Different types of Bahus in Bidaai

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I was wondering for quite sometime, how many types of bahus are there. I read comments when people generalised Vasu as a MIL and was sort of an impression that all MILs are bad. Kaushi as a MIL is always good to Malti, despite Malti's tantrums...

coming to the bahu list

I feel Sadhna Ragini top the list. I think they sometimes feel for the MIL more than even the sons. Where Ragini is always trying to make Ranveer understand not to leave the house, Sadhna is hell bent on making Alekh understand that a mother's love can never be suspected. All four want to stay together in a joint family, even they want to include people like Naveen, Avni, because they know family is only complete with all.

On the contrary look at Malti how she is hell bent to break the sharma family and wants a house for her own, where she will not allow anyone.
Next comes Avni, someone can help me describing her.

It all depends on sanskars and what you learn while one grows up. We are all taught to share, even Malti and Avni also must have been taught, but when it comes to execution, they have only one concept, stay separate and dont allow husband to feed even the old parents, or take care of a needy brother or sister. "bechare Vinuji kis kis ko khilangey"



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Posted: 15 years ago
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But the sad part is Vasu doesnt deserve Sadhna and Ragini. Sharmaji deserved better bahu.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Its like that only, good MILs get bad bahus and bad MIL get good bahus. Why cant for once both of them be good?!
Vasu definitely wasnt a good DIL, as remember the way she used to treat Dadi Bua? Infact the main reason why Dadi Bua was kicked out of Rajvansh house was because of Vasu. Vasu never respected her and wanted to run the house the way she wanted.
As far as Choti Ma as a bahu is concerned, well, ahem, she killed her Father in Law...so 😆!!
Talking about Avni, even she was a bad DIL, as remember the way she used to behave with CM, and the way she used to always use sarcastic comments for her? She used to even call her 'downmarket'!
And regarding Malti, we all know she is not a good DIL.
As far as Maamiji is concerned, the way she used to treat Sadhna, even though she was a good MIL, maybe she still deserved a DIL like Malti.
Regarding Sadhna & Ragini, both of them are good bahus, but I feel Sadhna would be one step ahead of Ragini in this department as well, as her tolerance towards Vasu's words and behaviour is really unbelievable. Ragini phir bhi speaks up, especially where Ranvir is concerned, I dont think she would sacrifice Ranvir or his happiness even for Vasu. But Sadhna is someone who might even sacrifice her happiness for the happiness of a person like Vasu who harmed her in every way!
Regarding upbringing and values, dont know about Avni, but definitely Malti was taught to be selfish only, as we all know the nature of her mom, remember even when Malti was being a sweet and responsible bahu, her mom wouldnt allow her to do so, and once even Malti threatened her mom to leave her house if she tries to create friction there.
So basically, only CM & Maamiji got the kind of bahus they deserved 😆!!
Edited by *dewdrop~pearl* - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: *dewdrop~pearl*

Its like that only, good MILs get bad bahus and bad MIL get good bahus. Why cant for once both of them be good?!

Vasu definitely wasnt a good DIL, as remember the way she used to treat Dadi Bua? Infact the main reason why Dadi Bua was kicked out of Rajvansh house was because of Vasu. Vasu never respected her and wanted to run the house the way she wanted.
As far as Choti Ma as a bahu is concerned, well, ahem, she killed her Father in Law...so 😆!!
Talking about Avni, even she was a bad DIL, as remember the way she used to behave with CM, and the way she used to always use sarcastic comments for her? She used to even call her 'downmarket'!
And regarding Malti, we all know she is not a good DIL.
As far as Maamiji is concerned, the way she used to treat Sadhna, even though she was a good MIL, maybe she still deserved a DIL like Malti.
Regarding Sadhna & Ragini, both of them are good bahus, but I feel Sadhna would be one step ahead of Ragini in this department as well, as her tolerance towards Vasu's words and behaviour is really unbelievable. Ragini phir bhi speaks up, especially where Ranvir is concerned, I dont think she would sacrifice Ranvir or his happiness even for Vasu. But Sadhna is someone who might even sacrifice her happiness for the happiness of a person like Vasu who harmed her in every way!
Regarding upbringing and values, dont know about Avni, but definitely Malti was taught to be selfish only, as we all know the nature of her mom, remember even when Malti was being a sweet and responsible bahu, her mom wouldnt allow her to do so, and once even Malti threatened her mom to leave her house if she tries to create friction there.
So basically, only CM & Maamiji got the kind of bahus they deserved 😆!!

very mature analysis👏...I could not frame the types as well as you did...great
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: reguser

But the sad part is Vasu doesnt deserve Sadhna and Ragini. Sharmaji deserved better bahu.

true, as dewdrop said (what can we call you😊) the world is like that...
But you are right, in chakkar of Kaushi's illtreatment to Sadhna, Sharmaji aka Mamaji also suffered and gets insulted at the hands of Malti...
Edited by Omshanti1111 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

very mature analysis👏...I could not frame the types as well as you did...great

Hey thanks, glad you liked it 😊. And my name is Aparna, you can call me Appu 😊.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: *dewdrop~pearl*

Hey thanks, glad you liked it 😊. And my name is Aparna, you can call me Appu 😊.

sure Appu....glad to have you in our forum... I am Bani
Edited by Omshanti1111 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

sure Appu....glad to have you in our forum... I am Bani

Hey Bani...nice to meet you 😊. I really like reading your posts, they are really mature and reasonable.

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