Why is there no self respect? - Page 2

Originally posted by: priya***

The question is how he stood up to them. I actually was referring to the movie Munabhai with Sanjay Dutts character. I normally don't cry when someone is being rude to me, especially if someone is being rude to my family because that's my personality. I have learned through experience that you don't always have to show your backbone. But Vasu is Sadis family now, so she treating her like her mom. Sadhna would not show her backbone towards Mamaji or Mamiji, she would probably handle the situation in a loving manner. So Sadhna is showing a lot of respect

my understanding about this... i meant stand up for ourselves is down to our upbringing and our enviroment.

Seeing where Sandhna lives and what she has to give up for standing up to Vasu it is obvious why she doesn't stand up to Vasu!

Originally posted by: jiya25

Me too, i hv a killer punch ⭐️

Originally posted by: jiya25

I dont want to start an argument with you priya. lets just agree to disagree😃. I think that there is a time for handling situations in a loving and gentle manner and there is a time to stand up and fight for your self respect and dignity. I think in indian serials we see plenty of love and gentleness but not enuff self respect and willpower. The only character that comes even close is the original Tulsi of KYSBKBT. But everyone handles their life differently. So let's end this particular argument here.

being silent, or loving etc is good to a certain or maybe even a lot of extent. I feel Vasu has gone passed the limit that anyone can even think about remaining silent.

1st she tricked Sadhna into marrying Aalekh and she played too many tricks so that Sadhna is left with no choice but to marry Aalekh.

In this matter its no fault of Sadhna's. R R started talking to each other by themselves, Sadhna as she knows both realized that it was "Ragini" and "Ranvir". Sadhna did not trick or trap or plan for things btw R R to happen, she may have helped them a little but the feelings were theirs.

If Vasu had just put the blame on Sadhna and shouted at her and Sadhna had remained quiet it may have been understandable, but still i would have liked her to answer back.

Vasu crossed all limits of decency by going over to Mamaji's place and accusing them and calling Ragini dark and ugly, the way she took Sadhna to Mamaji's house was like she is presenting a hardcore criminal in front of Mamaji, and Sadhna with her attitude was proving Vasu right.

Mamaji was the only 1 who showed some strength and self-respect. I just wish others would have derived strength from him and faced Vasu.

In the party where Aalekh was 1st shown and guests called him "pagal" she did not like it and got angry at them. Here she calls someone elses kid (Ragini) dark and ugly.

Vasu reminds me of the "School Bully", she seems to bully anyone and everyone who will not follow her wishes. Only another Bully will be able to put her back in her place.

I hope someone does that soon.

Originally posted by: pinkykhan

being silent, or loving etc is good to a certain or maybe even a lot of extent. I feel Vasu has gone passed the limit that anyone can even think about remaining silent.

1st she tricked Sadhna into marrying Aalekh and she played too many tricks so that Sadhna is left with no choice but to marry Aalekh.

In this matter its no fault of Sadhna's. R R started talking to each other by themselves, Sadhna as she knows both realized that it was "Ragini" and "Ranvir". Sadhna did not trick or trap or plan for things btw R R to happen, she may have helped them a little but the feelings were theirs.

If Vasu had just put the blame on Sadhna and shouted at her and Sadhna had remained quiet it may have been understandable, but still i would have liked her to answer back.

Vasu crossed all limits of decency by going over to Mamaji's place and accusing them and calling Ragini dark and ugly, the way she took Sadhna to Mamaji's house was like she is presenting a hardcore criminal in front of Mamaji, and Sadhna with her attitude was proving Vasu right.

Mamaji was the only 1 who showed some strength and self-respect. I just wish others would have derived strength from him and faced Vasu.

In the party where Aalekh was 1st shown and guests called him "pagal" she did not like it and got angry at them. Here she calls someone elses kid (Ragini) dark and ugly.

Vasu reminds me of the "School Bully", she seems to bully anyone and everyone who will not follow her wishes. Only another Bully will be able to put her back in her place.

I hope someone does that soon.

Pinks u exactly said it!!I second it completely


Luv,

Shagun

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Originally posted by: nysa_11

well, yes!!! in our good cultured Indian society a decent girl being it daughter or Bahu is the one who listens to all bull shit but says nothing.... Even if daughter is forgiven for doing so a Bahu is never forgiven and is bad mouthed by the entire family infront of whole world. And I am saying this from my own experience.

When I got married, my parents-in-law used to say all bad stuff about my parents infront of me to everyone and I opposed that. Not only did they talk bad about me to their relatives but also to my parents, my husbnad and my relatives. They are extremely happy when I do not say anything but cry infront of them and do nautanki like putting my head on their feet and crying..............

i had to do so in order to keep my husband happy who knew nothing of me then. Same way I think Sadhna cannot speak infront of Vau because her husband is of no use and if she does that Vasu ghar se nikaal degi ab usko

But by gods grace I have come over all that and the worst phase of life is probably over