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Siham

@sihu

Voyager

Posted: 16 years ago

#31

When DB was poisoning Ragini's mind after the slapping issue, then also Ranvir had to knock some sense into Ragini for her to realize how she was treating Sadhna.

What, Ragini does not have a mind of her own that she needs someone like Ranvir to guide her all the time? Now that he is not there, she poured out a lot of venom saying that her mother DB and Vasu were right about what they said about Sadhna.

Very fickle minded person...

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priya

@pankhi

Dazzler

Posted: 16 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: Crimson_Sky
Maybe Pankhi aur YSHD_Sharma ji ko thordi rest karlena chahiye 😆 ... going through alot of stress eh?

Relax 😊 ... agar main koi aur hota, to koi aur hota. Kiun ke main koi aur nahi hoon, isliye hi koi aur nahi hoon... main jo hoon, so hoon... aapke saamne hoon!

And its really offtopic... now its bugging me!

Plzzz come down. Maine aisa kuchh nahi kaha ki aap irritate ho jaao. Maine toh sirf apne mann ki baat kahi hai. Aur mujhe relax karne ki jarurat nahi hai . Main aisi hi thik hu. 😆😆. Aur stress ki bat kaha se aa gayi? hame kya aap ko dekhkar bura lagta hai?😔. Agar aapko bura laga toh im sorry 😃😃.

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smitha

@SPN_JD_Addicted

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+ 2

Posted: 16 years ago

#33

Originally posted by: sssiham
When DB was poisoning Ragini's mind after the slapping issue, then also Ranvir had to knock some sense into Ragini for her to realize how she was treating Sadhna.

What, Ragini does not have a mind of her own that she needs someone like Ranvir to guide her all the time? Now that he is not there, she poured out a lot of venom saying that her mother DB and Vasu were right about what they said about Sadhna.

Very fickle minded person...

Reversal of roles for RagVir.It was always Ragini who used to be sensible and Ranvir shoret-tempered,moody guy.As for Ragini being brainless blame the Ct's lol.Otherwise when was Ranvir this introspective and philosophical like we are seeing now and Ragini this selfish and immature!

Good thing at least she didn't blame her for the miscarriage!!As everyone keeps saying give the girl sometime.She can't very well bounce back right after miscarriage(thoush from where she got the strength to come down and utter all those)

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priya

@pankhi

Dazzler

Posted: 16 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: smitha80

Reversal of roles for RagVir.It was always Ragini who used to be sensible and Ranvir shoret-tempered,moody guy.As for Ragini being brainless blame the Ct's lol.Otherwise when was Ranvir this introspective and philosophical like we are seeing now and Ragini this selfish and immature!

Good thing at least she didn't blame her for the miscarriage!!As everyone keeps saying give the girl sometime.She can't very well bounce back right after miscarriage(thoush from where she got the strength to come down and utter all those)

I agree with u smitha di. Any lady needs some time 2 come out from this type of grief (miscarriage 😭). Mujhe toh sochkar hi rona aata hai 😭.

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sukanya.

@Lovenarbhi

Sparkler

Posted: 16 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: smitha80

Reversal of roles for RagVir.It was always Ragini who used to be sensible and Ranvir shoret-tempered,moody guy.As for Ragini being brainless blame the Ct's lol.Otherwise when was Ranvir this introspective and philosophical like we are seeing now and Ragini this selfish and immature!

Good thing at least she didn't blame her for the miscarriage!!As everyone keeps saying give the girl sometime.She can't very well bounce back right after miscarriage(thoush from where she got the strength to come down and utter all those)

Well said smitha dii.👏.Muje be yahi kahna ke give her some time.......yaar she has lost her child. I feel so bad for her and I am damn sure she will come around within no time.

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Bani

@Omshanti1111

Inactive

Posted: 16 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: smitha80
How can Sadhana bring Ranvir out of jail?He did a wrong thing.So even if the goon wakes up and takes back his complaint(who made the complaint btw?)the fact remains that Ranvir hit an unconscious guy and that with a rod almost killing him.So he has to serve at least little amount of time in jail even to be sent out on humanitarian grounds.So what could bring Ranvir out?!

Ragini is going to meet Ranvir acc to SBB/SBS.Her Zameer did half the thing,may be Ranvir will help her decide.I know,it would have been great if realised that on her own without Ranvir's help but anything is better than her mouthing those dialogues and crying!!

As Bani said may be this is the phase in Ragini's character which decides the fate of her character and who knows she might emerge victorious.

Ragini is already sensing that what she is doing to Sadhna, is not right. Its her oen realisation.
She wanted to resolve this and thus she ran downstairs. But she faced Vasu and Avni as barriers to her way, they again stopped her on her way back to the path of truth. Now, she just needs a support to execute her realisation. And who better than her own father or husband, because both never hesitate to accept or speak truth. Sharmaji has already been shown door by Vasu, now Ragini can only meet Ranveer and confirm that she indeed made mistake about Sadhna and that she wants to rectify her mistake. Its not Ranveer knocking sense this time (as the DB incidence), rather Ragini already is realising and hence Ranveer will just encourage her and confirm that this time the path Ragini is taking is right.

So there is a difference between "knocking sense" and "encouraging" someone to rectify the mistake...Different people act differently...some people are born strong to endure anything like Sadhna and some people grow strong with time like Ragini...noone is inferior to anyone...thats what I used to write in RS blog. Many people could not make out my intention.
I always wanted Ragini and Sadhna to be two different individualities. If they had just shown Ragini in the way Sadhna had been acting as per circumstance,first of all it would have been illogical and secondly Ragini would have lost her individuality.

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sukanya.

@Lovenarbhi

Sparkler

Posted: 16 years ago

#37

But I want ragini to realize herself and not ranveer tellin her what to do and what not to do. She should have an opinion of her own, and if she finds that she is wrong she should admit and sort things by herself. Waise sadana was in her life even before ranveer and earlier also they had sorted out their differences. So I feel it is high time ragini herself becomes strong and patch up with sadana.

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Art_Art11

@Art_Art11

Voyager

Posted: 16 years ago

#38

I don't have hopes regarding ragini now ,CTs have lost the charm of her charecter in the begainig of the show ragini was handling not just her mother,but also sadhna when her father died ,now she is not given sadhna atleast one chance to handle her when her unborn child died.

Edited by salha876 - 16 years ago

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smitha

@SPN_JD_Addicted

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 16 years ago

#39

Bani,I think the sort of reasoning you put into your posts is what the forum had been missing recently

.When RS mentioned the word strong I took it literally and hoped that she would side with her sister and accepts her testimony and all that.And I wanted her to be super strong even after the miscarriage which would have been highly unrealistic.I even lost hopes that we would be seeing anything positive from Ragini's side at all.And ready to give up too.But your post yesterday as to how she is confused and going thru a bad phase and everything you said as to how she would realise(if that happens)finally made me realise that I was expecting too much too soon.Now I feel bit more lenient lol and want to see how this pans out.Thanks for making me understand this in a broader sense

Edited by smitha80 - 16 years ago

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Bani

@Omshanti1111

Inactive

Posted: 16 years ago

#40

Originally posted by: smitha80
Bani,I think the sort of reasoning you put into your posts is what the forum had been missing recently

.When RS mentioned the word strong I took it literally and hoped that she would side with her sister and accepts her testimony and all that.And I wanted her to be super strong even after the miscarriage which would have been highly unrealistic.I even lost hopes that we would be seeing anything positive from Ragini's side at all.And ready to give up too.But your post yesterday as to how she is confused and going thru a bad phase and everything you said as to how she would realise(if that happens)finally made me realise that I was expecting too much too soon.Now I feel bit more lenient lol and want to see how this pans out.Thanks for making me understand this in a broader sense

Smitha,

did you pay attention in RS BLOG "Ragini is a strong character and it will be justified in the coming episodes". The word "JUSTIFIED" was the key word in his write up. Ragini cannot grow strong all of a sudden, that would not have been very convincing. Her act till date was to keep numb and bear everything, she was not able to displease anyone. She could always feel Sadhna's pain when Kaushi was mistreating Sadhna, but never could speak out to Kaushi. That part of her character needed to be replaced by a stronger Ragini. For this transition, all these were necessary.

Rajan Shahi and his team always kept in mind neutral viewers of Bidaai while sketching the characters, and thus anything they show need to be rooted to reality as much as possible. Its not that they are perfect, but at least they are the most reasonable than any other TV show maker now.

As I have mentioned before, I like my discussions with you, because you are very open and never take any side blindly.