I don't want alekh to know vasu's truth

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Posted: 15 years ago
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For some reason, i don't have a good feeling about alekh knowing about vasu's truth. I wish this thing was handled in some other way. I got three reasons why vasu's truth shudn't be revealed infront of alekh.

1) Alekh will TOTALLY be shattered. Like everytime he gets fooled by an important woman in his life, be it choti maa, then he THOUGHT sadhna, & now vasu. He knows tht he's a bit emotional & all, but it would be totally dry if he knows his own mother did all those cheap stuffs only to maintain her "status" & ego.

2) What will alekh do ACTUALLY after he knows about vasu's truth? Do you expect a son to misbehave with his mom? Leave the house for his wife? No matter how bad a parent is, it's always wrong for a child to mistreat his/her parents or hurt them. I wouldn't have mind if alekh did anything to vasu if she wasnt his mom. But it all comes down to vasu being his MOTHER at the end of the day.

3) If alekh knows the truth & starts disliking his mom or something, then vasu & sadhna will NEVER have a good rapport with each other. Vasu will ALWAYS blame sadhna tht cuz of her, alekh hates vasu. That's just not a good thing for a relationship between saas-bahu.

I just hope that alekh either handles the situation perfectly & intelligently if he knows the truth so that vasu & sadhna's relationship wont go worse than this. OR i would prefer alekh not knowing the truth at all & brings sadhna bak without any proofs or anything, meanwhile vasu & sadhna will grow a good relationship somehow.

How would you like these things to sort out?
Any males out there who knows how balance both your relationship with your mom & your wife?
Even if you're not a male, well just imagine yourself in a male's place😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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How can Alekh just go and bring back Sadhna without knowing anything? ... Its very odd...
You points are good in many ways through ... ... but the ends are not clear ... or I dont see where they are meeting. Because it looks quite impossible...
But then ... its a world of serials...lol!

Without a repentence from Alekh ... why should Sadhna just come back? ... She is not a domesticated animal is she?...I hope not!
Edited by Ice-Thinker - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ice-Thinker

How can Alekh just go and bring back Sadhna without knowing anything? ... Its very odd...

You points are good in many ways through ... ... but the ends are not clear ... or I dont see where they are meeting. Because it looks quite impossible...
But then ... its a world of serials...lol!

Without a repentence from Alekh ... why should Sadhna just come back? ... She is not a domesticated animal is she?...I hope not!



kashif thats the sad thing! there's no other way but just alekh knowing the truth. I wish there was...& my last line was from my imaginations😆 I know tht won't happen....but do u have any suggestions for the way this thing can be sort out? I mean you're a male...what would u do if u were in alekh's place *God forbids*?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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If I were in Alekh's place ... I would have ran to Sharma house ... tear the paper into shreds ... HUG Sadhna infront of everyone in Sharma house ... and kissed her (one small kiss atleast 😉) and took her away from that place.

Mamma would be running after me I know ... but I would be running faster with Sadhna in my arms... and I would say that she is still my wife ... and we need to deal with things my way for some time ... Mamma can wait and chillax for sometime....

Mallika could know the information later from Ramu Kaka... (I mean he should come in handy in such troubling times)...

I would take Sadhna for a 3 month trip to somewhere...anywhere with a good HOTEL and a good beach ... a gardens or two maybe (but who cares)....

Life would be cool... 👍🏼❤️

But all these I would've done only prior to my BASHING AND KICKING her out of the house....

If you mean WHAT I WOULD DO post-kicking out ceremony ... then its tough because I cannot do such a thing to my wife...

But anyways, for the sake of discussion ... if I would've been as heartless as Alekh ... then anything heartless would've been done by me really .. to be the most real here... Some men can be very brute...

The best thing to do should be a conscience awakening ... going to Sadhna ... begging forgiveness ... kissing her hands.... begging forgiveness from Mamaji (as he had been very disrespectful to him) ... and taking Sadhna away to some other place without raising the issues which have been creating so many divisions. After Sadhna forgives.... that should be it. Who was right and what was wrong doesnt count there.... SADHNA IS MUCH MORE IMPORTANT....

Realisation and humilty would now be the only key. Not being ashamed to ask for apology infront of Mamaji should be a great sign. Because that means ones heart is clean.

(Well you wanted a male perspective....I gave you right from the Man's Mind there 😉😛)
Edited by Ice-Thinker - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i think alekh deserves to know vasu's truth because right now, he is only siding with his mamma because he feels guilty for the way he treated her all the time when he was under the influence of chhoti maa... i understand his pain and i understand that he feels hes got an obligation towards his mother for treating her badly but the fact is still that although vasu didnt kill anyone, she has commited a mistake by playing games with sadhna's life.... so i feel that he should start to think more like a husband and less like a son right now... because without the support of alekh.. ragini and ranvir should forget about bringing sadhna back to the rajvansh house..
alekh definately needs to know the truth about vasu.. not to make alekh hate his mother but because he doesnt recognize his mother right now... ranvir knows his mother like the back of his hand!! he can predict her very well... and alekh needs to learn this too...otherwise vasu will continue to take advantage of sadhna and ragini.... i duno just my view.... i dont see any reason why alekh shouldnt kno the truth....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i want alekh know everything about vasu bcoz in this way he knows that why sadhna signed divorce papers & they will reunite again 😉😉😉😉
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Posted: 15 years ago
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yes i know..even until now i was thinking bout all the positive thing tht will happen if alekh knows the truth, but i m talkiing more bout the negative side here & how they can be avoided
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Your opinion is right, but every evil needs to end, that too in a way, so that the sinner comes to senses. I want Vasu to be redeemed by accepting that Sadhna is the right girl for Alekh. If anyone has seen the movie "Beta" starring Anil Kapoor and Madhuri Dixit, that treatment of Vasu by Alekh will be the best way to redeem Vasu.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

Your opinion is right, but every evil needs to end, that too in a way, so that the sinner comes to senses. I want Vasu to be redeemed by accepting that Sadhna is the right girl for Alekh. If anyone has seen the movie "Beta" starring Anil Kapoor and Madhuri Dixit, that treatment of Vasu by Alekh will be the best way to redeem Vasu.



Loved ur suggestion bani....
lol i totally forgot about the movie Beta when tht story is pretty much similar to this situation in bidaai.
But i kinda forgot how everything got solved in tht movie😔 i just remember anil consumed poison in the end or something

i know even i want alekh to know vasu's truth but i just wanted it to happen the right way so tht it wudnt spill out more negativity in bidaai & for sadhna
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: _-sHoNaa-_



Loved ur suggestion bani....
lol i totally forgot about the movie Beta when tht story is pretty much similar to this situation in bidaai.
But i kinda forgot how everything got solved in tht movie😔 i just remember anil consumed poison in the end or something

i know even i want alekh to know vasu's truth but i just wanted it to happen the right way so tht it wudnt spill out more negativity in bidaai & for sadhna



In Beta, Anil Kappor told his mother Aruna Irani that "every child learns so many things after birth, but I never learnt anything beyond the word MA. You did not have to do all this injustice and lies, you could have just asked me and I had given you what you wanted"....

I hope Alekh instead of spilling poison on Vasu, which is the most expected one, should just deal with it in a civilised way and walk out of the Rajvansh house with Sadhna, keeping his promise to his mom, that Sadhna will never come back to Rajvansh house. This will also bring back Vasu to senses. But my gut feeling is Vasu;s redemption will be through Mallika's father, who might want to hurt Alekh when Alekh refuses to marry Mallika.

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