Kaaaushi Ji Zara Dhirre Chalououou... - Page 6

Originally posted by: reguser

Janani of Racism 😆

Exactly that is true dear ... isnt it?

Originally posted by: Ice-Thinker

Exactly that is true dear ... isnt it?

Tell me .. who actually instilled with sense of Racism around Bidaai? ... Who took the oath of torture FAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAR before Vasu came in.

Who made Ragini realise that she was supposed to be the ugly one ... who made Sadhna think that she was the reason of all of Ragini's pain and potential pain?

Now, all over again ... who is adamant to sow the seed of hatred between Tamanna and Khushi? ... This young heart, if once get touched by this seed ... then slowly this seed will grow into a great poison tree... and oneday a fruit will come too.... just like we've seen during the rift track.

Although I hope not ... but she seems to be keen so that someway she can PLANT
THAT SEED ... and I fear she might just be successful.

So true.....

very true u guys..she created problems for BOTH ragini and sadhna long before vasu came into the picture..atleast vasu used to care atleast a wee bit abt sadhna..bt not kaushi...

Kaushiji should read this this girl's story.Very well written.
"Self-confidence comes from within".
This is w.r.t this post calling Americans racist. I wanted to share with you my experiences on racism. Let me introduce myself. I am Ms X , born and grew up in central cindia. I moved to the States when i was 20. I am 26 today. I was born dark skinned. This could be the story of any indian girl. From the day i was born, my mom tried different oils, lotions to change my skin color. Everyone ridiculed my mom for giving birth to a dark girl. Everyone told her it would be difficult to find a groom for her as she is very dark. This would trouble my mom and she tried everything to change my skin color. I was born intelligent. I topped most of the competitions at school. I was a good orator. When i was in my 4th grade, my teacher told me she could not give me the role of cinderalla for our school day function as i was dark and they wanted a fair skinned girl. They chose a fair cinderalla over me who could not even deliver her lines. I went home heartbroken. The next year i was chosen for a dance performance for a school show. One of the teachers asked me to not stand in the front row as i was dark and they wanted pretty girls in the front. I was asked to move back. Imagine what a 5th grader would have gone through. Anyways as i turned into a teenager, my confidence was at rock bottom. I was dark you see. That is like almost the end of the world you see. I tried all sorts of things only to realize nothing in this world can change your skin color. I kind of got used to people calling me dark. At 20 i got admission at a very prestigious university in US for higher studies. I landed here. Out in US, not one single day was i told i was dark. Everyone around me were so appreciative of my other skills apart from my skin color. I met a very handsome guy whom i started dating. My confidence slowly built up thanks to this guy . I am soon going to marry him. In US I was never told a single day by anyone that i was dark. Infact a white girls came to me and once complimented me for my healthy skin. I am not making this up BTW. The reason i wrote this was because i saw so many comments here saying Americans are racist. Hell no. We Indians are the most racist people in the world, we dont realize it. In US there are laws against racism. In India there is not one single law that will protect a dark skinned girl from being ridiculed. It is just accepted as being OK to say you are dark. So people before you comment saying she is dark and ugly- think of what you will be doing to the 100s of girls in india who are dark skinned. You will be shattering their egos, bruising their self confidence and they will be scarred for life. Today I work as a developer at google . I consider myself beautiful and am very confident. It took me years to realize that self-confidence comes from within.
http://www.pinkvilla.com/beauty/skin-care/my-experience-racism-india-and-usa

Purehearts,thanks for the article.

And I agree 100% with that!

We raise such hue and cry over westerners being racist,but we need to look at ourselves first.

Good for that girl and the man she found to spend her life with!

@Purehearts:

Originally posted by: Purehearts

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2">Smitha, I feel Bidaai this time around needs to suggest a solutions for racial issue and help our society than making it a plague!</font>

Nice point!

Why not RS do it this time instead of treading the same old path!

It would be like a slap on the faces of people like Kaushi!

What needs to happen for her to change???It's disgusting!!!!!

What new measure to make Kaushi realise would you suggest smitha? =) ...

IT-Really I am at loss!

In UK they are showing the ep where Sadhana asks Mamaji and Mamiji to hide her pregnancy,she was so damn nice but after watching her recent'old' behaviour again that all seems so nauseating

Tamanna could straighten her.The good words coming from her grand daughter's mouth at this young age might shut her once and for all!But tamanna is just a kid and for now seems for the first time facing the discrimination so it might take her some time to adjust to all this.

Mamaji tries but often fails with her,Ragini is not expecting(as to why I don't know since she already felt uncomfortable when kaushi was saying all those things) so I am hoping to see her granddaughter doing something.But it seems we have to wait for a long time to see that!