Originally posted by: Omshanti1111
I agree...I wont speak much about Ragini here, ...but did u see how mysteric Rgaini became, when she came to know the truth...that guilt could not rest her unless she undid her wrongdoings.
but from Alekh my expectation is sky high, tahts the reason, when he is 99.99 % instead of 100% I feel bad. I do remember what all he did and thats the reason I feel how come he forgot his very reason to leave the house...if I remember correctly, he left because of Mother's injustice and today also that reason holds...did u listen to Vasu;s dialogues, about Sadhna ..she did "sadhna ek kaanta hain...kaante ko uthakar bahar kar dungee" that means Vasu's hatred for Sadhna holds ..alekh promised that he wont return to that house...he will not return, but what I want to say is did he himself remeber,...no..he needed to be reminded...what of he lands up to the RH, Vasu in front of him is nioce and behind him is torturing Sadhna?
but alekh HASN'T forgotten his reason bani. and no need to feel sad hun, he HAS given 100% IMO. 😉 you have to remember, he did NOT leave without sadi, NOR was he reminded of anything...i firmly believe he was gonna leave WITH sadi, but when he saw that sadi wasn't coming, he STOPPED. that's a huge, HUGE thing bani, you can't ignore that FACT.
yes, he probably knows that vasu still hates sadi, but its his MOTHER. try to put your shoes in the poor guys' shoes. also, its not like vasu has been nothing but loving towards him...she has also betrayed him many times, gave him lots of pain, sufferings, distress...yet, he is willing to go back to her, BUT, WITH sadi. he knows that vasu will probably still try to mistreat her, but at the same time, he is there, so he can stand up for sadi when needed. and most importantly, if history is anything to go by, sadi will UNDENIABLY win vasu back, and i think alekh knows that. he has faith in his sadi, and knows that she will eventually win vasu's heart. sometimes, our elders do wrong, make unjust decisions, and we, as their children, sometimes have to respond to such injustice with LOVE, not anger, even if they are wrong. uska haq banta hein, humare upar, and i think this is how alekh is thinking...he is not going to leave his sadi, but at the same time, he will work with his mother to change her mind about sadi. besides, like i said, i think he knows that such is sadi's character, that she, herself will accomplish this task. hence, him going back with sadi, brining sadi there, even though he knows how vasu still feels about her...and the funny thing is, vasu too is willing to bring her sons back to her, even if it means sadi coming with them as well...!!!
alekh just doesn't want to choose the path of pain and hatred anymore. he loves his wife, AND he loves his mother as well. and he's very lucky to have such a wife, who loves his mother too, so he knows she's willing to work things out with his mother, even if his mother doesn't want to. so really, i don't see anything wrong in that...
you have to understand, alekh is at a very difficult situation right now. the choices in front of him, they really are extremely, extremely UNFAIR; does he choose his mother, or does he choose his wife???!!!!! what kind of hell is that??? i know i could've NEVER chosen b/w my husband (once i'm married), and my mother. such a dilemma, such an option, should NEVER exist in anyone's life...
anyways. BUT, at this point, if alekh does decide to leave sadhna behind in order to reunite with his mother, that is when he will make the wrong decision, VERY WRONG decision!!!! this is why i have no problem with alekh returning to RV house, WITH sadhna, and i think that is what will happen in the end. he is NOT, EVER going to leave sadhna again (well, hopefully...lol).