How can Alekh talk abt 'intezaar'??

Hi guys!

Yesterday's Ranvir-Alekh convo was really disappointing.....Alekh talking about intezaar?? How much life has he seen?? Two days he waited for Sadhna and he says "main tadpa tha"......this guy has no idea what "tadap" is, expecting and waiting 2 nights is his limit???he has no idea what waiting for your love really means......he says its easy for Sadhna how can he not see the pain of his so called love??? From day 1 till now "intezaar" is the only thing Sadhna has seen.....waiting for him to be okay, dreaming everyday about life after that, waiting to get his love, waiting for his attention after he became normal, waiting to get his support when she was thrown out, n now waiting for some trust, waiting for a shoulder to cry on.....just shows his immaturity how he cannot understand what Sadhna has done for him even after Ranvir saying it so directly.....he is taking Sadhna too much for granted......in his new life he got everything very easily.....be it the business or family or Sadhna and that is why he realises the importance of none....now that Alekh is normal it is really important for him to be shown starting from zero......he has to earn everything he has now be it career wise or relation wise......only then will he deserve all that he has.....I don't know how this track can start but the knew Alekh must be self-made.....when he became normal he was already married, had his business 'waiting for him, a brother like Ranvir and every one else pampering him......now that he is mentally stable I think he gets to know what the real world is.....what hardships are.....what is the meaning of hardwork and love......I think only self-made individuals can be successful in the real sense and I want Alekh to be one of them....Ranvir was alone in US for long and probably that's where he has seen life but Alekh is yet to experience a lot and I want to see Alekh as a complete man so that he becomes worthy of Sadhna.....I don't know how this can happen but Salekh need to make a fresh start.....they have love but trust has to be built.....Alekh is like a teenager canfused, angry, immature, he really needs to grow as a person and learn a lot ....for Salekh from a mother-son or nurse-patient relationship the have to develop a husband-wife relationship and its a long way to go!!

plz share ur views
Shilpa

Shilpa, I agree with everything you wrote. But we must remember here that Aalekh was abnormal and from a 7 yr old, he suddenly jumped to being a 25 yr old. So we cannot expect him to be a normalal grown up guy. We have to give him enough time to learn all the taur tarekeh and maturity which he totally lacks now. He needs lots of support to make him understand the complexity of marriage. Now he has no clue what it takes for a marriage to be successful. This is a rude awakening for him now. He will learn... eventually...

well said...i think after vasu's truth is out...aalekh and saadhna should leave the house..thye should start there new life...He should start working in a small company after that he will realize the hardship of life...

yup agreed...
when alekh told ranvir that when he asked sadhna if she signed the dp ,he said usne itni asani se haan keh diya..but i wanna say that did he once listened to her??she kept on begging but din't listened 😡

Agreed agreed Shilpa.. Nice post..

Abt his relationship with Sadi, I think, he's becoming all self-centric.. His pain, his tadap, his love, his khushiya....

Love means to understand the other person's silence, grief, and support her even if she is being mean to u.. But, for Aalekh, it's, if u love Aalekh, it's nice, otherwise u're bad and don't deserve to be loved..

That is not the definition of love.. Ranvir first should teach Aalekh what love is.. As m sure, if ever in Ranvir's life, Ragi does the same with him, he would still support Ragi, and not behave the same as what Aalekh's doing..

Off topic :- I think aalekh was normal when he had disease.. abhi woh paagal ho chuka hai.. 👎🏼

pata nahi alekh ko kya ho gaya hai usne sadhna ko ek bar nah sunna chaha just only anger and anger....pata nahi woh alekh kaha hai

Originally posted by: vishmewell

Shilpa, I agree with everything you wrote. But we must remember here that Aalekh was abnormal and from a 7 yr old, he suddenly jumped to being a 25 yr old. So we cannot expect him to be a normalal grown up guy. We have to give him enough time to learn all the taur tarekeh and maturity which he totally lacks now. He needs lots of support to make him understand the complexity of marriage. Now he has no clue what it takes for a marriage to be successful. This is a rude awakening for him now. He will learn... eventually...

that's exactly my point......he needs time and opportunity......the ppl around should understand this and this should be shown in detail.....i will be glad watching this process.....its like the final stage of his recovery and the longest and most important one

Originally posted by: ashna12

well said...i think after vasu's truth is out...aalekh and saadhna should leave the house..thye should start there new life...He should start working in a small company after that he will realize the hardship of life...

that's precisely what i want to see......thanks for putting words to my thoughts.......salekh facing the world together, for a change sadhna thinking about her life, their life n alekh standing up on his own feet

Originally posted by: kinnysfan

yup agreed...
when alekh told ranvir that when he asked sadhna if she signed the dp ,he said usne itni asani se haan keh diya..but i wanna say that did he once listened to her??she kept on begging but din't listened 😡

yess he jus cannot understand how difficult it has been for her

alekh was very disappointing today!
i mean, sadhna married him, she didnt know that he would ever become normal..
she was prepared to live her life without love.
and there goes alekh saying that he has waited..
and that she has broken his trust.
BLA BLA BLA
what about sadhna's trust, when she believed that alekh would save her from being thrown out the house?

alekh is acting like a child now, what about what sadhna is feeling, the whole world is against her, she cant tell anyone where she got the money from, she just got divorced from the boy she loves..

i mean how can alekh think that she has broken his trust?
how?
ranvir was awesome yesterday, he told alekh how much sadhna looked after him, and when everyone gave up on him, sadhna never did, how can alekh even forget that sadhna got shot because HE WANTED ICECREAM..
sadhna has sacrificed ENOUGH