Aa Dekhein Zaraa, Kisme Kitna Hai Dum!!!

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hello, Namaste, Salaam, Sat Sri Akal, Bonjour, Hola to all my friendssssssss, sisters, RagVirians, Bidaaians!!!!! 🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗
After a somewhat short hiatus, I am finally back to the "Bidaai Forum" (if I can still call it that) and now I'm here to stay...
Pehle toh main yeh kehna chahoongi ke , waah ji waah, mera dil ekdum khush ho gaya yeh dekh ke, ke is "Bidaai forum" pe kya chal raha hai... itna pyaar hai yahaa ke members ke beech mein, ke mera dil ekdum baag baag ho gaya... Itna sneh, itni bhawna, itna dard, itna pyaar hai sab ke dil mein ek doosre ke prati, yeh sab dekh ke mujhe toh rona aa gaya... 😭 😭 😭... kya kahoon, aisa lagta hai ke bas ek doosre ko pathar maarne hi baaki reh gaye hain shayad...
Now jokes apart, it's really truly very sad to see what has happened here... I am not raising my finger against any one member or fans of any particular jodi... I am truly disappointed with what has been happening here overall... what happened to the fans, supporters, well wishers of "Bidaai" and the "Awesome Foursome"... This doesn't seem like the same place anymore... It seems more like a war zone... only difference is that instead of bullets being fired, words are being shot here and there... no wonder why there is a saying that "The pen is mightier than the sword"...
Even though I had not been commenting here, I am fully aware of all the negativity that has been spread in the atmosphere of what was once a enjoyable, fun loving place to be... sabke comments padke toh mujhe aise mehsoos hota hai jaise yahaa pe do teams hain, aur woh ek doosre se ladte hi jaa rahe hain, ladte hi jaa rahe hain... and the sad thing is that no matter what the name of the topic might be, its the same discussions going on... only thing is that words are being rephrased and posted differently but the overall message of all the topics and comments are the same... There is a blaming game going around for weeks now, and unfortunately there is no end to this... It's as if we all are stuck in a tunnel that has been caved in, and there is no way out, and nor do I see any light coming from the end of the tunnel... Its a known fact that there are two jodis involved here and therefore there are fans of the respective jodis... I feel like two teams are fighting with eachother and I can hear the song playing in the back of my head, Aa dekhein zara, kisme kitna hai dum, jamke rakhna kadam, mere saathiyaa... It's sad but true, very very true... 😒
Well with all this said, I would just like to add that, I really really hope that all this would end, but even I know it and you know it that this is next to impossible... That's why, since i'm also a human, I also have feelings and love towards some special characters, so even though I will try very hard not to side with anyone or anything thats said, its impossible for someone to stay quiet for too long... They say that silence is deadly, and and it goes both ways... If a person holds everything inside for too too long, the bubble just keeps on getting bigger and bigger, and one day it has to burst, so with that said, if you do read comments from me that you might not like, don't be surprised... but I am also human and I also can't bear so much injustice being done towards someone or something...
This concludes my bhaashan for now... thank you all very much for taking out your precious time and reading all that I had to say, and if there is anything I may have said that you did not like, then I apologize for that...
And for the ones who might be unhappy with my return, sorry guys but I guess you'll have to bear me once again...

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Welcome back.I liked how you have put across your thoughts.Yes there is a lot of love in this forum lolz.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: luv_ragvir

Welcome back.I liked how you have put across your thoughts.Yes there is a lot of love in this forum lolz.

thanks... 😊... and yup, there is so much love here, we can just feel the love in the air... 😉
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: RagVir4eva

Hello, Namaste, Salaam, Sat Sri Akal, Bonjour, Hola to all my friendssssssss, sisters, RagVirians, Bidaaians!!!!! 🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗

After a somewhat short hiatus, I am finally back to the "Bidaai Forum" (if I can still call it that) and now I'm here to stay...
Pehle toh main yeh kehna chahoongi ke , waah ji waah, mera dil ekdum khush ho gaya yeh dekh ke, ke is "Bidaai forum" pe kya chal raha hai... itna pyaar hai yahaa ke members ke beech mein, ke mera dil ekdum baag baag ho gaya... Itna sneh, itni bhawna, itna dard, itna pyaar hai sab ke dil mein ek doosre ke prati, yeh sab dekh ke mujhe toh rona aa gaya... 😭 😭 😭... kya kahoon, aisa lagta hai ke bas ek doosre ko pathar maarne hi baaki reh gaye hain shayad...
Now jokes apart, it's really truly very sad to see what has happened here... I am not raising my finger against any one member or fans of any particular jodi... I am truly disappointed with what has been happening here overall... what happened to the fans, supporters, well wishers of "Bidaai" and the "Awesome Foursome"... This doesn't seem like the same place anymore... It seems more like a war zone... only difference is that instead of bullets being fired, words are being shot here and there... no wonder why there is a saying that "The pen is mightier than the sword"...
Even though I had not been commenting here, I am fully aware of all the negativity that has been spread in the atmosphere of what was once a enjoyable, fun loving place to be... sabke comments padke toh mujhe aise mehsoos hota hai jaise yahaa pe do teams hain, aur woh ek doosre se ladte hi jaa rahe hain, ladte hi jaa rahe hain... and the sad thing is that no matter what the name of the topic might be, its the same discussions going on... only thing is that words are being rephrased and posted differently but the overall message of all the topics and comments are the same... There is a blaming game going around for weeks now, and unfortunately there is no end to this... It's as if we all are stuck in a tunnel that has been caved in, and there is no way out, and nor do I see any light coming from the end of the tunnel... Its a known fact that there are two jodis involved here and therefore there are fans of the respective jodis... I feel like two teams are fighting with eachother and I can hear the song playing in the back of my head, Aa dekhein zara, kisme kitna hai dum, jamke rakhna kadam, mere saathiyaa... It's sad but true, very very true... 😒
Well with all this said, I would just like to add that, I really really hope that all this would end, but even I know it and you know it that this is next to impossible... That's why, since i'm also a human, I also have feelings and love towards some special characters, so even though I will try very hard not to side with anyone or anything thats said, its impossible for someone to stay quiet for too long... They say that silence is deadly, and and it goes both ways... If a person holds everything inside for too too long, the bubble just keeps on getting bigger and bigger, and one day it has to burst, so with that said, if you do read comments from me that you might not like, don't be surprised... but I am also human and I also can't bear so much injustice being done towards someone or something...
This concludes my bhaashan for now... thank you all very much for taking out your precious time and reading all that I had to say, and if there is anything I may have said that you did not like, then I apologize for that...
And for the ones who might be unhappy with my return, sorry guys but I guess you'll have to bear me once again...

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww meri jeenu jaanu tu wapis aa gayi forum pe🤗
i agree wid u know a days there is only negativity on d forum amin bhi isliye gayab ho gayi thi
but no worries ab tussi aa gaye ab sab positive ho jayega............now we will make ths forum a beautiful place
kitne shubh din wapis aayi hai................aaj humare ragvir ki anniverary hai
aur haan we r always desperate to read ur beautiful bhashans.........welcome back jeenu n lets do dhamaal on forum
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Atfirst re-welcome to the forum 🤗. Nice analysis. 👏👏
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I am very confused with the post..In one hand you are saying, you are very disappointed that the forum has become a battle ground,and in the other hand, you are openly declaring that you will also participate in that battle...

Noone can save this forum now....members are openly declaring war!!!!....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: RagvirSoulmates

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww meri jeenu jaanu tu wapis aa gayi forum pe🤗
i agree wid u know a days there is only negativity on d forum amin bhi isliye gayab ho gayi thi
but no worries ab tussi aa gaye ab sab positive ho jayega............now we will make ths forum a beautiful place
kitne shubh din wapis aayi hai................aaj humare ragvir ki anniverary hai
aur haan we r always desperate to read ur beautiful bhashans.........welcome back jeenu n lets do dhamaal on forum

Awwwww Ishani, thank you so so much for the sweet sweet welcome... 🤗... and haan yaar, ab bahut ho gayi yeh sab negative negative baatein, ab toh kaaya palat karni hi hogi... aur yaar aaj ke din waapis naa aati toh kab aati... mann toh abhi bhi nahi kar raha tha post karne kaa magar maine socha ke yeh sab bakwaas ko apni khushi pe haawi kyon hone doon... yeh sab toh chalta hi rahega toh is kaaran apne RagVir ka itna khaas din kyon naa celebrate karoon apni beheno ke saath... isliye dil mein jo khushi thi, woh tum sab ke saath baantne ke liye aa gayi.. Happy RagVir Wedding Anniversary yaar!!!!!! and thank you so much for appreciating my bhaashans... ab tiyaar rehna woh sab phirse shuru hone waale hain... lol...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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welcome back jeenu tumne sahi kaha fully supported u
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: RagVir4eva

Hello, Namaste, Salaam, Sat Sri Akal, Bonjour, Hola to all my friendssssssss, sisters, RagVirians, Bidaaians!!!!! 🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗

After a somewhat short hiatus, I am finally back to the "Bidaai Forum" (if I can still call it that) and now I'm here to stay...
Pehle toh main yeh kehna chahoongi ke , waah ji waah, mera dil ekdum khush ho gaya yeh dekh ke, ke is "Bidaai forum" pe kya chal raha hai... itna pyaar hai yahaa ke members ke beech mein, ke mera dil ekdum baag baag ho gaya... Itna sneh, itni bhawna, itna dard, itna pyaar hai sab ke dil mein ek doosre ke prati, yeh sab dekh ke mujhe toh rona aa gaya... 😭 😭 😭... kya kahoon, aisa lagta hai ke bas ek doosre ko pathar maarne hi baaki reh gaye hain shayad...
Now jokes apart, it's really truly very sad to see what has happened here... I am not raising my finger against any one member or fans of any particular jodi... I am truly disappointed with what has been happening here overall... what happened to the fans, supporters, well wishers of "Bidaai" and the "Awesome Foursome"... This doesn't seem like the same place anymore... It seems more like a war zone... only difference is that instead of bullets being fired, words are being shot here and there... no wonder why there is a saying that "The pen is mightier than the sword"...
Even though I had not been commenting here, I am fully aware of all the negativity that has been spread in the atmosphere of what was once a enjoyable, fun loving place to be... sabke comments padke toh mujhe aise mehsoos hota hai jaise yahaa pe do teams hain, aur woh ek doosre se ladte hi jaa rahe hain, ladte hi jaa rahe hain... and the sad thing is that no matter what the name of the topic might be, its the same discussions going on... only thing is that words are being rephrased and posted differently but the overall message of all the topics and comments are the same... There is a blaming game going around for weeks now, and unfortunately there is no end to this... It's as if we all are stuck in a tunnel that has been caved in, and there is no way out, and nor do I see any light coming from the end of the tunnel... Its a known fact that there are two jodis involved here and therefore there are fans of the respective jodis... I feel like two teams are fighting with eachother and I can hear the song playing in the back of my head, Aa dekhein zara, kisme kitna hai dum, jamke rakhna kadam, mere saathiyaa... It's sad but true, very very true... 😒
Well with all this said, I would just like to add that, I really really hope that all this would end, but even I know it and you know it that this is next to impossible... That's why, since i'm also a human, I also have feelings and love towards some special characters, so even though I will try very hard not to side with anyone or anything thats said, its impossible for someone to stay quiet for too long... They say that silence is deadly, and and it goes both ways... If a person holds everything inside for too too long, the bubble just keeps on getting bigger and bigger, and one day it has to burst, so with that said, if you do read comments from me that you might not like, don't be surprised... but I am also human and I also can't bear so much injustice being done towards someone or something...
This concludes my bhaashan for now... thank you all very much for taking out your precious time and reading all that I had to say, and if there is anything I may have said that you did not like, then I apologize for that...
And for the ones who might be unhappy with my return, sorry guys but I guess you'll have to bear me once again...

Negativity in the forums is present. Absolutely right ... and bitterness is present too. These are all unfortunate things.... but injustice is even a greater misfortune...and those who tolerate injustice are the greatest criminals.
The warfare is due to blind comments. The warfare is due to personal attacks. These have not ended till there ... there have been Disgusting Hate Mails spammed to Saalekh members, neutral members and friends. There are members who have posted before me, and they are also responsible for such dispicable hate-mails.
Through hate mails, injustice, game-playing, and blind comments ... if someone expects positivity to come out ... then let me tell you ... Its hilarious in a sinister way...
Yes, this forum is suffering. The suffering is due to the chain of pain created by injustice and game-play.

By the way, you have mentioned all the negativity ... and said hello to RagVirians and Bidaaians (Bidaaians might have many interesting meaning in your dictionary ... I wonder). I feel this topic is not going to help calm down tentions. Thats my POV.
Edited by Crimson_Sky - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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n yes jeenu aage se we will follow only one policy bura mat dekho,bura mat suno aur bura mat bolo aur bura mat pado....i hope u got it wht i want to say...............we r here to spread only love n i know tere aane se is forum pe hummein luvly posts padne ko meilenge
Edited by RagvirSoulmates - 15 years ago

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