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Ok guys...there is a saying our first and foremost duty is towards ourselves, so the first duty of any human being is to take care of themselves and then take care of others...but too bad Sadhna believes in the opposite...
Anyways, lets discuss what would be the perfect thing for Sadhna to do in this situation, like if we would be in a similar situation with most of our family members against us, what would be the most practical way of living without breaking down and taking care of ourselves...
This is what I would advice her to do...
Enough of thinking and grieving over the ingratitude shown by her family, now she should take care of her self-respect and herself. So I think the best thing for her to do now is to apply for a job. She is a graduate, so that would help her to get a job. She can apply for job ads given in news paper. If she starts working, it would benefit her in many ways like :
-She would be able to earn some income to atleast support her day to day expenses so that she doesnt have to depend upon ppl like Vinu who thinks she is a burden. Not only that, she can also support her Mama and Mami, instead of her Mama working at this age. Even a small salaried job would be fine at this stage to sustain.
-She would be able to keep herself busy without thinking and feeling bad about what happened to her, as if she sits at home without doing anything, she would feel more and more depressed.
-She would gain atleast some respect in her maika where people respect you based on the money you earn (especially ppl like Malti and Vinu).
-Her personal relationships are shattered and inspite of trying her best, no one is willing to forgive her. So she has done her best, now she should try and carve another path for herself, like a good career. She should try and focus on her Career and try to grow and excel. That would give her an aim in life with which she can live.
-Now focusing on her career, If it is possible for her to save some money, she should try and do an MBA or something, so that her qualification increases, which inturn would give her higher career prospects. In this way she would have an ambition and can try and forget how ungrateful relationships were to her.
I know the above wouldnt be easy for Sadhna, but she should somehow try and come out of this depressed state, cos she did what she could do, now if ppl cant forgive her, its not her fault, she doesnt have to torture herself for them! She HAS to be practical now and somehow try to save herself from being totally shattered!
So what do you guys have to say about it 😉?!
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