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Posted: 14 years ago
#11
Pihu is just a pathetic and unhappy person. She acts like shes the shytt and thank god rudra is not with her cuz she doesnt deserve him or abhay.
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Posted: 14 years ago
#12
Hi all,
I have to respectfully but heartily disagree. I was cheering for Pihu when I saw this sequence.
I love Pihu's spunk, she's not just going to fall at Abhay's feet like a "good" girl/wife- no, she's going to make him earn her love and touch. When real people like her fall, though, they fall hard and completely, and all the conflict is usually worth it with a marriage that is enviable and strong with a lifetime in love connection between the spouses.
I actually thought though,when Abhay realized she was not going to give in so easily, that he was a smart man, but he didn't even really romance her, especially by showing her how much he understands her and loves the qualities that make her tick - which most women cannot resist no matter how headstrong, so I was disappointed there. He really did not show himself to be worthy of her by quietly understanding what she wanted and needed and providing that though she clearly showed she is willing to be won by him by going with him - he just failed with the opportunity 😊. No hard luck, he has to rework the strategy.
He should show that he thinks she is worthy of being earned, that she is a treasure he will fight for to have a possibility of winning her truly - and most men appreciate that most which they must fight for as in prove themselves worthy of, so I loved her pushing him into the pool, and I think her talking about Rudra is her disappointment at her husband not showing the same desire to win her as before they were married so he could cast her off and accept defeat, or he could entice her to fall in love with him by his actions. She is clearly a woman full of passion, more real and admirable to me than others who simply submit to roles and parents or husbands and one I can cheer for.
I love the way their love story is unfolding. I hate to see a weak willed woman, not being one myself, and an equally strong and loving man- which I hope the creatives will have Abhay prove himself - those are rare and amazing, I know, having one myself. That love story will be hard to beat if it happens like that!
Hope you don't mind my two cents.
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Posted: 14 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: -JONAKI-

Cheapest thing is to touch a woman without her permission whether slap or kiss.Sorry to say but now I find A more immatured than R.He is a doctor.He should know how to deal with Pihu.

@Jo - On red - Do they teach how to deal with a woman in medschool?🤣
On a serious note - I do think whatever she said was way out of league but at the same time Abhay lacked common sense. Just because they are married he cant just go full speed on this kind of things without regard to her feelings. He was just too busy with his advances that he didnt even notice that she was not liking it. So yeah he deserved it - I went nuts laughing when he landed in that water🤣. He deserved to land on the water like that but the rest what she told him was too low, he didnt deserve to hear that.
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Posted: 14 years ago
#14
The character of Pihu is beyond any repair. Don't know why the CVs r still showing her.👎🏼
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Posted: 14 years ago
#15
No one has the right to slap any human being on earth.
Always talk out or get a third person to handle. The one
who slap don't deserve a women in his life. He is no
difference from an animal. 👏👏👏
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Posted: 14 years ago
#16
nah. i think all da slaps r messing up her way of thinking. she's forgetting to think b4 doin sumtin now. 😆😛
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Posted: 14 years ago
#17
Yup.. thats what I felt after watching the last episode..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Sorry but i disagree, i know you didn't mean slaps literally but you kinda want her to be taught a lesson if i understood correctly.
Well every character in my opinion has to be understood in its own context, Pihu as a character (the way they have portrayed her so far) is childish and as some said here is someone who wants attention, she wants to have her way because she is some what spoiled.
But she does not need the kind of attention Abhay was trying to give her, i know abhay was not wrong in what he was trying to do but if he wants Pihu to "reform" he has to give her time. Its not that Abhay was not aware of how Pihu is or how irrationally she can react at times, so Pihu did not act out of character.
I agree Pihu needs to change, she is too irrational and all at times but shouting at her or slapping her woul help no one. Someone needs to work on her and slowly change her. If it has to be Abhay , he needs to talk to her and kinda like "slow poison" her mind with positivity ... trying to romance like that with a character like Pihu was recipe for disaster, he needs to win her trust first then slowly make her realise that she cant be this irrational about the most important things in her life. Sometimes insecurities make you react like this which make people appear egoistic, when its due to the insecurities. Abhay basivcally needs to remove her insecurities and fears first. Pihu need to grow up no doubt but someone needs to lead her way patiently.
Pihu in some ways is like any other girl, if you remember her wedding sequence (where shweta performed) she was imagining rudhra would come and would hold his ears cutely and they will hug and it will all be well but when rudhra came what he did instead? Tried doing it by force, which is not what Pihu wanted, her wish or imagination if you notice was so innocent compared to what rudhra did. I am not blaming rudhra nor saying he was wrong but just like Pihu never understood Rudhra i feel he never understood Pihu either. Pihu is still a kid and accordingly her wishes at times are very innocent too and when they are not fulfilled or the world around her does not appear as innocent, she has the tendency to loose it.
All Pihu needs is to be loved, to get attention and not the use of force in anyway.
As for the way she reacted yesterday, i think she went into a trance when abhay started romancing, which is pretty natural for someone who has had someone in her life not so long ago ... and when such trances break, rationality is the victim.
I have not watched all the episodes but this is based on all i have seen, i may be wrong but this is what i feel about Pihu's char
Edited by Soaps1 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
#19

Originally posted by: verai

somebody 4got to use her fake id 😆

this once again explains all the aditi hatred and pihu bashing that has been going on in this forum
sangini forum is packed with fake id tereliye fans/additi haters
but truth always come to light and truth is out in open
get a life you harshad fans🤢
remember that you will pay for your sins and foul actions, if you dont fear IF rules then atleast fear God
shame on you
ADITI GUPTA ROCKS .............. on your face 😡


Guess what? I don't need your certificate or approval to post here ... and unlike you i don't have time to register fake IDs just to post on forums 🥱 Only if you had a little sense you could see my post was neither against Pihu nor Additi but i think you read posts wearing glasses that turn you blind 🤣

I didn't come here to fight so after this will try not to reply to you, you can say whatever you want but don't you dare send me a threatening pm again
Edited by Soaps1 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
#20

Originally posted by: verai

u deserve it

i dont have to read your post to understand why you are here...... supporting pihu / Additi 🤣 my foot


Oh so you commented without reading? 😆 Tabhi tou 🤣

Waisey tou i was here neither to support Pihu or Ag, nor i claimed that, i only came to post my POV on Pihu and how i have understood her so far ... but just want to ask who hired you to approve who can and who can't support AG and Pihu? 😆

Chalo have fun 🥳
Edited by Soaps1 - 14 years ago

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