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Posted: 15 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: itsybitsy

I feel sorry for Ragini after watching today's episode, but I was not very convinced the way she handled the whole fairy thing. She should go and talk to khushi about why she sacrificed her fairy role and correct her, but nothing like that happened. When Ragini said today to Tammy that I am your mumma and khushi's masima, it was not good. I was expecting her to say, how can I love her more than you because both of you are my kids and my eyes, haha a filmy dailogue . This clearly shows her distinction between Tammy and Khushi. She never scolds khushi because she takes khushi as Sadhna's daughter and Tammy as hers, thats why she has a right on Tammy and not khushi. This is where I feel she lacked as a mother to khushi.

Also other people like Kaushi and all are trying to convince Ragini to focus more on Tammy otherwise she feels ignored because there is not enough time to focus on both? What about people who have 2 kids or twins, don't they raise both of them?

Yes, all in all it is a setting for Sakshi to enter, but I wish this issue had been treated better.



Couldn't agree more. There is another thing I noticed in kite flying and mall incident that she only scolded Tammy and didn't say anything to Khushi. OK, it was Tammy's idea but still Khushi was her partner in crime. No matter who's idea it is, the whole group gets the punishment and that's where she went wrong.
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Posted: 15 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: itsybitsy

I feel sorry for Ragini after watching today's episode, but I was not very convinced the way she handled the whole fairy thing. She should go and talk to khushi about why she sacrificed her fairy role and correct her, but nothing like that happened. When Ragini said today to Tammy that I am your mumma and khushi's masima, it was not good. I was expecting her to say, how can I love her more than you because both of you are my kids and my eyes, haha a filmy dailogue . This clearly shows her distinction between Tammy and Khushi. She never scolds khushi because she takes khushi as Sadhna's daughter and Tammy as hers, thats why she has a right on Tammy and not khushi. This is where I feel she lacked as a mother to khushi.

Also other people like Kaushi and all are trying to convince Ragini to focus more on Tammy otherwise she feels ignored because there is not enough time to focus on both? What about people who have 2 kids or twins, don't they raise both of them?

Yes, all in all it is a setting for Sakshi to enter, but I wish this issue had been treated better.

Ragini loves both the kids equally, but since she is a masima to one and ma to another, things seem more complecated for her. If she loves Tammy more, she gets blamed as Khushi is not her own child. And when she pampers Khushi more, she is blamed of ignoring Tamanna. Even I was feeling the same the other day, its natural. Its just the cirsumstance and the situation that is bit complicated for everyone now...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I understand, but Ragini needs to be strong now. If she knows in her heart that she is fair to both, she should have no fear of what others say. I have no doubt that she loves both dearly but thats what not that comes across. I for once wanted Ragini to scold khushi for the fairy incident and correct her. When mamaji was raising Sadhna and Ragini, didn't he scold Sadhna if she did something wrong. He never gave in even though kaushi was so negative to Sadhna. I wanted to see the same strength in Ragini.
Also I want her to convince Tammy that khushi is her daughter same way as Tammy is, so that she can learn to share with khushi.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: itsybitsy



I understand, but Ragini needs to be strong now. If she knows in her heart that she is fair to both, she should have no fear of what others say. I have no doubt that she loves both dearly but thats what not that comes across. I for once wanted Ragini to scold khushi for the fairy incident and correct her. When mamaji was raising Sadhna and Ragini, didn't he scold Sadhna if she did something wrong. He never gave in even though kaushi was so negative to Sadhna. I wanted to see the same strength in Ragini.
Also I want her to convince Tammy that khushi is her daughter same way as Tammy is, so that she can learn to share with khushi.

u r right...I think more than Khushi, Tamanna needs to be tackled first before any permanent damage is done. Ragini does not need to prove Tamanna anything, because she has been fair to her and Khushi both. Ragini and Anmol are already aware that what Tammy is passing through. IF Tammy is not corrected now by thinking she is different, the child's life will be spoiled. Today she is insecure about Khushi but tomorrow it can be someone else, she cannot get whatever she wants. Tomorrow if Rgaini has another kid from Anmol, what will happen, might be Tammy will be a more grown up, but who knows she might not be ok. I saw a movie called ",aaina", inwhich it was shown how one sister always used to make way for the other, so once their dadi told their mother that "apni badi ko haarna sikha aur chhoti ko jeet na"...
Tammy is a child, she cannot be moulded in any direction. Its upto her parents now how to channelise her to the right direction
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Posted: 15 years ago
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My views after watching the epi
Feel sad for Rags and she is a mother so its obvious she would be shattered after learning all this.So nothing wrong with crying her heart out and as usual Parul excelled once again

Though Tamanna'a actions are far from a 7 year old,of the two she seems to be behaving like a normal kid

As for Khushi,her concern seems to be only Tamanna which I feel is being repetitive.There is no new soch here.

As for Rags being a good mother,she is no doubt but why is she so clueless when it comes to her own kids?I could straight away say just by looking at my daughter as to what happened and if she is okay or not.It's instinct and a mother's instinct work wonders.Once again its gross injustice to Rags character.Characters might come and go but Rags always suffers due to bad characterization.And am not talking abt the crying part cos that's the sisters forte.

As for AnGini's hug,pure and comforting and there was nothing wrong.She was overcome by grief and needed someone and Anmol is always there for her
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: itsybitsy

I feel sorry for Ragini after watching today's episode, but I was not very convinced the way she handled the whole fairy thing. She should go and talk to khushi about why she sacrificed her fairy role and correct her, but nothing like that happened. When Ragini said today to Tammy that I am your mumma and khushi's masima, it was not good. I was expecting her to say, how can I love her more than you because both of you are my kids and my eyes, haha a filmy dailogue . This clearly shows her distinction between Tammy and Khushi. She never scolds khushi because she takes khushi as Sadhna's daughter and Tammy as hers, thats why she has a right on Tammy and not khushi. This is where I feel she lacked as a mother to khushi.

Also other people like Kaushi and all are trying to convince Ragini to focus more on Tammy otherwise she feels ignored because there is not enough time to focus on both? What about people who have 2 kids or twins, don't they raise both of them?

Yes, all in all it is a setting for Sakshi to enter, but I wish this issue had been treated better.



No one advised me to concentrate on just one daughter lol.Theae faltoo dialogues bhi na.. 🥱
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Posted: 15 years ago
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No one advised me to concentrate on just one daughter lol.Theae faltoo dialogues bhi na.. 🥱



I know Smitha, these people don't think logically, they just show anything to move the story. anyway, what else to expect from these soaps sigh. I know some things need to be dramatized but not basic common sense, haha.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I know me too giving her a BIG hug..
She was in deep sorrow that she misses Sadhana soo much !!

She will get all the strength and I am sure she will become stronger after today's breakdown.

IT WAS needed and she will get her strength back and see how best she can care for both the girls

And ofcourse Anmol is always there for her !!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ashrozia

U know, she did say that today..She said that.."Jabhi mein kuch acha karne jaati hoon, kuch bura ho jata hain" She said that when she was talking about all of it to Kaushi!

Gosh! Seems like I have by hearted the whole episode..Hehe!

Oh, there was an AnGini moment today too..Very special :)



U know Kez,we should ask the CT's reg this.She does everything she has to do but falters somewhere!!!She who used to be so intuitive of her parents and could easily read the worries of her parents esp looking at them was so oblivious to them when kaushi looked so bad in the rift track.And the same here.As a mother who brought up her kids so lovingly couldn't read her daughter's faces!That I find it unbelievable.U ask any mother and they will tell u that they could read their kids like a open book.Once again injustice!Seems never ending!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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ragini was absolutely right when she said that tammy is the opposite of ragini......ragini never felt jealous of sadhna growing up......sadhna got a lot of love from mamaji but ragini didnt react the way tamana is reacting....... i guess tammy is more like kaushi.

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