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Posted: 16 years ago
#11
exactlyyyyy...totally agree wid nureat01 and deepthis...
now the show is focus on sadhna's sacrifices for ragini..
but show abhi khatam nehi hueee...ragini ko chance hii nehi mila sadhna ke liye kuch karne ki...jab mile gi...me too damn sure that ragini will do more.....for sadhna...she will also help sadhna...a lottt
every 1 here just think abt sadhna..yyyy?ragini is as good as sadhna, as innocent as sadhna,as honest as sadhna,as helpful as sadhna...n i think ragini suffered a lott more than sadhna...both r amazing on their own position..sab indono ki kahani,dookh,sukh,etc etc mai compair math karo...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: nureat01

I'm sure Ragini will do more than her fair share for Sadhna in the future as well when the time comes.

It is only now that the focus is still on Sadhna and her sacrifices cuz that is how the situation is right now. Ragini has not had much of a chance to do anything.

After the marriage, it will be the equal responsibility of both sisters to make sure their bond remains strong.

No, Ragini is not 'going to war' and she is not 'handicapped' either. But parents are always worried about their children. In this case, Kaushi has her own insecurities that is why she is worried. Mamaji is only feeling sentimental that his daughter is leaving.....yes she is not moving to another country or anything but marriage still is a huge step......Something changes irrevocably and that is all that is making him emotional

As for Ragini's turn to do something for Sadhna, I think she will definitely do her fair share after the wedding since both sisters will be under the same roof. As well, once Aalekh recovers, Sadi will need Ragi's support more than ever.

Mamaji only said those things to Sadhna out of love and concern....Sadhna is already a bahu in that house, familiar with everything....Ragini will be a new there, initially unfamiliar....All he asked from Sadhna was to take care of her sister....it is not some 'burden' that he is forcing on Sadhna. Love and concern is not a burden.



Agreed! I think post Ragvir wedding, Ragini will have many chances to be support Sadi, especially with Alekh....and love isn't measured based on who sacrifices the most for whom....it's about the trust and faith one has for one another....

Actually both Sadi and Ragini need to learn to stand up for themselves....Sadi lets everyone walk all over her maybe out of guilt and Ragini never speaks up because of her self-esteem issues....both sisters have a long way to go...let's hope the crying doesn't increase 10-fold once they are both bahus....

As for Mamaji and Mamiji getting sentimental....well, duh, their daughter is leaving and getting married....and just because she is in the same city doesn't mean things will be the same....why do u think Parul was crying so much? She's shooting on another set not moving to another country and yet she was bawling her eyes out....it's all about the emotions and attachment we have for the people we dearly love!
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Posted: 16 years ago
#13
i am sick of mamijee attitude.Sadhna has to give more sacrifices,and listen to such crap from mamijee
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: nureat01

I'm sure Ragini will do more than her fair share for Sadhna in the future as well when the time comes.

It is only now that the focus is still on Sadhna and her sacrifices cuz that is how the situation is right now. Ragini has not had much of a chance to do anything.

After the marriage, it will be the equal responsibility of both sisters to make sure their bond remains strong.

As for Ragini's turn to do something for Sadhna, I think she will definitely do her fair share after the wedding since both sisters will be under the same roof. As well, once Aalekh recovers, Sadi will need Ragi's support more than ever.

THANK YOU !!!
Thank you for saying this!!!
I am sure Ragini will do anything for her sister..if not more..
Edited by gaganjotsooch - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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contrast her with sadhna, who had to contend with a combative mother in law, mentally challenged husband, an angy mamaji. she took it all in her stride and came out on tops.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: apux



Agreed! I think post Ragvir wedding, Ragini will have many chances to be support Sadi, especially with Alekh....and love isn't measured based on who sacrifices the most for whom....it's about the trust and faith one has for one another....Beautifully said, yaar!👏

Actually both Sadi and Ragini need to learn to stand up for themselves....Sadi lets everyone walk all over her maybe out of guilt and Ragini never speaks up because of her self-esteem issues....both sisters have a long way to go...let's hope the crying doesn't increase 10-fold once they are both bahus....Agreed! Both sisters have that issue.....so here's hoping that they both grow stronger with time.

As for Mamaji and Mamiji getting sentimental....well, duh, their daughter is leaving and getting married....and just because she is in the same city doesn't mean things will be the same....why do u think Parul was crying so much? She's shooting on another set not moving to another country and yet she was bawling her eyes out....it's all about the emotions and attachment we have for the people we dearly love! Exactly! Emotions and attachments are not about 'logic'....ANY father/mother would feel emotional when their daughter is getting married! For then, she doesn't just remain their sheltered little child anymore, but becomes someone's wife, daughter-in-law, and mother herself.....it is a feeling of loss in someways for the parents, so they are bound to feel emotional!

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Posted: 16 years ago
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yup ...and above all nobody thought of sadhna once..who is taking care of her in rajvansh house she was alone there when she married aalekh...mama and mami should told them that they have to take care of each other....
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Posted: 16 years ago
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As of now I can't understand a bit about "mamijees" insecurities!!! What difference does it make if Vasu and Ambika are sisters? Sadhna supposedly made a "plan" to get Ragini married to Ranvir just bec. she could dominate her ? ??? doesn't make any sense from any angle! Why wud Sadhna want to dominate Ragini only? seriously mamijee is spoiling the fun of the marriage by her stupid illogical ideas and illusions! i've seen this in real life..even if they are real sisters, they become devrani jethani after marriage.....so what ? relationships change after marriage....your parents with whom you had spent half of your life, are no more important to you after marriage...after marriage you have its your husband, your children , his family that's it...what's the big deal about it ? is happens with everybody..that's how the society functions.....
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Edited by luv_khwaish - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Agreed that like every other mother, Mamiji is worried about Ragini's happiness after marriage...may be a 'lil more for Ragini after what she saw at the Rajvansh House the other day, coupled with her fears about Ragini's skin colour being the cause of ridicule at her In-Laws...but there seems to be an exaggeration out here! First Mamaji n Dadi tried explaining Kaushi, then Ranvir showed her how much further he was willing to go for Ragini n then Sadhna vowed she would back Ragini come what may!!...what more does Kaushi need...there's really no need to get so Paranoid!...a 'lil way over the top...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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guys, guys, guys........I agree with u.....but, I would say "no matter hw much Ranvir loves Rags, still her parents are worried, coz there are many other ppl in Rajvansh family that Rags hv to understand each of them n all..........and the reason Sharmaji telling Sadhna to take care of Rags is coz, Sadhna's been in Rajvansh family for long time n she knows all abt them, so Sharmaji telling her that if Rags make any mistakes then Sadhna should help her in her initial days...............

Beti ki bidaai is not just going away from her parents, but also settling down in the new house with new ppl n now she is no more beti, now she is "kisi ki bahu, patni, bhabhi, chachi, etc"........so, all that resposibilities are new for her.......coz, before her parents used to take care of her, now she gotta take care of ppl in her Piya ka Ghar.........

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