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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: fanbidaai

As much as i like Alekh he needs to go back to being normal again for his daughters sake. she needs the love of her father and we all know he would act as both, i was hoping to see a father and daughter relationship of a normal kind.

lets hope something drastic happens soon that Alekh will come out of his child like behaviour and back to being a man..

i agree, ok sadhna passed away, but life will move on, they sh find a way to solve his mental imbalance....and become stronger and take care of khushi and give her both mom's n dad's love.....i would love that...
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Posted: 15 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: reguser

Staying with mamaji at KN?😲 It will worsen the situation. How can she live with people like KAushi? Her life will be like Sadhna's. Though I respect mamaji's values, he doesnt speak up when his wife goes into selfish mode. He tries but always is helpless.
Best for Khushi for the time being is to be with Vasu. Though I hated Vasu during her hatred towards Sadhna, I know only Vasu can do justice to Khushi. After all, Khushi is her Alekh's daughter. And when it comes to her own kids, Vasu can do anything. She can buy the teacher also and make two-two paris 😆

Having someone's support is much better than not having anything. If Khushi stays at mamaji's house, I dont think kaushi will treat khushi like sadhna. Kaushi's all main concern is for tammy. If tammy is fine at rajvansh house, then why do you think she will mistreat khushi? Does she not forget the sadhna's sacrifices? Even if khushi stays at rajvansh's house, ragini,and others will think of tammy itself since *color issues* are coming ahead of her. then what about khushi? And giving bribe to teacher and making two paris wont affect much on khushi-tammy's relationship. How many times do you think vasu will come and save the day? She herself is bad at reacting to some situations. She never thinks ahead of her heart and giving all the responsibilities to vasu, will be like giving an opportunity to ruin relationships.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I was disappointed because when the teacher told Ragini that khushi has low self confidence and hence she wants to give the role to her than tammy who has no lack of confidence and can do any role, Ragini was only worried that tammy might feel bad and how she will react and she was relaxed when she thought tammy was happy for khushi, but how come she never asked khushi why her confidence is low or never tried to find out? Buying same things for both or making her fav dishes does not make her a mother to khushi if she cannot feel or see the emptiness inside khushi. I hope she realises it soon.

Vasu and Inderjeet are too engrossed in their lives. I don't know how Anmol is going to react but so far doesn't look like khushi is open to Anmol. There is no one except Aalekh who can do justice to khushi as a parent. Hope he gets normal soon.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: priya_sparsha

Having someone's support is much better than not having anything. If Khushi stays at mamaji's house, I dont think kaushi will treat khushi like sadhna. Kaushi's all main concern is for tammy. If tammy is fine at rajvansh house, then why do you think she will mistreat khushi? Does she not forget the sadhna's sacrifices? Even if khushi stays at rajvansh's house, ragini,and others will think of tammy itself since *color issues* are coming ahead of her. then what about khushi? And giving bribe to teacher and making two paris wont affect much on khushi-tammy's relationship. How many times do you think vasu will come and save the day? She herself is bad at reacting to some situations. She never thinks ahead of her heart and giving all the responsibilities to vasu, will be like giving an opportunity to ruin relationships.

You are right about Vasu. But, I dont agree with Khushi staying with mamaji in KN. Khushi has her own house and her father is still alive. However he is, he is the heir of RV empire and Khushi's rights are above all because entire thing belongs to her father. So why should she stay with outsiders? She has to live in her own house with all the rights.
Ragini is a good mother to Khushi. But, at times she looses confidence in herself and starts worrying. She just needs to come out of this and start judging the situation in an unbiased manner. I hope with Anmol's support, she will do that.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: itsybitsy

I was disappointed because when the teacher told Ragini that khushi has low self confidence and hence she wants to give the role to her than tammy who has no lack of confidence and can do any role, Ragini was only worried that tammy might feel bad and how she will react and she was relaxed when she thought tammy was happy for khushi, but how come she never asked khushi why her confidence is low or never tried to find out? Buying same things for both or making her fav dishes does not make her a mother to khushi if she cannot feel or see the emptiness inside khushi. I hope she realises it soon.

Vasu and Inderjeet are too engrossed in their lives. There is no one except Aalekh who can do justice to khushi as a parent. Hope he gets normal soon.

This is something I'm looking forward too👍🏼. Child like khushi mostly is to have low confidence because she doesnt have parents ( although one isnt stable). Imagine, everytime, tammy hugs ragini and calling her " ma" and anmol "papa". Khushi truly is completly empty inside.She has everyone in her life( except mother), yet she feels the emptiness because others arent "connecting* to her. Probably only mamaji can be savior because no-one smartly tackles these situations like mamaji in this show.This track truly shows how much parents love is important for a child. Its impossible to fill mother's love for a child but I hope alekh gets normal and start taking up responsibilities
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: reguser

You are right about Vasu. But, I dont agree with Khushi staying with mamaji in KN. Khushi has her own house and her father is still alive. However he is, he is the heir of RV empire and Khushi's rights are above all because entire thing belongs to her father. So why should she stay with outsiders? She has to live in her own house with all the rights.
Ragini is a good mother to Khushi. But, at times she looses confidence in herself and starts worrying. She just needs to come out of this and start judging the situation in an unbiased manner. I hope with Anmol's support, she will do that.

I agree with the rights but what is important more? giving rights to the child or making her feel like their own? And living in that house, as grandparents do you vasu-indu are doing anything? Is alekh fullfilling duties as a father? Ragini is in huge well with bunch of problems around with her remarriage, vasu's ego and what not. Which is why mamaji asked ragini if she will be able to do justice to both the kids. He knows whats coming more than anyone else.
Ragini needs to be more strong. Crying in her bedroom and thinking of why she didnt do something is utterly total waste. She needs to stand firm and anmol can only help her out.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: reguser



<div>You are right about Vasu. But, I dont agree with Khushi staying with mamaji in KN. Khushi has her own house and her father is still alive. However he is, he is the heir of RV empire and Khushi's rights are above all because entire thing belongs to her father. So why should she stay with outsiders? She has to live in her own house with all the rights.

Ragini is a good mother to Khushi. But, at times she looses confidence in herself and starts worrying. She just needs to come out of this and start judging the situation in an unbiased manner. I hope with Anmol's support, she will do that.



I am not convinced about Ragini being a good mother to khushi. She needs to feel the emptiness inside khushi which I don't see. However I agree she is dealing with too much. I think its time she lets go her past and work with Anmol to be a good mother to both the kids. She cannot do it alone, she needs guidance and help and that is where Anmol can fit in just like Ranvir guided her, specially with Kaushi brainwashing her. I know its hard for her but she has to do it for the sake of kids. It will benefit both Tamanna and khushi.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: priya_sparsha

I agree with the rights but what is important more? giving rights to the child or making her feel like their own? And living in that house, as grandparents do you vasu-indu are doing anything? Is alekh fullfilling duties as a father? Ragini is in huge well with bunch of problems around with her remarriage, vasu's ego and what not. Which is why mamaji asked ragini if she will be able to do justice to both the kids. He knows whats coming more than anyone else.
Ragini needs to be more strong. Crying in her bedroom and thinking of why she didnt do something is utterly total waste. She needs to stand firm and anmol can only help her out.

Alekh though can not fulfill his duties as father, is a big security for Khushi. Just like how he was a big security for Sadhna after marriage.
It is high time for Ragini to act strong. Dont know what is wrong with Vasu, may be she is not able to come out of her pain. And no use of mentioning about Indu. He is a total waste character in Bidai so far.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I KNOW...its heart breaking!!! shes such a cute kid!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

After reading the update, I really feel sad for Khushi, the way she tried to talk to Tamanna, the way she talked to Ragini and the way she explained to Alekh that she wants to tear the dress. I dont think anyone can understand the pain that is hidden in Khushi, everyone is so busy with Tamanna.

I dont think Ragini can really act as a mother to Khushi, unless something drastic happens. She cannot even read the pain of Khushi. Khushi will be the worst sufferer in all these, just like her mom was. My heart cried without even seeing the episode for the child.
Khushi really needs a mother or father..or else, her life will be just like Sadhna. And I hope, she gets someone strong as her mother or Alekh gets normal. Even if Sadhna was alive, I dont think she would have placed Khushi's happiness over Ragini or Tamanna's///
I am just crying for this child, theoritically, she has everyone but practically she has noone. She has only Alekh, but unfortunately he is not normal.

I am crying after reading ur post

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