Marriage For Revenge and Gauri

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Posted: 14 years ago
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We have heard of many kinds of marriage love marriage,arrange marriage etc.But sad but truth marriage for revenge also exists.And mostly the men forcefully marry the woman from whom he wants to take revenge.
But are these marriages should be considered as marriage?A man and woman have to take seven wows to get married.But when the wows are taken to destroy someones life can we consider them as the auspicious wows.Will the marriage be legal?
Our hero Rudr is going to marry Gauri to take revenge from her.But is this the last option left to take revenge?Can't he think of something else?How will marriage help him taking revenge?Will he torture her?But how long will he torture her?When will his revenge end?After Gauri's death?
What do you want Gauri to do?As Rudr is her love will she endure all the tortures from Rudr or will she divorce him?I can see Gauri tolerating Rudr's behaviour for the sake of this show.Indian audience loves to Sati Savitri Bahus.
What would do you if you were in Gauri's place and Rudr's place?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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What! It's going to be for revenge?
er... Gauri was such an independent character until Rudr came along....now she's mush....can't think straight....just running around...
if i were Gauri, i would first remove myself from the scene for a few days....shut myself up at home...post Champu and Ma and Nani and anyone else as guards ..... stop Rudr and Bhabhi and Dadaji from coming within 2 miles of my house. I'll also lock my room door and just think....be by myself......find my old confident self......then i will open the door !!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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In real life - forced marriage and revenge marriage is a big no.
If Rudr is a real person I know in real life, I would try to get him behind bars and I will ask Gauri not to abide by that mariage.
But in a story when we watch it for mere entertainment, it adds a lot of drama and spice to the story so I would say bring it on. In the story I would like Gauri to fight back though, dont want her to take whatever comes her way with tears in her eyes.
Just my take.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Best topic i have seen for post some days JO ,well parents force gal or boy for marriage ,LOL force marriages , and i have seen some horrible revenge marriage and i shiver to think what the guy did to gals family but he never harmed her only saviour

anyways its no in real life , but things dont stop or change , just because we dont like it

I wish G give one tight slap to R and say this is not marriage , if u want revenge bring it on , i can show u hell too......

we dont really know what RR is going to say which will make him think its only option to take revenge on her , else R can destroy her life within secs without marrying her , his revenge will never end , its going to get deep with the way the gal will face it ....

I prefer G packing her bags n go to her shop if she was forced to stay at his place , and i want her to put R behind bars or give him back with equal intensity to show , she is not a NOBODY who he can play with ...............
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I know of a girl who was in college and was in love with a guy and her wedding with him was fixed too. HE was in Dubai and the wedding dates and stuff were being fixed back in India. There was this other guy who liked her was pretty close to the family and rich too. One day she was waiting at the bus stop when he offered her a lift and took her to the temple and forcefully tied the mangalsutra. A big hungama happened the guy in Dubai told her to take off the mangalsutra he would come and marry her. She thought about it for a few days and decided to not remove the mangalsutra and go ahead and live with that man only because people around her would have taunted her had she removed the mangalsutra and married the guy in Dubai. Ppl are a little too senti abt removing mangalsutra and stuff like that. Basically they r from a village.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Jo forceful marriages do happen and in quite a few cases the women ends up staying with that person only.

How Gauri is going to react to the situation is to seen.


Edited by Anuhia - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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anu its not about one being from urban or rural places, its about the one who is strong enough to deal with it , if the gal really is strong and confident she can kick his *** and society as no one has right t decide her faith , what if he kill her?? stuff like this can never be left to societys decisions
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: JayaV

anu its not about one being from urban or rural places, its about the one who is strong enough to deal with it , if the gal really is strong and confident she can kick his *** and society as no one has right t decide her faith , what if he kill her?? stuff like this can never be left to societys decisions


I agree it has nothing to do with rural and urban stuff . And we cannot leave such decisions to society but unfortunately scores of people take decisions keeping in mind societys view. Many crimes against women are never reported so that the society doesnot get a chance to point out at a girl's character and spoil her future. I am not saying the girl took the right decision.
Edited by Anuhia - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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agree, but self will should be there to stand against this things , when it happens no one can stop a gal .
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Nice post. forcefull marriages ruin a girl life but if she is love then no one stop her.

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