh. That was/is wrong. Because, they were getting married to Aalekh, and his well being should have been their first concern.

Originally posted by: Lennie

The only way i can see Sakshi change is being in this family, and seeing the love and how these ppl are, esp Ragini, Anmol and Alekh and how much love they have for everyone

This could change Sakshi and her whole-being

Sakshi is a good person, we know - she isnt fully bad or evil

Sakshi is blind to all other thing except Tarun..she is emotionally attached to him and does not see any bad in his motif, as she is completely blinded...she needs to see the other side of love...and I am pretty sure, she will change once she gets to know more about Sadhna's character. ragini did a right thing, she explained to Sakshi clearly what Sadhna was...

Originally posted by: Ashrozia

@OmShanti1111 (Why did you call me Ashrozia?! 😡.😆)

Anyway..Yeah, I know the motives are totally different. But all I am trying to say is, selfish or selfless..Neither of them thought about Aalekh. That was/is wrong. Because, they were getting married to Aalekh, and his well being should have been their first concern.

sorry,...ASH...😉

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

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<div></div>I agree that Sadhna put Ragini above Alekh, but I feel when she signed the divorce papers, Alekh already passed her a verdict that "had he been normal, he would have never married Sadhna". Alekh was preparing to get married to Mallika due to Vasu's insistence I admit, there was nothing left for the marriage. Thats the reason when Alekh broke his engagement to Mallika after getting evidences against Vasu, Sadhna said "aaj hum ek hain, kaal phir alag hp jayengey"...because they both needed to work on their marriage. It was their misfortune that due to other people's influence, such a relationship turned sour.

I agree. It shouldn't have been that way...But then, no story without it, LOL! 😆
At the end, they are/were made for each other..😊

Originally posted by: Ashrozia

@OmShanti1111 (Why did you call me Ashrozia?! 😡.😆)

Anyway..Yeah, I know the motives are totally different. But all I am trying to say is, selfish or selfless..Neither of them thought about Aalekh. That was/is wrong. Because, they were getting married to Aalekh, and his well being should have been their first concern.

Both married Alekh for their own majbooris and I feel noone can blame Vasu. Vasu offered them a deal, and both acceoted...only difference is Sadhna never schemed or planned, and when you categorise the majboori, you will understand what I am trying to say...