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Posted: 16 years ago
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Hi I have been a silent reader in this forum but looking at the topics in last 1 month, I have an urge to post this. I think a lot of people here and unable to decouple Ragini and Parul. We must understand that Ragini is a character that Parul is playing and it is not the actual life of Parul. I know whenever someone comments not so favorably about Ragini, its like fans of Parul jump to defend her, but people must realize that they are commenting on Ragini and not Parul.

Also I have seen that Parul draws excessive attention, both good and bad. I have seen people going gaga over her looks one day and if a not so good photo of hers comes people come to bash her right away. I understand that fans of hers always want her to look best, but comeon guys give her a break. She is just like us, a human being and ofcourse she can make mistakes. I remember after she was sick, how people used to comment that she has lost glow from her face, of course she is going to loose it, she was sick. Comeon how many of you come out of sickness looking like beauty queens? Please don't take my post personally, I'm just suggesting to be objective.

Whenever something gets posted about Sadhna, I don't know why people start pulling in Ragini and start comparing the two and their sufferings. On this front I have to say that Sadhna has suffered much more than Ragini. How many of you would love go grow up without mother's love and getting married to a mentally chanlleneged person vs being made fun of by random people who don't matter to you in life.
Besides Ragini's sufferings have ended. I haven't seen anyone treating her badly in Sharma and Rajvansh houses, but Sadhna continues to be at receiving end of criticisms from mamiji and also Aalekh is not normal. Remember we are not talking about Sara and Parul. But can't we appreciate Saadhna without bringing raagini in?

On acting front both Sara and Parul are brilliant and doing their best. Sometimes I feel that fans of Parul actually are fans because they sympathise with her due to her color. I hope I am wrong but that is the impression I get most of the times from the posts here (just saying this from my experience of reading human pyschology last few years).

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Very nice post... you have got into the skin of the undercurrent in the forum...I hope people can understand your post and do not start bashing you...but you will always have support of some members... pls do keep posting...and thanks again for the lovely post...

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Posted: 16 years ago
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such a lovely post...no replies???????😕
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Firstly alomis- Welcome!...
Secondly, while I do agree with your post in the general sense, I don't completely think that's the case. I agree that sometimes 'fan worshipping' can get to the point where some cannot bare hearing anything said against their beloved actor/ actress. However, both sadhna and ragini get this (type of fans),which leads me to think that may be you're more of a sadhna fan? because you only seemed to mention when ragini's fans do this.
As for ragini's fans sympathising with her due to her colour...well obviously because it's the subject of hardship and negativity she recieves as the character ragini. Just like sadhna is sympathised with because she's an orphan/ married to someone with a mental disorder - it's what causes her hardhip in life as sadhna. However this does not extend to real life. No one symptahises with Parul; she's successful, beautiful and happy! Therefore when her fans love her for being who she is in real life, this does not relate to the fact that she's dusky. Parul and Sadhna both have great personalities and that is why their fans love them, and will continue to defend them alike.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I am not sure if fans sympathize with Parul or not like you said. I think people discuss more about Ragini/Parul because they like RagVir jodi, their grown up romance etc. They really can not appreciate Saalekh's true love, for them its boring. They also take deep interest in Actor's personal life, like who they should date etc...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: arshiya4

I agree with u that sadhna suffered more than raagini but i think she has been compensated by getting a husband like alekh who is the most caring husband in the world. I dont pity her for getting married to alekh indeed i think she is the luckiest person to get a husband like him. The love that he has for his wife is so pure. I think no husband on this planet has such pure love to offer for his wife. In husband's matter I definately believe she is luckier than raagini.

having a mentally challenged husband also...apart from pure love, can her husband give her any type of security? I like Angad, but is this marriage really a blissful marriage, where the husband does not know the meaning of maariage ..if my sister gets married to a mentally challenged person, however good his heart might be, I will not feel happy...can anyone's parents marry a daughter to a mentally challenged person?Parents will prefer a poor guy to a mentally challenged one... do you remeber the initial marriage days of Sadhna
but yeh, when Alekh becomes normal, definitely Sadhna will be the luckiest person...
Edited by Omshanti1111 - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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@arshiya4 and sonya85: very well said by both of you... 👏 👏 👏 👏... most of us Parul fans, (only speaking for the ones I know in this forum, who I know think like me...) do not love Parul because we sympathise with her because of her skin color... This is not true one bit... we love her for who she is as an actress and as a human being... Infact, I love her skin color... she is dusky yet beautiful... She has very sharp and beautiful facial features... Her eyes speak louder than words and her smile is very beautiful... Many times, there is a natural glow on her skin, which is clearly visible... Even though they have not always shown her real beauty in the serial, (which they are doing now, thank God), she has carved a place in the hearts of many, just by her inner beauty... I have rarely come across any actress or actor, who after achiveing so much success, name and fame, have still kept their feet grounded... she is so polite and humble... she behaves like a kid with a kid, and an adult with an adult... It's not only her looks, but her true personality that attracts us into liking her and being her true, ardent fans...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: RagVir4eva

@arshiya4 and sonya85: very well said by both of you... 👏 👏 👏 👏... most of us Parul fans, (only speaking for the ones I know in this forum, who I know think like me...) do not love Parul because we sympathise with her because of her skin color... This is not true one bit... we love her for who she is as an actress and as a human being... Infact, I love her skin color... she is dusky yet beautiful... She has very sharp and beautiful facial features... Her eyes speak louder than words and her smile is very beautiful... Many times, there is a natural glow on her skin, which is clearly visible... Even though they have not always shown her real beauty in the serial, (which they are doing now, thank God), she has carved a place in the hearts of many, just by her inner beauty... I have rarely come across any actress or actor, who after achiveing so much success, name and fame, have still kept their feet grounded... she is so polite and humble... she behaves like a kid with a kid, and an adult with an adult... It's not only her looks, but her true personality that attracts us into liking her and being her true, ardent fans...

you did not understand the meaning of that beautiful post....I know you wont like me lecturing you, but pls give a thorough reading as a neutral person, you'll arrive at a different meaning from that beautiful post... it is one of the most sensible posts in this forum...
I am sorry for lecturing though...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

you did not understand the meaning of that beautiful post....I know you wont like me lecturing you, but pls give a thorough reading as a neutral person, you'll arrive at a different meaning from that beautiful post... it is one of the most sensible posts in this forum...
I am sorry for lecturing though...

Well, I did understand the post, and I did not write anything talking about Sadhna or Ragini here, nor did I support any one character... I am not talking about any other thing that was written in this post... I only replied to this line written by the topic starter, "Sometimes I feel that fans of Parul actually are fans because they sympathise with her due to her color. I hope I am wrong but that is the impression I get most of the times from the posts here"... so I, as an ardent fan of Parul, was just stating my point as to why I am her fan, and that the reason is definetly not what was stated or assumed by the topic starter...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: RagVir4eva

@arshiya4 and sonya85: very well said by both of you... 👏 👏 👏 👏... most of us Parul fans, (only speaking for the ones I know in this forum, who I know think like me...) do not love Parul because we sympathise with her because of her skin color... This is not true one bit... we love her for who she is as an actress and as a human being... Infact, I love her skin color... she is dusky yet beautiful... She has very sharp and beautiful facial features... Her eyes speak louder than words and her smile is very beautiful... Many times, there is a natural glow on her skin, which is clearly visible... Even though they have not always shown her real beauty in the serial, (which they are doing now, thank God), she has carved a place in the hearts of many, just by her inner beauty... I have rarely come across any actress or actor, who after achiveing so much success, name and fame, have still kept their feet grounded... she is so polite and humble... she behaves like a kid with a kid, and an adult with an adult... It's not only her looks, but her true personality that attracts us into liking her and being her true, ardent fans...



@jeenu dii, arshiya4 n sonya85=👏....................................well saiddddd,,,,,,,,,.......

we sympathise wid her due to her colourrrr..........???????????/🤣.........
dont u have eyes????????🤣........mai kya kahooooo.....lolzzzz....................

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