Is ill treating some one sanskaar? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Ashmytha

I agree with everything that you say, but first, not all the girls will think so generously.

And secondly, just a thought...even if everything goes well and Ansuba melts, will this not leave a bad taste in everyone's mouth? Esp the the new bride? I am sure she will never be able to erase this completely out of her.

Giving in to an injustice once, makes you vulnerable to many more in the future. What Ansuba is asking Bhumi to undergo, is not out of any logic, but bcz of her arrogance and false pride. She will always hold Bhumi to ransom this way . Ansuba is irrational and such people can never really be satisfied. One small thing against her wishes and there she goes again...this is blackmail, not some test. Instead Jai and Parul should stand upto her and in time she will gradually understand that Bhumi truly is a gem of a girl. But again, her big ego will not allow her to accept it.

All in all she has some ulterior motives behind this and not Jai or Bhumi's wellness. Its all a waste.

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

Bhumi is right. I am talking abt Jai and Parul taking a firmer stand, rather then letting Ansuba humiliate her at every given opportunity. See, Jai is trying to be a good grandson, Parul is trying to be a good DIL. But what abt their commitment to the new bride??? Whatever I have written in the earlier post is for these two to understand. Atleast Parul should know how her MIL is? She has suffered long enough, but she should protect her DIL, esp now when she knows, from the pre-cap that Ansuba has ceased to be a grand-mom and become a vicious ,revengeful and yes, ungrateful lady, with only one purpose in life.🤢

Originally posted by: Ashmytha

I am OK with Parul atm. She stood up for JaiMi when they were leaving the house and then even went to talk to Ansuba after she announced the test but by that time Jai only opened his mouth. So Parul had to accept and now her duty is to stand by her DIL. She is trying to make Ansuba understand in the precap. Lets see what happens. As for Jai we already figured he cant talk back to Ansuba. I just hope he does speak up if she asks him to dump Bhoomi. I am wanting to see the reactions at the end of the 9 days. I trust Jai not to betray Bhoomi. I hope that trust proves to be right.

Originally posted by: Ash_Storyteller

Bhoomi is the most innocent and naive here. Jai was quite clear to bhoomi in the US that his first duty is towards his family and his promise to ansu baa abt earning money for the factory.

Bhoomi still kept loving him and did everything to help him in the US. I know people are going to bash me as I may spoil their romantic story about Jaimi (even I like them as a couple and want them to stay together).

But bhoomi's mom was in a way correct that one has to not always give in to emotions but be practical in life. Bhoomi would had been in the US married to the rich guy, and accepted by him and his family. In the beginning she would feel for jay and miss him but after sometime she would had been OK.

I feel a new bride should never made feel uncomfortable, unwanted or unwelcome by the new family members On purpose. As the memories of the initial days at sasural are never forgotten by any woman. So in the future even if the vaishnav family accepts bhoomi and starts liking her,she will never forget the initial ill treatment ever in her life. I know in TV shows , with constantly changing tracks, the CV's will make bhoomi forget all this.

But Ill treatment on the grounds of 'sanskaar' is totally unacceptable. the Cv's really need to change what they are doing on this show.

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

That Rammy guy would definitely provide her with comforts but we already saw that he is not a nice guy. He is vain, egoistic, mean, insulting and proud and has goondas who hurt people so he would have never been able to make our sweet innocent Bhoomi happy. Money is not the guarantee of happiness and same holds true for Rammy. I agree Bhoomi's mom was correct in that one shouldn't get swayed by emotions but be practical yet the guy she chose for her daughter was her own carbon copy so that's not good for innocent Bhoomi. I suppose whilst she will never forget it it will not hurt her so much if the family accepts her. She married Jai knowing he would return to India at some point and that she would have to go with him. She would have been prepared to rough it out. But the problem is I bet Lily, Ramila and Jai's father would have happily accepted her were they not scared of Ansuba. So Ansuba is the root of the problems in that family!

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

I agree I do and in normal stances that would have been the practical option. Its not easy to just walk away from your family like that. Jai was prepared to do that when Ansuba didn't accept Bhoomi but he then said Bhoomi would win in the challenge. Maybe he believed that was the best way for everybody to live happily and

I think if I was in Bhoomi's position I would never be able to live with myself being the reason my husband moved away from his family. I know it sounds clichd but if I had been prepared to deal with a new situation I knew I might not like I would give the family life a go. I could not write off the opportunity for a peaceful solution so quickly.