Bahu qualities for vaishnav family

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Ashita

@Ashita

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Posted: 12 years ago

When Ansuba was telling the 9 qualities of sanskaari bahu i was laughing out... Which bahu or son of vaishnav family have these qualities which she described!!

All her bahus except maadi are cunning and plotting and Selfish... And see those sons.. Execpt jay and his dad all are weird ppl..!! And ansuba boast of gheir sanskaar..

Even after being born and brought up in US bhoomi is helpful, kind hearted and well behaved.. She need not prove anything to anyone infact..!!

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Sania

@SRKLuvr

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Posted: 12 years ago

Its what everyone on this forum has been saying with so much frustration. In what universe does that self satisfied ridiculous unsanskaari old woman think that she or her family are so great that Bhoomi an American is not layak to come into their family? or rather she is jealous and angry because Bhoomi is not her own choice and she didn't get to boss her grandson around like she bosses everyone else in that family around and decides their future She is angry because Kishan made his own choice in life. But to try break up his marriage and leave a poor girl like that? That's completely criminal and Kanhaji will never forgive her for that.

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okhushi

@okhushi

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Posted: 12 years ago

What I find most ridiculous about this track is that 'baa' cares so much about her husband, marriage, love and all that she still wears sindoor and all, but she has absolutely no respect for someone else's marriage telling Kishan to break it off like that? Seriously, for all the sanskaar talk, woudn't respecting the institution of marriage be top priority??? How do you go around telling people, much less your own grandson to leave his newly wedded wife??? Someone pls explain!!!

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ApurvaLovesARVI

@ApurvaLovesARVI

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Posted: 12 years ago

I too was lauhing like a Mad...so she tests and then chooses the Best?

How come Women like Ketli is in thier family?

And she was Boasting about Sanskaar in her Family

And she was telling every Girl of APNA SWADESH would be knowing Krishna stuti

See Ansu Ba I'm of You SWADESH and I don't know

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sita

@sitakshii

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Posted: 12 years ago

ANSUBA is a big scar on Indian Sanskaars ...she is actually insulting Indian values and sanskaars ...
Indian values and sanskaars does not teach us to humilaite ,disrespect women ,make mockery of Marriage and treating ur bahu like sum servant...dominating your children and grandchildren ...the list is long...😡

Parul is the one who truly knows what Indian sanskaars are and God has given her such an angelic bahu Bhumi who is so naive and innocent at heart...😊

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 12 years ago

7 out of 10 Indians don't know any shlokas , stotras , stutis of their

kul devta by heart so what the hell is Ansu Ba talking about

Standing before Krishna idol , using his prayer time to set up a young girl to fail is a terrible paap

then telling Bharti to sing aarti to show Kishen what he is missing by not marrying an Indian girl and most importantly the girl of her choice

Ansu Ba used the Lord's prayer time for her personal bitchy agenda and these r sanskaars ? If she fears the all seeing Lord , she will be heavily punished by him for troubling a young girl to this extent .

And even if Bhumi fails each test and Bharti does each test perfectly ...what is she gonna do

break the marraige ? And do a second marraige to Bharti and fulfil her vow to the Munim ?

And breaking marraiges which r for life according to the Indian way of thinking is not a maha paap ? Ketki is ostracised coz she broke Bharti's marraige which hadn't even taken place but Ansu Ba is justified in breaking a marraige that has already taken place in front of God ?

why , won't Bharti get another proposal ? In India forget 2 attempts , so many attempts r made till right match is found for an arranged marraige .

And what about Kishen's marzi in this ? Who is she to break up a serious institution called marraige with stupid 9 tests set up purposefully and unfairly to trap a naive young girl ?

All who keep quiet in front of her paap r doing a maha paap .

Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 12 years ago

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Sania

@SRKLuvr

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
7 out of 10 Indians don't know any shlokas , stotras , stutis of their
kul devta by heart so what the hell is Ansu Ba talking about

Standing before Krishna idol , using his prayer time to set up a young girl to fail is a terrible paap

then telling Bharti to sing aarti to show Kishen what he is missing by not marrying an Indian girl and most importantly the girl of her choice

Ansu Ba used the Lord's prayer time for her personal bitchy agenda and these r sanskaars ? If she fears the all seeing Lord , she will be heavily punished by him for troubling a young girl to this extent .

And even if Bhumi fails each test and Bharti does each test perfectly ...what is she gonna do

break the marraige ? And do a second marraige to Bharti and fulfil her vow to the Munim ?

And breaking marraiges which r for life according to the Indian way of thinking is not a maha paap ? Ketki is ostracised coz she broke Bharti's marraige which hadn't even taken place but Ansu Ba is justified in breaking a marraige that has already taken place in front of God ?

why , won't Bharti get another proposal ? In India forget 2 attempts , so many attempts r made till right match is found for an arranged marraige .

And what about Kishen's marzi in this ? Who is she to break up a serious institution called marraige with stupid 9 tests set up purposefully and unfairly to trap a naive young girl ?

All who keep quiet in front of her paap r doing a maha paap .

This is the biggest thing that the family is keeping quiet. But they are also under Ansuba's oppressive regime. Kishan should be the one talking.

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 12 years ago

You know what bugged me , it was that she used the prayer hour for her agenda . During prayer hour even sworn enemies come together and stand quietly , purging their hearts of all petty thoughts , this is taught to us since childhood by elders . This is the biggest sanskaar of all , and she planned the very first set up during prayer time , using God's name .

She wants to break up a marraige , she has already decided that and to achieve that she has set up these impossible tests ...her agenda is that each test should be failed by Bhumi while Bharti should pass it with flying colours and Kishen should know what a great mistake he did.

Parul knows her agenda . The Amazing Spiderman doesn't care about the unfairness of it , he thinks his mother can do no wrong and is perfectly entitled to take those tests .

Even Ramila and Lily r better human beings than Ansu ba ...i am not saying bcoz they think from Bhumi's side , but bcoz they have some heart .

I am sorry to say this but i hope Avni is treated the same way in her sasural coz inspite of being young she is taking evident pleasure in all this bitchiness .

An experienced elder is using her experience for destruction of young lives instead of construction and it sickens me coz Ansu ba is not fit to be categorized as an elder ...never have i waited so much for Gayatri's tongue lashing i am simply waiting for the scene where she strips Ansu Ba verbally and gives her good , unmindful of Bhumi or Jai . And that stupid Nans who subjected her grand daughter to this life and is herself sitting cosily in US thinking Bhumi has a rosy life and her decision was perfect .

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Sania

@SRKLuvr

Stunner

Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
You know what bugged me , it was that she used the prayer hour for her agenda . During prayer hour even sworn enemies come together and stand quietly , purging their hearts of all petty thoughts , this is taught to us since childhood by elders . This is the biggest sanskaar of all , and she planned the very first set up during prayer time , using God's name .

She wants to break up a marraige , she has already decided that and to achieve that she has set up these impossible tests ...her agenda is that each test should be failed by Bhumi while Bharti should pass it with flying colours and Kishen should know what a great mistake he did.

Parul knows her agenda . The Amazing Spiderman doesn't care about the unfairness of it , he thinks his mother can do no wrong and is perfectly entitled to take those tests .

Even Ramila and Lily r better human beings than Ansu ba ...i am not saying bcoz they think from Bhumi's side , but bcoz they have some heart .

I am sorry to say this but i hope Avni is treated the same way in her sasural coz inspite of being young she is taking evident pleasure in all this bitchiness .

An experienced elder is using her experience for destruction of young lives instead of construction and it sickens me coz Ansu ba is not fit to be categorized as an elder ...never have i waited so much for Gayatri's tongue lashing i am simply waiting for the scene where she strips Ansu Ba verbally and gives her good , unmindful of Bhumi or Jai . And that stupid Nans who subjected her grand daughter to this life and is herself sitting cosily in US thinking Bhumi has a rosy life and her decision was perfect .

Areyyy what do expect! if that mad woman can try to break a pavitra marriage for her own swarth she can use God as a means to do it too.😡 She has no shame😡. Parul and Spiderman together has to do something about this. Spiderman needs to wake from his slumber soon and support who is RIGHT!I now like Lily and Ramila because it is proven that they have a heart and not many in that family do. As for Avni😡 I agree she should totally be asked to make laddoos in her sasural and be insulted for not being able to roll them perfectly. THEN she will know what Bhoomi is going through that she is grinning so much🤬 I have to admit I was extremely sickened by watching yesterdays episode. Someone has to lash this mad woman soon!😡