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Posted: 15 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: serialjunkie



OR Sadhna saves Vasu, gets burnt in the process and wins Vasu's heart. Then some detective work from the awesome foursome reveals the truth behind the arson - Naveen/Avni!!


Will that not end Bidaai soon???
What about Anandji and Suman ji?Why did they enter Bidaai?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

I think sadhna should just disappear and make life easy for all, thats what is needed from her...I feel Alekh will be able to manage without her...


I agree, Bidaai has been contradicting itself, be it characters or plans or messages.
What happened to the most realistic show?😕
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

I agree...I wont speak much about Ragini here, ...but did u see how mysteric Rgaini became, when she came to know the truth...that guilt could not rest her unless she undid her wrongdoings.

but from Alekh my expectation is sky high, tahts the reason, when he is 99.99 % instead of 100% I feel bad. I do remember what all he did and thats the reason I feel how come he forgot his very reason to leave the house...if I remember correctly, he left because of Mother's injustice and today also that reason holds...did u listen to Vasu;s dialogues, about Sadhna ..she did "sadhna ek kaanta hain...kaante ko uthakar bahar kar dungee" that means Vasu's hatred for Sadhna holds ..alekh promised that he wont return to that house...he will not return, but what I want to say is did he himself remeber,...no..he needed to be reminded...what of he lands up to the RH, Vasu in front of him is nioce and behind him is torturing Sadhna?



but alekh HASN'T forgotten his reason bani. and no need to feel sad hun, he HAS given 100% IMO. 😉 you have to remember, he did NOT leave without sadi, NOR was he reminded of anything...i firmly believe he was gonna leave WITH sadi, but when he saw that sadi wasn't coming, he STOPPED. that's a huge, HUGE thing bani, you can't ignore that FACT.
yes, he probably knows that vasu still hates sadi, but its his MOTHER. try to put your shoes in the poor guys' shoes. also, its not like vasu has been nothing but loving towards him...she has also betrayed him many times, gave him lots of pain, sufferings, distress...yet, he is willing to go back to her, BUT, WITH sadi. he knows that vasu will probably still try to mistreat her, but at the same time, he is there, so he can stand up for sadi when needed. and most importantly, if history is anything to go by, sadi will UNDENIABLY win vasu back, and i think alekh knows that. he has faith in his sadi, and knows that she will eventually win vasu's heart. sometimes, our elders do wrong, make unjust decisions, and we, as their children, sometimes have to respond to such injustice with LOVE, not anger, even if they are wrong. uska haq banta hein, humare upar, and i think this is how alekh is thinking...he is not going to leave his sadi, but at the same time, he will work with his mother to change her mind about sadi. besides, like i said, i think he knows that such is sadi's character, that she, herself will accomplish this task. hence, him going back with sadi, brining sadi there, even though he knows how vasu still feels about her...and the funny thing is, vasu too is willing to bring her sons back to her, even if it means sadi coming with them as well...!!!
alekh just doesn't want to choose the path of pain and hatred anymore. he loves his wife, AND he loves his mother as well. and he's very lucky to have such a wife, who loves his mother too, so he knows she's willing to work things out with his mother, even if his mother doesn't want to. so really, i don't see anything wrong in that...
you have to understand, alekh is at a very difficult situation right now. the choices in front of him, they really are extremely, extremely UNFAIR; does he choose his mother, or does he choose his wife???!!!!! what kind of hell is that??? i know i could've NEVER chosen b/w my husband (once i'm married), and my mother. such a dilemma, such an option, should NEVER exist in anyone's life...
anyways. BUT, at this point, if alekh does decide to leave sadhna behind in order to reunite with his mother, that is when he will make the wrong decision, VERY WRONG decision!!!! this is why i have no problem with alekh returning to RV house, WITH sadhna, and i think that is what will happen in the end. he is NOT, EVER going to leave sadhna again (well, hopefully...lol).
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I think it would be helped the situation if Alekh would of talked to Sadhna first. Maybe, if he would of just asked her that I know my mom has done you wrong, but would you be willing to come back w/ me to RH? instead of him just assuming that Sadhna would follow him. He could of told her that have faith in me Sadhna. I don't know just the fact that none of the 3 thought about Sadhna just doesn't sit right w/ me.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: parul74

I think it would be helped the situation if Alekh would of talked to Sadhna first. Maybe, if he would of just asked her that I know my mom has done you wrong, but would you be willing to come back w/ me to RH? instead of him just assuming that Sadhna would follow him. He could of told her that have faith in me Sadhna. I don't know just the fact that none of the 3 thought about Sadhna just doesn't sit right w/ me.



i think them deciding to leave like that, assuming sadi will come with them, was out of like "heat of the moment", you know...? they were just very emotional at the time, so its understandable. plus, sadi too has been trying sooooooooo hard to reunite the sons with their mother, herself, AND, she seemed supportive of what ragi had done in her plan. therefore, i feel its only natural to assume what they assumed.
honestly, forgive me, but i think some of you are making a bigger deal out of this than there needs to be. its not like alekh just forgot about sadi, and LEFT. NO, that did NOT happen. he immediately stopped, and came back for sadi.
so parul, what you sadi about alekh talking to her about it, i think he will DEFINITELY do that. i think he will discuss it with sadi, and together, they'll all try to change vasu's feelings towards sadi. furthermore, i think the threesome have MORE THAN ENOUGH faith in sadi, and in her character, that she'll indeed win vasu's heart back. 😉
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: parul74

I think it would be helped the situation if Alekh would of talked to Sadhna first. Maybe, if he would of just asked her that I know my mom has done you wrong, but would you be willing to come back w/ me to RH? instead of him just assuming that Sadhna would follow him. He could of told her that have faith in me Sadhna. I don't know just the fact that none of the 3 thought about Sadhna just doesn't sit right w/ me.



you have got the nerves correct...I am pretty sure that Alekh will not go without Sdahna,..but I'ld have loved to see that Alekh had talked to Sadhna before just starting his walk towards Rajvansh house rather than stopping to ask why Sadhna is not coming? he could have resolved to visiting his mom daily and talking to her nicely everyday, before Vasu agrees to take them back as a couple....there could be hundred of ways to show love on his mother..

Sadhna agreed to Ragini's plan to lessen the distance between mother and son, but could probably never think that her Alekhji will never consider about her self respect before making a decision...

and thats what the creatives showed in the very next scene...that Vasu called Sdahna "kaanta" and how she will throw away that thorn from their lives...actually creatives wanted to prove that everyone takes Sadhna for granted, even Alekh

I am really laughing at those dialogues which Alekh uttered while leaving the house...that the house which does not respect Sadhna etc etc...anyways, that history now...

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: pricey28



i think them deciding to leave like that, assuming sadi will come with them, was out of like "heat of the moment", you know...? they were just very emotional at the time, so its understandable. plus, sadi too has been trying sooooooooo hard to reunite the sons with their mother, herself, AND, she seemed supportive of what ragi had done in her plan. therefore, i feel its only natural to assume what they assumed.
honestly, forgive me, but i think some of you are making a bigger deal out of this than there needs to be. its not like alekh just forgot about sadi, and LEFT. NO, that did NOT happen. he immediately stopped, and came back for sadi.
so parul, what you sadi about alekh talking to her about it, i think he will DEFINITELY do that. i think he will discuss it with sadi, and together, they'll all try to change vasu's feelings towards sadi. furthermore, i think the threesome have MORE THAN ENOUGH faith in sadi, and in her character, that she'll indeed win vasu's heart back. 😉



you have a valid point...but these small gestures of love and kindness bring lot of faith in a relationship...a couple does not need to say "I love u " everyday, but if they show little gestures of care, that means a lot...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Omshanti1111



you have got the nerves correct...I am pretty sure that Alekh will not go without Sdahna,..but I'ld have loved to see that Alekh had talked to Sadhna before just starting his walk towards Rajvansh house rather than stopping to ask why Sadhna is not coming? he could have resolved to visiting his mom daily and talking to her nicely everyday, before Vasu agrees to take them back as a couple....there could be hundred of ways to show love on his mother..

Sadhna agreed to Ragini's plan to lessen the distance between mother and son, but could probably never think that her Alekhji will never consider about her self respect before making a decision...

and thats what the creatives showed in the very next scene...that Vasu called Sdahna "kaanta" and how she will throw away that thorn from their lives...actually creatives wanted to prove that everyone takes Sadhna for granted, even Alekh

I am really laughing at those dialogues which Alekh uttered while leaving the house...that the house which does not respect Sadhna etc etc...anyways, that history now...



@red: WOW you really feel that strongly about it, huh? well, i STILL feel what alekh said about sadi, in that episode, is STILL true to this day, and all his hard work, all the pain, sufferings he's gone through for sadi, has NOT gone in vain, just cause he assumed sadi was gonna come with him.
seriosuly, give the guy a break...not only has he had to choose b/w his wife and mother, but look at all the other hardships he's had to go through to prove himself...once again, it was just out of like a "heat of the moment" thing, and i don't think this ruins "those little things that make a relationship stronger". plus, i think sadi's trust in alekh is much stronger than that, if u know what i mean.
anyways. i'll just leave my convo at that. if we still disagree here on after, i guess, this just means, we agree to disagree.... besides, i have lots of work i need to get done, so will take my leave for now. 😊

peace
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: pricey28



@red: WOW you really feel that strongly about it, huh? well, i STILL feel what alekh said about sadi, in that episode, is STILL true to this day, and all his hard work, all the pain, sufferings he's gone through for sadi, has NOT gone in vain, just cause he assumed sadi was gonna come with him.
seriosuly, give the guy a break...not only has he had to choose b/w his wife and mother, but look at all the other hardships he's had to go through to prove himself...once again, it was just out of like a "heat of the moment" thing, and i don't think this ruins "those little things that make a relationship stronger". plus, i think sadi's trust in alekh is much stronger than that, if u know what i mean.
anyways. i'll just leave my convo at that. if we still disagree here on after, i guess, this just means, we agree to disagree.... besides, i have lots of work i need to get done, so will take my leave for now. 😊

peace

Sadi truts Alekh?😕🤣
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: pricey28



@red: WOW you really feel that strongly about it, huh? well, i STILL feel what alekh said about sadi, in that episode, is STILL true to this day, and all his hard work, all the pain, sufferings he's gone through for sadi, has NOT gone in vain, just cause he assumed sadi was gonna come with him.
seriosuly, give the guy a break...not only has he had to choose b/w his wife and mother, but look at all the other hardships he's had to go through to prove himself...once again, it was just out of like a "heat of the moment" thing, and i don't think this ruins "those little things that make a relationship stronger". plus, i think sadi's trust in alekh is much stronger than that, if u know what i mean.
anyways. i'll just leave my convo at that. if we still disagree here on after, i guess, this just means, we agree to disagree.... besides, i have lots of work i need to get done, so will take my leave for now. 😊

peace



"agree to diasgree".
I admit the guy is poor.he is really in a tough state..
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