Kaushalya Ji is Right!!

I Agree with You Ragini should be ready to Face evil Side Of Vasu After Marriage,But i'm sorry but I have to Disagree that Mamiji is Right ,She is Wrong She actually does'nt have problem In sending Ragini To Rajvansh House Because of Vasu Or Ragini's Colour,She Generally Has Problem With Sadhana'a Colour and the comparision Ragini will ahave to Face ,I completely Understand Her Stand,But she always Forgets That True Love can Face All Hurdle's In Life That To Smiling ,Be Seeing Ranvir,Saalekh will Be Strong Pillar's Of Support to Ragini,

Don't Think Sadhana Will Always Be Crying when It comes to Her Jiji She Will Definitely go Against Vasu,and Ranvir will Give his Everything and From Being Mommo'a Boy He will Definitely Prove He his Best Husband Next to Alekh

Originally posted by: maragathm

First I thought Kaushi was being unreasonable with her dark versus fair comparisons all the time. But today she said something very sensible about Vasu to Bapuji, 'If Vasu is forced to accept this marriage then even if she does ultimately it wont be from her heart but purely out of spite, and Ragini will suffer ultimately because of this'. Bapuji replied by saying 'Why can't you leave somethings to god'. For the first time I felt like Bapuji gave lousy advice, in indian cultures whey you know the mother in law is dead set against a marraige, there is no way a mother will willingly allow for her daughter to marry into that family. It is not being unreasonable It is being pragmatic, I have a feeling only Kaushi is being pragmatic. I agree...I felt the same way....Kaushi sounded very pragmatic when she made that point that if Vasu is forced, she'll turn against Ragi for life and always hate for that.....Mamaji's argument sounded very weak to me in response...and that's the first time I felt that way cuz usually whatever he says is very wise and bang on!



I am telling you guys Alekh better stick to Ragini like super glue to protect her. Because we know Sadhna is useless, she only cries and can't stand upto anyone. And Ranvir, I like him bless his soul but he is tooooooo much of a momma's boy. Alekh is brave he knows how to yell and take a stand, and he is the only person in that whole house that can shut up Vasu. LOL....that's hilarious! So only her jijaji can protect Ragi in her new home??😆😆.....I think Ranvir will stand up for Ragi when it counts...I don't think he'll let his Mom say any kind of nonsense to her and get away with it.....he stands up for Sadi also whenver Vasu talks crap about her. And Aalekh obviously won't be able to be with Ragi all the time.....Ranvir as her husband has a better shot at that😆.....Aalekh on the other hand sticks to Sadi like superglue....that's just how it is😆

Originally posted by: Rahm

I think Mamiji does fear Vasu and moreso Ragini being compared to Sadhana as Ragini's whole life, she was compared to Sadhana.

I think regardless of the fact that Ranvir is a ma da laadla, he will definitely stand up for Ragini when need be, but in a respectful manner. I'm sure Aalekh will stick up for her as well.

Originally posted by: nureat01

Originally posted by: apux

So I guess it comes down to marrying someone you love and loves you back or having a good saas?? Kaushi isn't wrong in her place as a mother....but she has to realize that no matter where Ragini goes people will always compare....saas-bahu relations are never easy but if your husband (or jija in this case) isn't always there to defend, then bahu needs to defend herself....

I've seen many cases in real life where saas doesn't like the bahu but bahu's husband loves her soooo much....it works out in the end because the husband supports the wife.....wife is happy with husband....happy ending lol.....point is, a lot of people don't like their mother-in-laws....thats life....just can't let the saas have too much control in the marriage!