Can we cut her some slack ??

I'm a Doctor so believe me I know a thing or two about professionalism or lack of it and it's importance in the field of medicine and clinical practice.

But I'm also a sympathetic human being . I've a heart and I understand human pain . All too well.

Allow Ishani to be a human being first. She can be a doctor later. She's devastated. She's living dead. From the moment she understood Sid wont come , her heart was breaking and she was coming apart in seams. She got sloshed in desperate attempt to find some respite from pain . Yet next day , she turned up as usual for her work , gathering herself together. She could've bunked . Taken a leave. But the work must go on.

But she was thrown into the ground and road rolled in the most brutal way next. Not only she found out that suddenly the love of her life is married to her friend but also that she doesn't even deserve to have an explanation! All things considered, I think she behaved rather bravely. What happened to her was inhuman. Cruel. Dr. Sid and Dr. Asha are sadistic sick people who don't have basic human decency. Yes Ishani was desperate for an answer, but the way Dr. Sid humiliated her in front of the entire hospital, it was brutal and NO, SHE DID NOT DESERVE IT. That's not how you behave with a colleague and friend, or Dr. Ishani not even that ?? You can not disown a person at your convenience just like that. Human beings are not toys to play with.

I regret coming to the forum today. Every one is ripping apart Dr. Ishani as if she's done a big crime, that too when she's at her lowest. She's trying to keep herself together. But it is easier said than done. She's a kind, gentle and sensitive girl and she's strong too. Strong enough to give time to herself to break down and mourn her lost love. Can we not cut her some slack ?? Self respect kahi bhagi nehi jaa rahi hai.. But a person is in immense pain, can we be kinder.

I'm sorry it rubbed me the wrong way because I've witnessed such a thing happening to one of my close friends. Her boyfriend dumped her for another girl just like that. We're both doing shift and she was looking pale and blank for a while and then suddenly, in the middle of the ward she started crying her heart out. I still remember that heart broken cry of anguish, it reduced all of us , nurses , staffs and me in tears too .

Dr. Ishani deserves an answer, until she gets that she can't get a closure which is essential for moving on . She's now in denial , then anger , bargaining and depressed , soon she'll reach the stage of acceptance. It's not even a complete day and people take months some times years to just barely move on from their love and heart break. And here we expect her to get it together all in the span of one day just because it suits us to see a fake strong heroine ??

Beautiful post, and SC portrayal as Ishani is looking so convincing for a heartbreak. I am shocked watching it, specially today's starting scene.

Even I also need a closure for that public humiliation. He married asha under some pressure but why did he humiliate Ishani like this infront of everyone that too at her workplace. They brought a terrible heart break before the start of their love story itself.

Much needed post 👍🏼

Yes definitely ishani need answer. Sid use to give her hint that he is also interest in her and then he suddenly left her without any clearance so he cant escape from question from ishani

Ishani is not wrong demanding answers

More over ishani is not forcing Dr sid upon herself but indeed she need answer

Being a doctor does not mean ishani has to always smile . She is not computerized character she is human being and can feel hurt at some time

And sometimes shock and pain is too big that sometimes it is hard to control sadness anger no matter where that person is standing be in hospital or home

Same happen to ishani she has get biggest shock betrayal then it is hard for ishani to control her emotions and talking in smile no matter she is on duty

It is expected Dr ishani to behave as doctor . But did Dr sid and Dr aasha behave as doctor toward ishani in hospital? It is completely no . Did both have any basic human feeling toward her .it is no then why should not ishani should show her displeasure?

Loved your post..!! The writers forgot that Sanjivani is a hospital..!! I can’t believe that they showed such humiliation of Ishani in front of her colleagues at her workplace..!! No one does that...

I understand that it needs days months years to forget someone.. but sorry can’t approve the fact that she was lingering around at the hospital the whole day with tears.. I am disappointed with dr Shashank.. dr juhi has professional relationship with her, but Shashank? Can’t he talk to her privately & tell a few comforting words? At least tell her to go home & gather herself..!! Sorry to hear about your friend, it’s human nature.. if we are sad it’s very difficult for most of us to work like a robot... but the initial blow is huge, that’s the most difficult time to handle.. I wished they wouldn’t have shown that drama in the hospital.. and I will have a hard time to imagine Sid-Ishani as a pair now..

and about Dr Asha? She was shown as a selfish person from beginning.. she was the one who put the idea of love in Ishani’s mind, encouraged her to go after Sid.. she never liked the idea of marriage, but now got married (even its fake) to Sid... whatever Sid-Asha has done is brutal.

Originally posted by: KALVIN

Beautiful post, and SC portrayal as Ishani is looking so convincing for a heartbreak. I am shocked watching it, specially today's starting scene.

SC is forte is her expression and performance in emotional scenes and she usually nails them. She's terrific in last few episodes . I had goose bumps watching her . The crippling sense of grief and loss is not just portrayed through her facial expressions and body language but in her body language as well.

Originally posted by: neenu55

Even I also need a closure for that public humiliation. He married asha under some pressure but why did he humiliate Ishani like this infront of everyone that too at her workplace. They brought a terrible heart break before the start of their love story itself.

I watched the scene twice and now I've realized some thing . Even as a friend and colleague she has a right to ask some questions and demand answers . If I know two of my very close friends who were never in a relationship before , got married all on a sudden and they never told me nothing , I'd totally be shocked and think that they never trusted me or really considered me as their friend.

Yes , she shouldn't have mentioned the confession in drunk state for her own good but I totally understand her reactions. She'd no time to gather herself around the shock of such a thing , no time to pull herself together to form a cold , distant , stiff and dignified response to this utter nonsense.

Why is Dr. Ishani expected to behave in a ceratin way when others get a wide pass , remind me again ??? Dr. Sid and Dr. Asha were looking comic with garlands around their neck , with tilak and standing at the doorway with Mithai ka dabba like a pair of jokers . DR. Sid even insisted on feeding apna Ishani apne hathon se..

Is nobody going to say nothing about that ?? If they'd announced the marriage privately in the resting room or conference room or canteen , there wouldn't have such a big mess . But no , ye dono to ghar se hi nikle the ye thhan ke , ki aj Ishani ko sabke samne insult karna hai aur usko nicha dikhana hai aur emotionally ruin karna hai !

I'm a Doctor so believe me I know a thing or two about professionalism or lack of it and it's importance in the field of medicine and clinical practice.

But I'm also a sympathetic human being . I've a heart and I understand human pain . All too well.

Allow Ishani to be a human being first. She can be a doctor later. She's devastated. She's living dead. From the moment she understood Sid wont come , her heart was breaking and she was coming apart in seams. She got sloshed in desperate attempt to find some respite from pain . Yet next day , she turned up as usual for her work , gathering herself together. She could've bunked . Taken a leave. But the work must go on.

But she was thrown into the ground and road rolled in the most brutal way next. Not only she found out that suddenly the love of her life is married to her friend but also that she doesn't even deserve to have an explanation! All things considered, I think she behaved rather bravely. What happened to her was inhuman. Cruel. Dr. Sid and Dr. Asha are sadistic sick people who don't have basic human decency. Yes Ishani was desperate for an answer, but the way Dr. Sid humiliated her in front of the entire hospital, it was brutal and NO, SHE DID NOT DESERVE IT. That's not how you behave with a colleague and friend, or Dr. Ishani not even that ?? You can not disown a person at your convenience just like that. Human beings are not toys to play with.

I regret coming to the forum today. Every one is ripping apart Dr. Ishani as if she's done a big crime, that too when she's at her lowest. She's trying to keep herself together. But it is easier said than done. She's a kind, gentle and sensitive girl and she's strong too. Strong enough to give time to herself to break down and mourn her lost love. Can we not cut her some slack ?? Self respect kahi bhagi nehi jaa rahi hai.. But a person is in immense pain, can we be kinder.

I'm sorry it rubbed me the wrong way because I've witnessed such a thing happening to one of my close friends. Her boyfriend dumped her for another girl just like that. We're both doing shift and she was looking pale and blank for a while and then suddenly, in the middle of the ward she started crying her heart out. I still remember that heart broken cry of anguish, it reduced all of us , nurses , staffs and me in tears too .

Dr. Ishani deserves an answer, until she gets that she can't get a closure which is essential for moving on . She's now in denial , then anger , bargaining and depressed , soon she'll reach the stage of acceptance. It's not even a complete day and people take months some times years to just barely move on from their love and heart break. And here we expect her to get it together all in the span of one day just because it suits us to see a fake strong heroine ??

I totally agree with 💯%

It isn’t gonna take one day and everting is fine! Omg also today’s episode Dr.Asha sooo selfish!!🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

Felt so bad for both Sid and Ishani lost ishani!!

And the scene were Ishani was suffocating omg I felt here! Surbhi nailed it! And Sid giving here a paperbag.. Sid 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

Originally posted by: hi50

Loved your post..!! The writers forgot that Sanjivani is a hospital..!! I can’t believe that they showed such humiliation of Ishani in front of her colleagues at her workplace..!! No one does that...

I understand that it needs days months years to forget someone.. but sorry can’t approve the fact that she was lingering around at the hospital the whole day with tears.. I am disappointed with dr Shashank.. dr juhi has professional relationship with her, but Shashank? Can’t he talk to her privately & tell a few comforting words? At least tell her to go home & gather herself..!! Sorry to hear about your friend, it’s human nature.. if we are sad it’s very difficult for most of us to work like a robot... but the initial blow is huge, that’s the most difficult time to handle.. I wished they wouldn’t have shown that drama in the hospital.. and I will have a hard time to imagine Sid-Ishani as a pair now..

and about Dr Asha? She was shown as a selfish person from beginning.. she was the one who put the idea of love in Ishani’s mind, encouraged her to go after Sid.. she never liked the idea of marriage, but now got married (even its fake) to Sid... whatever Sid-Asha has done is brutal.

More like Dr. Sid and Dr. Asha forgot. 🤔 It was height of unprofessionalism by these two to turn like a pair of jokers with garland, Tilak and Mithai ka dabba jaise ki koi chawl ho , na ki hospital , at the gate and make a circus out of it. Dr. Shashank and Dr. Juhi rightfully mentioned that this is a hospital , not their house.

DR. Shashank disappointed me too , Ishani was there for him during his critical brain tumor period and now that she needs a shoulder to cry on , or at least some sort of support , kind words , she gets nothing from him.

I don't think she made a scene anywhere any time , she was properly professional in front of the patients where it counts , putting aside her personal grief and doing her duty steadfastly . I admire her even more for her tenacity . And No I disagree with you that she perhaps could've taken a day off or two to lick her open wounds. There's a difference between other professional fields and clinical medicine . One can not just just take a leave . At least not a doctor who is as devoted and passionate about her job as Dr. Ishani. She did left early on the 1st day , saying to Dr. Juhi, " I'm sorry pad mera dimaag kaam nehi kar raha hai.. " But next day she had to come because ( I'm speaking from experience ) there are always scheduled OTs , for which there has been weeks or even months of preparation going beforehand and patient is admitted on a particular day and he's to be operated on the scheduled date . Also there are cases which only the attending doctor can understand and treat best , because she/ he would be knowing all the minute details about the patient and can follow up or diagnose any progression or regression immediately . If she hands over to some colleague even with detailed information and notes , it wouldn't be the same. Of course many doctors don't care about such things and for them , their personal grief would've prevailed at a time like this. But not the good ones. Definitely not the great ones.

You call it unprofessionalism , I call it an admirable example of devotion and dedication towards her patients , the fact that she got up, dressed up , turned up and attended. It's a mark of how strong she actually is under her gentle exterior. Any one lesser than Dr. Ishani would've curled up in bed and cry and cry .

So what if she bursts into tears in private at times ?? No harm done. She's doing her work and that's the only thing matters for her patients and yes , for a doctor , only their opinion matters.

To quote Ishani herself, " Jab Patient hi nehi bachega to kya tera kya mera. "