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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Janki75

She is not behaving out of line- her husband is jailed, she lost her child and can not even greive with her hubby

All this could have been avoided on a testimony
I feel bad for all- Sadhna- who I really wish had lied - look at all that is happening to her,
Ragini- she is hurt and angry- she is still redeemable for now

Probably, this is some 100th time I am writing about this. Ragini's action is justifiable till her anger, but not the harsh words she is uttering...that Sadhna was jealous of her happiness... There should be a little bit of difference in dialogues and thoughts of Vasu and Ragini...right? Ragini knows very well that hers and Sadhna's relationship from childhood was not based on jealousy, but on love... Sadhna did not speak lie in the court and Ranveer is sentenced to jail and Ragini had a miscarriage... Sadhna did not speak lie to save Ranveer that should not make her forget her relationship with Sadhna over these years...She can get angry with Sadhna, but her anger should also her authority on Sadhna... our parents also get angry with us, but there is a difference between their treatment and another's treatment in anger...
Ragini is again making the same mistake, what she did during DB'S time./..she could become Ranveer's wife, but not Sadhna's jiji...more important, she could not become a proper human being at this time of crisis...even if Sadhna forgets this incident and I am sure she will do, Ragini's dialogues will never allow people to forget what harm she herself did to her character knowingly and unknowingly...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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The pain of being away from the person you love is worse that me ,you or anyone else can imagine.It might be one year but for that person its eternity so there was nothing wrong when she relied on her sister to bail her husband out.BUt by saying this I am not justifying her dialogues.Those ring in your ears and stay with you like forever!

Does kicking Ragini out(as someine put delicately)make RAnvir a better person?Yes he is good devar and he will support Sadhna no matter what but what abt showing some sympathy to his own wife?If he acts aggressively,wouldn't it be same like how Ragini is reacting?So where is the difference?Let him understand that each relation should have its own place.He already respects his bhaiyya and bhabhi relationship.let him excel in being a pati too!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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The pain of being away from a loved one can't be measured. But there are many women who happily send their husbands to war even when there is no hope of them coming back. Its not so easy for them either. But one has to perform duties towards family, society and country. For any pregnant woman, her first priority should be towards her unborn baby who is totally dependent on her.


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Posted: 15 years ago
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Probably, this is some 100th time I am writing about this. Ragini's action is justifiable till her anger, but not the harsh words she is uttering...that Sadhna was jealous of her happiness... There should be a little bit of difference in dialogues and thoughts of Vasu and Ragini...right? Ragini knows very well that hers and Sadhna's relationship from childhood was not based on jealousy, but on love... Sadhna did not speak lie in the court and Ranveer is sentenced to jail and Ragini had a miscarriage... Sadhna did not speak lie to save Ranveer that should not make her forget her relationship with Sadhna over these years...She can get angry with Sadhna, but her anger should also her authority on Sadhna... our parents also get angry with us, but there is a difference between their treatment and another's treatment in anger...
Ragini is again making the same mistake, what she did during DB'S time./..she could become Ranveer's wife, but not Sadhna's jiji...more important, she could not become a proper human being at this time of crisis...even if Sadhna forgets this incident and I am sure she will do, Ragini's dialogues will never allow people to forget what harm she herself did to her character knowingly and unknowingly...

While I disagree agree with most of you on your views on Ragini, omshanti continues to put things back into perspective- with you (omshanti) I totally agree. By saying ragini is negative and selfish, we are only behaving as her- irrationally making judgments' based upon an action she has taken. Yes this is what ragini is doing with sadhna, which is wrong, but understandable from an empathetic sought of view. We are all being very subjective (bias) because we see the true picture from our television screens. But no one truly knows the delusion felt of losing a child unless they themselves have (Allah forbid). In addition she cannot do anything for her husband who (as far as she knows, remember?) is serving a 1 year sentence in prison.

So do not see this as her selfishness, she will sacrifice her life for her husband!Tthis is all about ranvir for ragini, but no one notices this. Just like when aleck was hurt, sadhna could not see anything else but his pain (hence why she slapped ranvir, shouted at ragini and vasu for that matter). But due to sadhna's gracious conscience she came back on track quickly, ragini is taking little longer to do so. Also Aleck being o from the accident brought sadna's senses back, she was no in her senses before this, remember? Therefore ranvir's good health & return home will do the same. Who knows if sadhna would have been so apologetic if Aleck had to be in hospital for months due to his injuries. Lastly, don't forget that sadna's wrong was made very clear to her by everyone around her, while ragini's wrong is being supported by everyone. Sometimes external factors can make us see the light, perhaps ranvir's influence on ragini will do the same. Has someone already mentioned, this has happened before, but ragini eventually realized her wrong. Yes some statements she made are ridiculous!, but they CAN be forgiven and forgoten, because she is, understandably, not in the right state of mind & surrounded by the wrong type of influences.

But no, ragini is NOT negative, she is a weak soul, confused being, disheartened wife, and delusional mother. Her pain is deep, she cannot see right for now...but she will. Let's have some empathy, and be a little more forgiving for her errors right now.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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But why are we talking about RL here?In RL there are so many problems that separate couples and yes most of them live why cos they are modern,independent women.Not like what we see in RS shows.Naive to the boot and utterly dependent.Don't feel I am comparing here but wasn't SAdhana thinking abt ALekh in yesterday or today's episode and he is in his own big house with luxuries.So why can't Ragini over-react when her husband is in jail?And by saying that at the cost of repeating myself I agree that it's Ragini's fault she miscarried and she should have been more careful than that!But crying her heart out,Imo doesn't come as over-acting!Anyways why only her,everyone cried since that inspector put those cuffs on Ranvir and even before any judgement and she cried a bit more and added fainting to that list
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Sonya85,loved your last para abt Ragini.Let's see how long it takes for her to get out of this state of confusion!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: sonya85

Probably, this is some 100th time I am writing about this. Ragini's action is justifiable till her anger, but not the harsh words she is uttering...that Sadhna was jealous of her happiness... There should be a little bit of difference in dialogues and thoughts of Vasu and Ragini...right? Ragini knows very well that hers and Sadhna's relationship from childhood was not based on jealousy, but on love... Sadhna did not speak lie in the court and Ranveer is sentenced to jail and Ragini had a miscarriage... Sadhna did not speak lie to save Ranveer that should not make her forget her relationship with Sadhna over these years...She can get angry with Sadhna, but her anger should also her authority on Sadhna... our parents also get angry with us, but there is a difference between their treatment and another's treatment in anger...
Ragini is again making the same mistake, what she did during DB'S time./..she could become Ranveer's wife, but not Sadhna's jiji...more important, she could not become a proper human being at this time of crisis...even if Sadhna forgets this incident and I am sure she will do, Ragini's dialogues will never allow people to forget what harm she herself did to her character knowingly and unknowingly...

While I disagree agree with most of you on your views on Ragini, omshanti continues to put things back into perspective- with you (omshanti) I totally agree. By saying ragini is negative and selfish, we are only behaving as her- irrationally making judgments' based upon an action she has taken. Yes this is what ragini is doing with sadhna, which is wrong, but understandable from an empathetic sought of view. We are all being very subjective (bias) because we see the true picture from our television screens. But no one truly knows the delusion felt of losing a child unless they themselves have (Allah forbid). In addition she cannot do anything for her husband who (as far as she knows, remember?) is serving a 1 year sentence in prison.

So do not see this as her selfishness, she will sacrifice her life for her husband!Tthis is all about ranvir for ragini, but no one notices this. Just like when aleck was hurt, sadhna could not see anything else but his pain (hence why she slapped ranvir, shouted at ragini and vasu for that matter). But due to sadhna's gracious conscience she came back on track quickly, ragini is taking little longer to do so. Also Aleck being o from the accident brought sadna's senses back, she was no in her senses before this, remember? Therefore ranvir's good health & return home will do the same. Who knows if sadhna would have been so apologetic if Aleck had to be in hospital for months due to his injuries. Lastly, don't forget that sadna's wrong was made very clear to her by everyone around her, while ragini's wrong is being supported by everyone. Sometimes external factors can make us see the light, perhaps ranvir's influence on ragini will do the same. Has someone already mentioned, this has happened before, but ragini eventually realized her wrong. Yes some statements she made are ridiculous!, but they CAN be forgiven and forgoten, because she is, understandably, not in the right state of mind & surrounded by the wrong type of influences.

But no, ragini is NOT negative, she is a weak soul, confused being, disheartened wife, and delusional mother. Her pain is deep, she cannot see right for now...but she will. Let's have some empathy, and be a little more forgiving for her errors right now.

Ragini is not negative... I am telling this over and over again... but what I am trying to say is she is not the most stable and graceful person, as is being always to prove by comparing her with Sadhna... Ragini is like any average girl and how they deal with life...
After this incident, if something happens to Sadhna or Ragini, and both have a child, I can be more sure that Sadhna in absence of Ragini will treat both children similar but for Ragini it cannot be said so... she will always be more protective and full of feelings for her own child in time of a crisis...I know my statement is strong, but if you think logically, you also might agree to some extent after seeing this part of Ragini's character...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Bani,by the way her character is going we can expect to see that too that is if Bidaai lasts that long.When Ranvir wanted to kick Navin out,she stopped him thinking about the kids.Such a contrast.Her character is the one for experimenting lol.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: smitha80

Bani,by the way her character is going we can expect to see that too that is if Bidaai lasts that long.When Ranvir wanted to kick Navin out,she stopped him thinking about the kids.Such a contrast.Her character is the one for experimenting lol.

Smitha, pls read my comment...I said that in time of her own crisis, Ragini will discriminate. Why he same Ragini is behaving weird now...only one difference, now she is the one whose interest is hurt... when she was advocating about Naveen's children, she was not involved directly, it did not hurt her in any way. its not unusual to think about ones own things first...husband, children...it is said "Charity begins at home"...
so if Ragini faces a situation where she has to choose between her own children and Sadhna's in time of crisis, she will sacrifice Sadhna's children....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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We can't be sure abt that.Just as they twisted her character to move the story ahead they might do the same again hopefully to the other end of the spectrum if the need arises.If asked in present situation I would agree!

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