Eavesdropping Expert Ragi Strike Again (NOTE: PG 14) - Page 7

Originally posted by: chocolover89

Vishmewell, I know that you are also personally attacked quite a few times because people find it hard to digest your opinion on Sadhna, and that you have full rights to express your opinion since this is a public forum, but I don't think it was nice of you to kinda imply that people might have "schizophrenia." Maybe it's not what you meant, as its hard to tell on the internet because we don't see the person actually talking, and hence don't hear the tone, but that's what it came across as, atleast to me..of course I can be wrong..

I think I might understand where you're coming from though...but I don't think it was the right way to put it and ended up offending people, including me😛😃

chocolover, when have I made personal attacks? show me instances. On the contrary it is other way round. But I always ignore and try to be civil.

If people hate my guts for expressing the facts it is not my problem. I don't need to name but famous in IF for their bullying nature and picking fights with people and making personal attacks over a fictional character. But i still dont react. Yesterday, they were innumerable attacks on me. Where were you then? The way Bani reacted was ridiculous, immature. Why could you not quote that post and ask her why she attacked me over a fictitious character? How do you explain or entertain that?

Always they attack me and I kept an attitude "The dog barks on and Caravan goes on". She overreacted and blew out of proportion. Not Bani, or no force on earth can or will take away Fundamental and Human rights as long as I am not making personal comments.

If this forum could not accept my comment on a fictional character, how convenient anybody can make personal attack on real person?... 😳
How could you not apply the same principle to a fictional character before calling me names or bashing me or attacking me??? 😳

Are we saying fictional characters are more valuable than real people, emotions and relationships? 😳😳 Are we living a virtual life?😳 Is it ok to associate ourselves with a fictional character? 😳 So where do we draw a line between real and fictional?😳 where do we draw a line to apply etiquettes? 😳

should one not apply these principles to the reactions to decide what is right and what is wrong?😳 I know you are very sensible to understand what I mean... 😳😳

She enraged me today over something I did not say or mean..

This is the limit... I AM ON RAMPAGE...

Originally posted by: reguser

Vish, I am really surprised with this. I really dont want to comment you personally. Because I understand the rules and regulations of IF. But only one thing I can say is, you not only misunderstand fictitious characters like Sadhna but you dont understand the real good people in the forum. Do you really know you are taking support from what kind of people? Just go to RS blog and see once. They are not even bothered whether you are right or wrong, but they are supporting you because you are calling someone Schizophrenia and which they couldnt have told directly.

Sorry Jyothi and Eva, for violating some of IF rules. I am not hurt because of any fictional characters, I dont mind any opinions from any viewers. But, I always found Bani's posts are positive and inspiring. So felt bad seeing this kind of attack. Some do these kind of direct attacks and some do indirect attacks. This is not a healthy atmosphere. Hence, I wrote. Again, big sorry from my side.

This is the same reason why I thought it can lead to another Salekh and Ragvir fans fight!
Vish and Bani you are two important members in the forum.Vish though I find your way of expressing instigating , I still get your frustration about Sadhana, I can understand it.I like your guts!
Bani you excel with your writing skills.To be honest you writing make many jealous about Sadhana esp., those who are Anti-Sadhana.
Guys lets not argue and hurt each other!

Originally posted by: reguser

Vish, I am really surprised with this. I really dont want to comment you personally. Because I understand the rules and regulations of IF. But only one thing I can say is, you not only misunderstand fictitious characters like Sadhna but you dont understand the real good people in the forum. Do you really know you are taking support from what kind of people? Just go to RS blog and see once. They are not even bothered whether you are right or wrong, but they are supporting you because you are calling someone Schizophrenia and which they couldnt have told directly.

Sorry Jyothi and Eva, for violating some of IF rules. I am not hurt because of any fictional characters, I dont mind any opinions from any viewers. But, I always found Bani's posts are positive and inspiring. So felt bad seeing this kind of attack. Some do these kind of direct attacks and some do indirect attacks. This is not a healthy atmosphere. Hence, I wrote. Again, big sorry from my side.

@ she assumed it... If someone misinterprets, and go"CHOR KI DAADI MEIN TINKA" hoea I responsible.

@ blue - if someone supporting me, they supporting real human being. Whereas you are supporting a person who is abusing a real person for a fictitious character. Are you seeing the difference here?

Originally posted by: Purehearts

This is the same reason why I thought it can lead to another Salekh and Ragvir fans fight!
Vish and Bani you are two important members in the forum.Vish though I find your way of expressing instigating , I still get your frustration about Sadhana, I can understand it.I like your guts!
Bani you excel with your writing skills.To be honest you writing make many jealous about Sadhana esp., those who are Anti-Sadhana.
Guys lets not argue and hurt each other!

@ red - You must go back and read how it started. Bani was the one started instigating people to fight with me over a fictitious character... Is she thinking I am timid coz all this time I didi not respond to personal attacks?

I want you to explain what I wrote in bold... This is about attacking me for a fictitious character... if you cant explain that... then DO NOT PASS YOUR OPINIONS ON ME...

Originally posted by: --Anu--

Yeah, I think what she really meant was that fans raise a ruckus for fictional characters but they don't care how hurtful their comments can be for a real person. They just fail to draw a line between a fictional character and a real person. After all there is a real person behind a virtual ID, such rude and harsh remarks are very hurtful.

That's exactly what I meant... Since yesterday she is on a rampage with her buddies attacking me...

Originally posted by: chocolover89

@ Anu

Yeah, I'll give her the benefit of the doubt...I don't think she meant in the way I ended up conceiving it..

OVer nothing she and her buddies collaboratively has been attacking me constantly since yesterday

Originally posted by: reguser

@Anu,

I too have argued with Vish about Vasu...but not even once I have called her Vasu. I know you may not be pointing towards me. Just wanted to clarify this with you, thats it. Infact, she once had written that people may call her as Vasu for which I replied that I will never compare her with Vasu.

I always liked to argue with her because I felt she has the courage to speak up for what she believes in. But, today she is taking support of what kind of people. I dont want to speak anything more than this.

Thanks reguser. I am the kind who laugh it off about anything and everything... It really takes a lot for someone to push my anger button. Today was the last straw and all limits were broken.

Originally posted by: vishmewell

chocolover, when have I made personal attacks? show me instances. On the contrary it is other way round. But I always ignore and try to be civil.

If people hate my guts for expressing the facts it is not my problem. I don't need to name but famous in IF for their bullying nature and picking fights with people and making personal attacks over a fictional character. But i still dont react. Yesterday, they were innumerable attacks on me. Where were you then? The way Bani reacted was ridiculous, immature. Why could you not quote that post and ask her why she attacked me over a fictitious character? How do you explain or entertain that?

Always they attack me and I kept an attitude "The dog barks on and Caravan goes on". She overreacted and blew out of proportion. Not Bani, or no force on earth can or will take away Fundamental and Human rights as long as I am not making personal comments.

If this forum could not accept my comment on a fictional character, how convenient anybody can make personal attack on real person?... 😳
How could you not apply the same principle to a fictional character before calling me names or bashing me or attacking me??? 😳

Are we saying fictional characters are more valuable than real people, emotions and relationships? 😳😳 Are we living a virtual life?😳 Is it ok to associate ourselves with a fictional character? 😳 So where do we draw a line between real and fictional?😳 where do we draw a line to apply etiquettes? 😳

should one not apply these principles to the reactions to decide what is right and what is wrong?😳 I know you are very sensible to understand what I mean... 😳😳

She enraged me today over something I did not say or mean..

This is the limit... I AM ON RAMPAGE...

Vish I understand your frustration. I really do! I wasn't saying that YOU personally attacked someone in particular. I was just saying the comment about "schozophrenia" can be misinterpreted and can actually be offending to someone. But I know what you really meant--that people in this forum fail to differentiate between real and fictitious people and go overboard in their defense for a character, and actually make personal attacks on others in their defense which can be very hurtful. I have never attacked you for your views on Sadhna or any other character for that matter as they are solely your opinion that you are entitled to and definately have the right to express them, and you always back it up! Whether people can take it or not is their problem!

Originally posted by: chocolover89

Vish I understand your frustration. I really do! I wasn't saying that YOU personally attacked someone in particular. I was just saying the comment about "schozophrenia" can be misinterpreted and can actually be offending to someone. But I know what you really meant--that people in this forum fail to differentiate between real and fictitious people and go overboard in their defense for a character, and actually make personal attacks on others in their defense which can be very hurtful. I have never attacked you for your views on Sadhna or any other character for that matter as they are solely your opinion that you are entitled to and definately have the right to express them, and you always back it up! Whether people can take it or not is their problem!

@bold

I guess all I can say is sorry!

Lols I've been saying it since yesterday that Bidaai is JUST a FICTIONAL show and not worth the time and effort to disrespect and hurt others over!

Apology not required. Take is easy yaar... enjoy a delicious piece of chocolate 😉

Originally posted by: vishmewell

Apology not required. Take is easy yaar... enjoy a delicious piece of chocolate 😉

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