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Posted: 15 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: smittu

yes, thats rite...Sadhna and Ranvir have many times done things for the family but still they (esp. Sadhna) are expected to prove their love and loyalty towards the family again and again......its like IT companies-- the best and the quick worker gets dumped with more and more work and the lazy and the lethargic and left scot-free .

and I agree to one more point-- that Ranvir and Sadhna are the true twosome of the show (the foursome never exsited)....Ranvir and Sadhna donot flow with the tide, they fight against the tide if there is a necesssity but Ragini and Alekh succumb to situations which is not the hallmark of leaders.

This is purely my POV .. most of you will not agree as you all are dead Ranvir supporter .... but in the current track, is Ranvir doing anything constructive for his Bhabi? Yesterday he met Sadhna just to utilize her once again ... for Ragini's betterment .....
Ragini here is treated like a queen ..... she is so easily upset and cry baby and the whole world showers love and sympathy towards her. See Ranvir 100% attention is only Ragini ?????? and when? she is accusing Sadhna for the miscarriage telling she was jealous for her happiness .... In that case Choti Maa also deserves all love and sympathy from all ... Vasu should have been thrown out of Rajvansh house, all property etc. should be in the name of Navven, so that Ambika is happy .....
Ragini is like a pampered queen .. she would shed ocean of tears if she missess a piece of cake and everyone would run around to help her and in turn to compensate for 1 piece of cake, she would be given 1000 cakes etc and for giving the same, make someone really good starve to death ..... and still Ragini would tell that person is a jealous theif .. stolen my cake ... 😭 😭 😭 when she herself lost it due to her careless less and would kill another innocent person for her own fault .....
This is applicable for Malti as well ... Veenu, Kaushi etc all supporting her ????? Veenu told yesterday .. Malti thik hi keh rahi hein .. Aise mahal me Munne ko bara karna thik nahin hein ..... aur abhi mere paas paisa nahin to is ghar ko girwi rakhe .... so Veenu wants to take Kaushalya Niwas and getthe money and make his own flat and stay there just with wife ... they are getting love and support ....
And Sadhna .... sacrificing everything for others happiness ... in return .... getting all bitterness and bashing and hatred of all, only Mamaji supporting her and Ranvir says that he does not agree with Sadhna being made to leave Rajvansh house, but not taking any step. Just imagine if instead of Sadhna, Ragini woul dhave been thrown out of the house for being careless and loosing the child (which actually she was), Ranvir would have taken same step as now? just tell Vasu I do not agree ... that's it ..... So still all of you would tell that Ranvir is not selfish and flawless?????? Sorry ... maybe I had too much hope on Ranvir that he is a man who can actually take bold step and fight for justice ... but again he is more biwi pagal than anything .....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: navaneeta

This is purely my POV .. most of you will not agree as you all are dead Ranvir supporter .... but in the current track, is Ranvir doing anything constructive for his Bhabi? Yesterday he met Sadhna just to utilize her once again ... for Ragini's betterment .....
Ragini here is treated like a queen ..... she is so easily upset and cry baby and the whole world showers love and sympathy towards her. See Ranvir 100% attention is only Ragini ?????? and when? she is accusing Sadhna for the miscarriage telling she was jealous for her happiness .... In that case Choti Maa also deserves all love and sympathy from all ... Vasu should have been thrown out of Rajvansh house, all property etc. should be in the name of Navven, so that Ambika is happy .....
Ragini is like a pampered queen .. she would shed ocean of tears if she missess a piece of cake and everyone would run around to help her and in turn to compensate for 1 piece of cake, she would be given 1000 cakes etc and for giving the same, make someone really good starve to death ..... and still Ragini would tell that person is a jealous theif .. stolen my cake ... 😭 😭 😭 when she herself lost it due to her careless less and would kill another innocent person for her own fault .....
This is applicable for Malti as well ... Veenu, Kaushi etc all supporting her ????? Veenu told yesterday .. Malti thik hi keh rahi hein .. Aise mahal me Munne ko bara karna thik nahin hein ..... aur abhi mere paas paisa nahin to is ghar ko girwi rakhe .... so Veenu wants to take Kaushalya Niwas and getthe money and make his own flat and stay there just with wife ... they are getting love and support ....
And Sadhna .... sacrificing everything for others happiness ... in return .... getting all bitterness and bashing and hatred of all, only Mamaji supporting her and Ranvir says that he does not agree with Sadhna being made to leave Rajvansh house, but not taking any step. Just imagine if instead of Sadhna, Ragini woul dhave been thrown out of the house for being careless and loosing the child (which actually she was), Ranvir would have taken same step as now? just tell Vasu I do not agree ... that's it ..... So still all of you would tell that Ranvir is not selfish and flawless?????? Sorry ... maybe I had too much hope on Ranvir that he is a man who can actually take bold step and fight for justice ... but again he is more biwi pagal than anything .....



Totally understand your point and I've also loved your posts elsewhere. I haven't watched yesterday's episode though, so don't know about that.
I actually had higher expectations from Ranvir too, but I guess to fulfill his 'husband' responsibilities he has to wait awhile before taking a step. I am sure he fully understands Sadhna (just like Mamaji)...and I feel he's being FORCED to do what Ragini wants. He doesn't want to do it but feels it's his first duty.
Is that right...? I'm not sure just my thought. 😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Yes I agree Ranvir is doing good as a husband .... but he is not right as a flawless person ....
Mamaji is not only supporting her ... he went to the extent that if Kaushi does not want Sadhna in the house, he would leave the house with Sadhna (as in papers house is in the name of Kaushi) ... so Mamaji took a strong stand .. otherwise Kaushi would have thrown out Sadhna long back and on top of that Mamaji gave Sadhna his Kasam so that Sadhna does not leave the house ....
Ranvir could have done the same .... he could have easily gave Ragini his Kasam and threat Vasu that if Sadhna is not brought back and after that anyone misbehaves with her, Ranvir would leave the house for ever and his decision is final .... so Vasu and Mamma pagal Alekh would have been forced to bring back Sadhna @ Rajvansh house
After that Ranvir could have taken all 24x7 care of Ragini .... take her to a 2nd honeymoon etc etc and make her understand that what she is thinking was a wrong concept .... also once Ranvir should have taken an effort to meet Rakesh to say thanks to him .. then Ranvir would have known Sadhna's hard work for making Ranvir free with respect .. but no .... Only project for Ranvir is Ragini ....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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But I don't want Sadhna to come back like that, just because Ranvir gave his kasam to his dumb family members! :(

Ragini surely deserves to be taught a lesson by someone, but I guess the time is not right? Oh God...I REALLY hope Ranvir doesn't become another VEENU!!!!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nu_Adu

But I don't want Sadhna to come back like that, just because Ranvir gave his kasam to his dumb family members! :(

Ragini surely deserves to be taught a lesson by someone, but I guess the time is not right? Oh God...I REALLY hope Ranvir doesn't become another VEENU!!!!! 😲🤢😲

i doubt that to 🤣
@red: same here
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hey, I miss the Alekh in your picture there! :(
Even his hairstyle has changed now!!!!!!!!!! I used to love him soooo much!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: navaneeta

This is purely my POV .. most of you will not agree as you all are dead Ranvir supporter .... but in the current track, is Ranvir doing anything constructive for his Bhabi? Yesterday he met Sadhna just to utilize her once again ... for Ragini's betterment .....
Ragini here is treated like a queen ..... she is so easily upset and cry baby and the whole world showers love and sympathy towards her. See Ranvir 100% attention is only Ragini ?????? and when? she is accusing Sadhna for the miscarriage telling she was jealous for her happiness .... In that case Choti Maa also deserves all love and sympathy from all ... Vasu should have been thrown out of Rajvansh house, all property etc. should be in the name of Navven, so that Ambika is happy .....
Ragini is like a pampered queen .. she would shed ocean of tears if she missess a piece of cake and everyone would run around to help her and in turn to compensate for 1 piece of cake, she would be given 1000 cakes etc and for giving the same, make someone really good starve to death ..... and still Ragini would tell that person is a jealous theif .. stolen my cake ... 😭 😭 😭 when she herself lost it due to her careless less and would kill another innocent person for her own fault .....
This is applicable for Malti as well ... Veenu, Kaushi etc all supporting her ????? Veenu told yesterday .. Malti thik hi keh rahi hein .. Aise mahal me Munne ko bara karna thik nahin hein ..... aur abhi mere paas paisa nahin to is ghar ko girwi rakhe .... so Veenu wants to take Kaushalya Niwas and getthe money and make his own flat and stay there just with wife ... they are getting love and support ....
And Sadhna .... sacrificing everything for others happiness ... in return .... getting all bitterness and bashing and hatred of all, only Mamaji supporting her and Ranvir says that he does not agree with Sadhna being made to leave Rajvansh house, but not taking any step. Just imagine if instead of Sadhna, Ragini woul dhave been thrown out of the house for being careless and loosing the child (which actually she was), Ranvir would have taken same step as now? just tell Vasu I do not agree ... that's it ..... So still all of you would tell that Ranvir is not selfish and flawless?????? Sorry ... maybe I had too much hope on Ranvir that he is a man who can actually take bold step and fight for justice ... but again he is more biwi pagal than anything .....

I think Ranvir himself understands that he cannot mend Sagini's bond until ragini is better. Kaushi and Vasu took advantage of her emotional weakness and filled her with bitterness towards sadhna. And Ranvir realizes that before he can get rid of this hatred, Ragini has to come out of the trauma of having lost her child.
Only the women who go through a miscarriage understand this pain, and while I understand that most might not cry as much as Ragini, we have to remember that this is a serial and everything is dramatized. But, I will say this also, people deal with pain differently. It takes some ages to get over their depression, while others recover faster. Ragini is taking her own time.
I fail to understand what the problem is with Ranvir helping his WIFE get over her pain. Please shed light on this. Honestly speaking, I never realized that a devar's relationship with his bhabhi takes precedence over his relationship with his wife.
Ranvir also doesn't know what exactly happened with the whole miscarriage/sadhna being kicked out thing. He can't ask Ragini because she breaks apart every time she is reminded of the miscarriage, vasu, indrejit, Alekh won't tell, mamiji will create a huge fuss, and Sadhna doesn't want to talk to Ranvir. Remaining: mamaji, why ranvir doesn't ask him is beyond me.
But don't worry he will do something for his bhabhi as well.
At least he has made his displeasure about the issue clear to his parents, and he is behaving distantly towards them.
Edited by chocolover89 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nu_Adu

Hey, I miss the Alekh in your picture there! :(
Even his hairstyle has changed now!!!!!!!!!! I used to love him soooo much!

u talking abt mine😕😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hi .. it's not against supporting Ragini as wife ....
As a flawless human being ... she should have stood up against all the injustice done towards Sadhna and take a bold step. I was extremely hopefull about Ranvir .... then why did he created a mess a jail to meet Sadhna bhabi ?????
Yes, you are right, why not he is talking to Sharmaji? and why not he is taking any initative to thank Rakesh as well as inspite of bitting him and putting him to coma @ hospital, Rakesh talked in favor of Ranvir ... so net net Ranvir is not interested in finding the truth, so not contacting Sharmaji and not showing humanity to thank Rakesh ...
Looking after wife is really good and appreciated ... but not taking step for truth and humanity is the area where Ranvir lacks ....
See Sharmaji now ... how much pain he is talking up and taking strong stand against everyone "(yes read everyone)" who is against truth ....
Instead Ranvir is just supporting Ragini 24x7 ... only project and inspite of knowing Ragini is wrong and bittermothing Sadhna by telly her jealous etc etc .... supporting her ... so does it mean anyone who is ill and to much pampered that the person is down with only 1 sorrow .... forget all the crimes that person did? and make a person suffer to death who is good and actually deeply needs emotional support .... (not showing it by crying like howl)
Sadhna actually did something to free Ranvir .. infact everyone did .. contacted lawyr etc etc .. the way they thought it is best ... but what Ragini did ... just kept on her zidd ... mukhe Ranvir se milna hein .. Mujhe promise kiyije ki Ranvir ko mere paas wapas laake denge etc etc .. what was her initiative ... and then her step to meet Sadhna to ask her to act happy in front of Ranvir to make Ranvir happy ...... so a person with so many crimes are to be supported .....
That's why I was mentioning earlier .. Ranvir should (my expectation) have taken a bold step to bring Sadhna back and in parallel and henceforth take full care of Ragini .... but show some spine and man-ness ..... else he would keep giving only expressions like Indrajeet and keep on supporting Ragini like the way Indrajeet does for Vasu ....
Anyway .... my POV for justice to a person with truth ..... sending real wrong message to the society .... apna galti dusrepar thop-ke .. achhce insan-ko suffer karwake khud laadli bane raho
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Yup so that was my point.
Ranvir totally understands Sadhna's situation and he will definitely bring her back into his stupid brother's life, but he'll do it the right way. And of course, it'll take him some time. Especially with his wife crying all day without seeing any logic or reason! Ragini truly is acting like a 'pampered queen' and it's VERY annoying to say the least!

So I guess Ranvir is flawless to an extent, but definitely not as much as Sadhna. Bechara, he's just having to balance out so many things because of Ragini acting like that! And I guess no matter how hateful Ragini has become, it won't be fair to yell at her since she is in pain no doubt. Hugely over-reacting, but she is in pain right!

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