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"Egocentrism" is the extensive and continuous use of the "I, ME, MYSELF" words, its a reflection of ones personality. While conversing with a person, one can easily make out the basic nature of that person, simply by listening whether the person comfortably uses the word " main/I " or the word "hum/WE", whether the person stands there with head held high and derives pleasure when people appreciate him/her or make excuses to make a move out of that place, so as to stay humble at heart.....
Egocentrism is a common phenomenon and its considered natural till the age of seven. But beyond the age, some people still hold back to this concept and always use the words "main/mera"...Like "if I am there, nothing can happen", "I can stop this", "I'll do this and get the credit"...its always I, me, myself rather than we/usourselves....
The behaviour of an egocentric is time and circumstance dependent, they never remain consistent, whatever the situation might be,good or bad, they always use words "main/mera".
Unconsciously, these sort of persons always see a competition with anyone, and tries to prove themselves superior by trying to control situations and people associated.The egocentric is shallow, often lacking the staying power to achieve long range goals. Defensive, easily angered, jealous, they suffer living in the comparatively small world of fragile ego, they always try to balance and satisfy both groups.
Just like a negative vice grows unintentionally in a person, similarly this continuous use of "main/mera" very often grow to become a "large ego", especially when the word "main" is used too much. A true humble person is one, who never boasts of her good intentions or good doings, rather let actions speak, a true humble gesture is one, where the person does "Karma" silently and leaves that "Karma" to be judged by God...
Egocentrism is a common phenomenon and its considered natural till the age of seven. But beyond the age, some people still hold back to this concept and always use the words "main/mera"...Like "if I am there, nothing can happen", "I can stop this", "I'll do this and get the credit"...its always I, me, myself rather than we/usourselves....
The behaviour of an egocentric is time and circumstance dependent, they never remain consistent, whatever the situation might be,good or bad, they always use words "main/mera".
Unconsciously, these sort of persons always see a competition with anyone, and tries to prove themselves superior by trying to control situations and people associated.The egocentric is shallow, often lacking the staying power to achieve long range goals. Defensive, easily angered, jealous, they suffer living in the comparatively small world of fragile ego, they always try to balance and satisfy both groups.
Just like a negative vice grows unintentionally in a person, similarly this continuous use of "main/mera" very often grow to become a "large ego", especially when the word "main" is used too much. A true humble person is one, who never boasts of her good intentions or good doings, rather let actions speak, a true humble gesture is one, where the person does "Karma" silently and leaves that "Karma" to be judged by God...
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