'Ragini-strong' will be justified - Page 4

Originally posted by: taral83

Ragni is not only grieving because she lost her child but because "Sadhna has cause her to loose her child"................And in that case.......Ranvir needs to be more stern then romantic to get Ragni out of her trauma...............He needs to make her realize that Sadhna is not the reason for their lose.....its situations......and a accident..............Ragni feels betrayed and because of that her depression has been greater......and fighting power much lower..........If Ranvir can take away that betrayed feeling.........she will automatically get out of her depression...............And what bothers me is.......yes loosing a child is a big devastation........but u have to look at something else.......that it is not the only thing in life either.........has it been said that she can not get pregnant again??? As far as I know...no..............you have to at some point move on with your life...........clutching on to it isn't going to bring that child back........I think its been thrown out of proportion...with the help of Vasu and Kaushi and so forth...........making the pain even worse then it really is.............and the problem bigger then it really is.............and Ragni is not helping it much either.............

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

Partially agree..

"Ragni is not only grieving because she lost her child but because "Sadhna has cause her to loose her child"................sounds logical, her dialogues and expressions show she is more keen to include that Sadhna factor in her miscarriage than to feel for the loss of her child...

"has it been said that she can not get pregnant again?" I dont think that is a consolation for the lost child.

Originally posted by: taral83

I knew that something will be said about that comment..........but I still stand by it.......yes I agree that it is not a consolation for a lost child...nothing can ever be..........but it is also a reason reason y one should move on..........I like to look at the brighter side of things when life hits you with major problems. It seems like they are holding Sadhna accountable for her miscarriage and Ragni can never ever get pregnant again...but that is not true....Yes it is a big deal........but their is another side to it as well.............I aslo work in the medical field and see this all the time.....and I get depressed with every case.......but when that patient comes back and she is pregnant again, the smile on that face is priceless...and the pain that they went through is far less then the happiness that they have obtained now.........and that is what I am talking about to move on.........especially when you putting the cause on some one else shoulders............I just have a hard time understanding that they are "ELONGATING" the pain.......when she can get preganant again........if she couldn't that is a different story................its like life doesn't end there........you have to grieve........get over it........and look at life again eye to eye.......I guess my way of looking at it is different.........and if you ask if I was in her shoes what would I feel......yes I would cry and my heart would sink to my stomach..........but I would get over it......and try my hardest to get over it.........and start my life again.........as harsh as it may sound...........its the truth of this situation also.............

Originally posted by: taral83

I knew that something will be said about that comment..........but I still stand by it.......yes I agree that it is not a consolation for a lost child...nothing can ever be..........but it is also a reason reason y one should move on..........I like to look at the brighter side of things when life hits you with major problems. It seems like they are holding Sadhna accountable for her miscarriage and Ragni can never ever get pregnant again...but that is not true....Yes it is a big deal........but their is another side to it as well.............I aslo work in the medical field and see this all the time.....and I get depressed with every case.......but when that patient comes back and she is pregnant again, the smile on that face is priceless...and the pain that they went through is far less then the happiness that they have obtained now.........and that is what I am talking about to move on.........especially when you putting the cause on some one else shoulders............I just have a hard time understanding that they are "ELONGATING" the pain.......when she can get preganant again........if she couldn't that is a different story................its like life doesn't end there........you have to grieve........get over it........and look at life again eye to eye.......I guess my way of looking at it is different.........and if you ask if I was in her shoes what would I feel......yes I would cry and my heart would sink to my stomach..........but I would get over it......and try my hardest to get over it.........and start my life again.........as harsh as it may sound...........its the truth of this situation also.............

Originally posted by: zarmeeno

easier said than done. I remeber when my kid got sick for the first time, I didnt sleep at all and kept on crying for 2 days. It's not that easy to move on once u lost ur child. Eventually

Originally posted by: taral83

i think stages of pregnancy should also be placed in account..........I think a woman starts to create a bond with the growning child as she progresses with the pregnancy............early miscarriages are different from later miscarriages.......the pain is greater with later miscarriages then early (in my perspective)..........you have connected with that child much longer.........Its hard to cope with no matter what......but its time I think Ragni should stop blaming Sadhna like she has ruined her life forever.........

Originally posted by: taral83

i think stages of pregnancy should also be placed in account..........I think a woman starts to create a bond with the growning child as she progresses with the pregnancy............early miscarriages are different from later miscarriages.......the pain is greater with later miscarriages then early (in my perspective)..........you have connected with that child much longer.........Its hard to cope with no matter what......but its time I think Ragni should stop blaming Sadhna like she has ruined her life forever.........

Originally posted by: taral83

specially after today's episode, it does not seem that she is in so much pain..hardly one day has passed after Ranveer's return...how can she blame Sadhna for the miscarriage I dont udnerstand, she can blame for not speaking the lie...I am really confused...

agree...........i am also very confused.........its like she wanted her husband more then anything......then whats the big deal about??? Ragni is loosing my respect more and more........and before a RagVir or Salekh....argument starts.......I like both of the couples.......not one more not one less........I am looking at the individual characters more now then as couples............It seems like alot of people on the forum are justifing Ragni's behavior right now as if "Ragni has the right to treat Sadhna like this because of what she has done to ruin her life"................and i highly disagree with that........her behavior NOW is NOT NEEDED at all............This is the person you grew up with........this is the person that has proved herself to you many times as ur well wisher..........this is the person that has done anything for ur happiness................and in a instant second you forget all that because for one she listened to herself and not you???...........And since Ranvir is back besides being drilled by him........she has been preetttyyyy darn happyyyy....like nothing happened.........then y are u still blaming the person that has respected you and loved you the most???....She doesn't have any repent......fine if you think you are not wrong that is fine.....but don't you think that u should forgive at least and let bye gones be bye gones.........She should ask herself if Sadhna has done anything in the past to hurt me or broken my trust.....??? This is the first time.......there must be a misunderstanding..............but she is not thinking about it at all.......in my opinion