what does bidaii mean??

This serial should named as gora kala............stupid serial. they stole the story of fims and raise the TRP but again startd dirty game like Ekta kapoor's.....serial . They showe a mother who cares about skin color more than her kids.........how stupid no mother can be like that.dirty thiking dirty game i hate this ..... Kya skin color ki vajah se babul ka sapna kabhi poora nahi hoga......

there are some mothers that are like that.. whose ego means more to them than anything trust me there are... you are just lucky you have not met any parent like that

Originally posted by: swatikr12

This serial should named as gora kala............stupid serial. they stole the story of fims and raise the TRP but again startd dirty game like Ekta kapoor's.....serial . They showe a mother who cares about skin color more than her kids.........how stupid no mother can be like that.dirty thiking dirty game i hate this ..... Kya skin color ki vajah se babul ka sapna kabhi poora nahi hoga......

Originally posted by: swatikr12

This serial should named as gora kala............stupid serial. they stole the story of fims and raise the TRP but again startd dirty game like Ekta kapoor's.....serial . They showe a mother who cares about skin color more than her kids.........how stupid no mother can be like that.dirty thiking dirty game i hate this ..... Kya skin color ki vajah se babul ka sapna kabhi poora nahi hoga......

Do you really think all mothers are selfless? Do you think once a woman gives birth to her child, she automatically becomes a saint?

Originally posted by: prat9

...well if u don't believe this happen in real life...then check out this article....the actors themselves speak from their own experiences...

It's not 'fair' for Parul and Vibha on their 'dark' days

Real life for Parul Chauhan one of the lead actors of Sapna babul Ka-Bidaai is quite similar to her reel life. Having faced very 'racist' comments on her dark complexion from her grandmother while growing up, Parul was an unhappy child.


As a kid Parul faced colour issues all the time. She says, "When I was born my grandmother remarked that I was very dark. And till my seventh standard she kept commenting on my complexion. But after that everything was fine. She realised that I was as good as any fair girl. She is no more but I am sure if she was alive she would have been very happy with the work I am doing. I think that is one reason why I can relate to Ragini (her character in Bidaai)."

Parul also reveals that the same problem is faced by her cousin. She says, "My mama (maternal uncle) has two daughters. One is fair and the other is dark. So the dark cousin always faces the discrimination which I really condemn. They always worry about her marriage. I ask them to see my serial and hope that they will change with time."

But it is not just Parul who faces 'complexion' issues. Even Vibha Chibber (who played the coach in Chak de and Parul's mom in Bidaai) also had a similar experience. But hailing from a well-educated family of writers (Vibha's mother and father are writers) she was never looked down upon by others. In fact it was Vibha who was self - critical. Vibha says, "Actually my paternal side is very fair and my mother is dark. So while growing up, since I too was dark I feared wearing certain colours. I always used to doubt whether or not they will suit me. Even my husband Vijay Deepak Chibber is very fair. I still remember when my mother-in-law said that 'Like any other mother-in-law I too wanted a fair daughter-in-law but you are very good-looking'."


"My mother-in-law makes it a point to carry my photo wherever she goes. She shows it to everyone bragging about my good looks. I also remember when I was a newly-wed and I used to go for parties with my husband, all his friends used to tease me saying that we are poles apart," adds Vibha.

Vibha also feels that it is high time that our society changes its perspective on this issue. "I find it very strange when society differentiates between fair and dark skin. No matter how the male skin is but the female has to be fair. A mother is always worried about her dark daughter's marital prospects. I just find the whole thing very gross. I like the serial Bidaai because it deals with this problem in the best way possible."

Life's not 'fair' and we hope everyone gets out of such 'dark' ages.

Courtesy:Bollyzone

the serial ain't stupid.. it gives out a good message to people that dark skinnes people are beautifull too..

some mothers can be like that saying they want gorgeous fair bahu.. ok even some men say they want fair wife..

this serial is showing the truth as it exists in society even today.i can certainly vouch for that coz i have myself gone thru the same thing. even after so many yrs of marriage my inlaws still harp on the samething abt me being darker and my husband being very fair.
believe me its not easy to listen to all that crap and still come out feeling confident abt your self and abt your relationship.
but with the support of your life partner one can face anything, and i have too coz mine was an arranged marriage and my husband accepted me for my personality and not for my skin color.
so yes this reality does exist and it would be sheer ignorance not to accept it.

there r toooooooooooooo many ppl like tht who always give importance to colours .........not only colours but also money status figure education etc etc