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Posted: 16 years ago
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I am not able to understand Ranveer's love and I am not ablt to understand the kind of love these television try to portray. I've never seen a single serial wher spouse tells each other what they are upto. Sometimes these women tries to be devis and keep everything to themselves and in this case Ranveer is doing that. Marriage is having trust in your spouse. They are not there just to share your happiness but they are there to share sadness worries in simple words sharing your life. Ranveer is expecting Ragini to understand him, to truist him and to support him but Ranveer is unable to give the same things to Ragini. He is not sharing anything with Ragini. And other thing I was thinking for so many days if Ragini trusts Ranveer to usnay us din bhooti kiyon banayee thee and y was she crying. If she trusted him y did'nt she go to him put hher hand on his shoulder and said the dialogues which she said in the end of the scene but these dialogues should have been without Ranveer asking her. These days there is no connection between Ranveer and Ragini as husband and wife. When she was his friend he told him about the thing happened with Naveen and he use to share almost everything with her and now when she is his wife he does not even talk to her. Again I read somewhere that Ranveer will go to Delhi without even informing anybody. Is this suppose to be marriage where u dont even bother to tell ur wife that you r goingout of town. What is Rajan Shahi trying to portray over here.
Today was th first time I did not even bother to read the update of this serial. I'm so put off by it. Everybody said that Bidaai was different everything will be shown what has never shown before. Well Bidaai is showing what everybody has shown before the only difference in the other serial the lead women do the planning and in this the lead men are doing all the plannings. Ragini is just there to prepare food, cry and roni bhooti, Sadhana is just there to listen to ALekh he say khari ho jao tu woh khari ho jati hai agar woh Alekh ko thoday say moods dikhay aur ussau kahay kay Alekh ji aap meray liye theek nahin hona chatay tu y wouldnt Alekh respond to his treatment. Kaushliya ji one day mood acha tu 10 din bhooti. She is just there to judge Ragini which is also getting on my nerves the only thing mother and daughter talk is kay beta sahee batana tu khush tu hai and she replies ma Ranveer mujhay bohat pyar karta hain. What is Rajan ji expecting from us to keep on watching the same thing. And I guess we have to continue seeing this for atleast 10 weeks coz the wedding of Alekh and Sadhana is in 10 days. 1 day = 1 week. So i guess

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KinshukLuvsDina thumbnail
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Posted: 16 years ago
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yarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr mere ranvirG. ka luvv 4 ragini luvv his his br0 luvvv n respect 4 his m0m dad v all ave seen n v kn0w 0ur h0ttie very well:)
m sureee v'll s00n get t0 knw wat hes up2
n m n0t married as yet tu i dun knw but i guess mayb married lifee mai b u hide sumfings fr0m ur partner 4 dere happpiness:):)
n givin happiness n n0t muchh tr0uble t0 ur l0ver is real luvvvvvv v all knw ragini is upset n isnt happy cux ranvirG. ka behavi0ur has changed etc but ranvirG. d0sent wana make her m0ree upset w0h sab bataa ker wat hes g0ingg thr0ugh:(
dun say dis...n keep watching bidaai inshallah very s00n v'll all get t0 kwn wat 0ur h0ttie is up2:)
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: KinshukLuvsDina

yarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr mere ranvirG. ka luvv 4 ragini luvv his his br0 luvvv n respect 4 his m0m dad v all ave seen n v kn0w 0ur h0ttie very well:)

m sureee v'll s00n get t0 knw wat hes up2
n m n0t married as yet tu i dun knw but i guess mayb married lifee mai b u hide sumfings fr0m ur partner 4 dere happpiness:):)
n givin happiness n n0t muchh tr0uble t0 ur l0ver is real luvvvvvv v all knw ragini is upset n isnt happy cux ranvirG. ka behavi0ur has changed etc but ranvirG. d0sent wana make her m0ree upset w0h sab bataa ker wat hes g0ingg thr0ugh:(
dun say dis...n keep watching bidaai inshallah very s00n v'll all get t0 kwn wat 0ur h0ttie is up2:)


ohhhh dina tum to meriii mooh ki baat bol dia....@red=totally agree wid u..very well said👏
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Posted: 16 years ago
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i agree to zarmeen di, ranvir should atleast trust his wife if not anyone else..when they used to talk on phone ranvir used to share everything with ragini but why cant he share his problems with ragini now...he wants ragini to trust him, understand him and support him so why isn't he trusting ragini??? he is married to ragini and he should not only share his happiness with her, but all sorts of sorrows and problems too...may be he can get out of his so called important work more quickly with ragini's help
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Zarmeen ,I really gave up speculating/guessing about Ragvir jodi.I mean,c'mon,the points you mentioned(like Ranvir just saying Ragini to trust him and not reciprocating)is really getting on my nerves.And what can poor Ragini do??He won't tell her anything,she sees everyone going against Ranvir,can't let that happen and try to talk to them without really knowing what to say(yesterday I really thought Vasu would ask her if she knows anything)

I have this strong wish that something should happen to Ragini for Ranvir to realise her worth!!!And what the creatives did to Sadhana's and Ragini's characters are utterly disbelieving.They are such doormats!!!One can't understand and falls into the trap of a man with 10-year old mind and the other can't even discuss anything important with her husband but just staying pretty and cooking food.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: KinshukLuvsDina

yarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr mere ranvirG. ka luvv 4 ragini luvv his his br0 luvvv n respect 4 his m0m dad v all ave seen n v kn0w 0ur h0ttie very well:)

m sureee v'll s00n get t0 knw wat hes up2
n m n0t married as yet tu i dun knw but i guess mayb married lifee mai b u hide sumfings fr0m ur partner 4 dere happpiness:):)
n givin happiness n n0t muchh tr0uble t0 ur l0ver is real luvvvvvv v all knw ragini is upset n isnt happy cux ranvirG. ka behavi0ur has changed etc but ranvirG. d0sent wana make her m0ree upset w0h sab bataa ker wat hes g0ingg thr0ugh:(
dun say dis...n keep watching bidaai inshallah very s00n v'll all get t0 kwn wat 0ur h0ttie is up2:)



But he is making her more upset by being like this.I mean,in yesterday's episode he didn't even listen to what Ragini was saying.Ragini might say that she trusts him and all that but when he snubs her everytime like this what remains in the end would be just a facade cos she would be hurting inside.And I also read that there would be dooriyan between those two this week and I for one can't wait to see that.Who'll take the step to close that distance.


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Posted: 16 years ago
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Aalekh is projected having a mind of 10 year old but 10 year old kids never agree to give away their best possessed valuables which Aalekh is doing. More than Ragvir track this is pissing me off. it seems creatives are out of ideas and thus dragging the track .
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Dina in marriage u r suppose to share everything with your spopuse. As I have told you guys I have been married for 15 years I share everything with my husband and vice versa. This way we try to figure out things together and solve them together that is what marriage means. What kind of sorrows he does not want to give Ragini. But he is rude to her he is not there with her he is not sharing anything with her do u thhink that is making Ragini really happy. He is hurting her more than anyone else. He should have told Ragini and Ragini being a good bahu could have handled her in-laws. Yes ur rite in marriage u cannot share everything with ur spouse but with ur friend u can. And if you have a good relationship with ur spouse u have a friend 24 hrs who is always there for you and u know it. When I can't tell my husband anything I take him as a friend and that makes me go to him and share all my worries with him and again vice versa. I think this is just stupid that u cant share everything with ur spouse coz u dont wanna hurt her or him. For me this is not marroage it is just infactuations where u just meet people and spend time with them for the time pass. The relationship between husband and wife developes the way u wanna it to be. None of the characters in the serial r making sense to me. I hate wives like Ragini and Sadhana. I believe all the relationships are based on give and take. Not just monetary wise but respect wise as well. And so is marriage more than love u need to trust ur spouse and give respect and once u have trust and respect for each other the love will grow automatically. And I strongly believe that by hiding things from your spouse is not just trusting her byut also disrespecting the relationship of husband and wife.
Edited by zarmeeno - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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lol u guys still watch this show? 😆 thank god i stopped watching.. good riddance!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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No Manali I stooped watching the show when Sadhana was shot. But I use to watch it on and off whenever i use to read that there was a Ragvir scene. But i used to read the updates quite regularly. Yesterday was the 1st time that I did not even bother to read the update.

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