Why Sanyukta?!

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Na1na

@Na1na

Dazzler

+ 4

Posted: 11 years ago

I have just logged in here so i don't know if a post about this has been made or not...

im going to go ahead and say this anyway..

WHAT IS WRONG WITH THIS GIRL???

I know! I know!
It was Randhir's mistake... he was at fault.. galti se hi sahi... par usne photo bheji...

I know that Sanyukta's anger towards him is justified..

But what i HATED about todays episode was her pretending to be hurt and crying and saying all that emotional stuff when it was all actually a plan.

You know what this is called..

Using someone's concern and care for you against them!

After Randhir wiped her tears in the Grooming classes she has realized that he cannot see her cry.. she has realized that no matter what he says he can not bear to see her in pain..

And so she is using this against him.

She knows that the moment Randhir will see her crying he will let down his guard.. He wont pay attention to other things as he usually does and make things easy for her.. Make it easy for her to fool him.

She did that the day she had to go on a date... and even today.

The same thing.

And both the times after Randhir sort of backed out..

That day even after him promising, she did that... okay... i will still give it to her... that she did that because she had to make sure he doesnt do something stupid.

But today?! For the first time Randhir said.. "Im Sorry" and yet she doesnt understand.
Hasnt she realized how much she effects him? Hell even Vidushi has managed to understand everything!

Fine dont. Dont understand!
But atleast dont use his concern for you against him!!

I dont care what she did to him. What prank she played on him... all that is secondary!

What is important is the fact that Sanyukta is being very very very insensitive right now!

In a way she's just playing with him.. his feelings and his care for her.

Prank karna hai toh karo... But why so much drama? Why so many dialogues..? Why targeting his emotions?

Im sorry if i have offended anyone here.

Please note that im not bashing Sanyukta and nor am i siding with Randhir.

But what she's doing is unacceptable.

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luvsandhir

@luvsandhir

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

Grt post!
I have a lot to say on this!
Res..

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Saffi Sanam

@ilovepyaar

Stunner

+ 7

Posted: 11 years ago

Thank you so much. I was feeling the same way. Sanyukta needs to realize that playing with someone's emotions won't get you ahead in life. Heck, I'm sure that Randhir wouldn't even be pissed at her about the manipulated photo - what he might be mad at her about is using her emotions to get back at him, because that's actually a quality that someone with a heart made out of stone has. Forgetting about being a female role model, she shouldn't even be a role model as a human. At least that's what I feel.

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Sweta

@Helooohybye

Inactive

Posted: 11 years ago

Arey sB shAnt hojao aaj sNyu ne jo kia galat kia lekin dushra pehlu bhi toh dekho useh pata hai ki rd uski care karta haia nd you only tell tum agar sanyu ki jagah hoti yoh kya karti ...gusse mein admi kuch bhi karta hai aur rahi sandhir ki baat toh aaj kuch galat nahi dikha and sanyukta is not at all emotionless its just that usne new rd ko nahi dekha so chill and watch the show the writer are now knowing whAt we want so let them do their work so all i can say js chill

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sandhir.candy

@sandhir.candy

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 11 years ago

actually she has done it 3rd time..

1st time when they were locked in library..from that time she knew that he can't see anyone crying & gets affected...but at that time it was justifiable as it was just to defend herself..& get out of the situation

but doing it to create difficulties to other is not justifiable...she has all right to get angry & taking revenge on it... but she can do it without playing with emotions...no need to play with someone's emotion

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Na1na

@Na1na

Dazzler

+ 4

Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Helooohybye
Arey sB shAnt hojao aaj sNyu ne jo kia galat kia lekin dushra pehlu bhi toh dekho useh pata hai ki rd uski care karta haia nd you only tell tum agar sanyu ki jagah hoti yoh kya karti ...gusse mein admi kuch bhi karta hai aur rahi sandhir ki baat toh aaj kuch galat nahi dikha and sanyukta is not at all emotionless its just that usne new rd ko nahi dekha so chill and watch the show the writer are now knowing whAt we want so let them do their work so all i can say js chill

Theek hai.. Usse pata hai ki wo uski care karta hai... Par iska matlab ye nhi hai ki wo uss baat ka faayda uthayegi... Ye galat hai.
Aur agar main sanyu ki jagah hoti toh kya karti?!
Main uspe chillati, usse bhala bura kehti.. Uspe shayad Asia koi prank bhi karti... Par kabhi bhi itna drama nahi karti. Ye jaante hue ki mere aansu kisi le liye important hai aur kisi ko itna effect karte hai, main kabhi bhi iss baat ka faayda nhi uthaati.. Chahe wo mera dushman hi kyun na ho. And that is why this insensitive and manipulative sanyukta is hard to understand or sympathise with.
And that is where I disagree with you... Aaj mujhe toh bahot kuch galat dikha. And u say ki sanyu ne new rd ko nhi dekha and she is not emotionless. Maybe she's not... Par is she unobservant too? Uss din uske liye randhir he promise kiya.. Aaj usne pehli baar usse sorry tak keh diya. Ab tak new rd nhi dikha toh kab dikhega? Is she really that dumb? Vidushi ko bhi sab kuch dikh rha hai..! Vo kuch dekhna hi nhi chahti... Isiliye I said its unacceptable. At least to me it is..

I don't know what the writers are trying to do... I don't think they know what we want. We don't want just some random sandhir scenes. We want growth in their relationship. We want them to understand... Or at least try understanding each other. They are unnecessarily complicating things.. Randhir ko villain banake, Sanyukta ko insensitive banake pata nhi kya saabit karna chahte hai..
So right now I don't think I can chill...

I'm sorry if I'm sounding rude..
I have no intention of offending you..
You have an opinion and I have mine..
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Shaily

@Shaily.

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

I don't understand why she can't do this? Obviously she doesn't like him so she's going to do whatever it takes to get back at him.. she doesn't owe him anything. He is mean to her and so is she.

Randhir takes advantage of sanyukta's family ALL the freaking time... He uses Sameer against her and he uses her family against. She has feelings for her family and he uses those feelings against her. I don't see you defending Sanyukta when Randhir is mean to her.

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DushtDanaf.

@DushtDanaf.

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 11 years ago

seriously the first 1-2 times i was alright with it

but now its seems like playing with RD's emotions has become her go to method to solve anything. its not inspiring or something to be commemorated. infact i find it very unclassy, and playing dirty. now when she really means it, Randhirs not some idiot who's gonna believe a liar EVERY single time so he wont trust her when that time comes. 🤔

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Nida

@Gurmeet4Drashti

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 11 years ago

True that ... I totally understand her prank or getting back at him !!

It's totally understandable but now when she realized that Randhir doesn't like it when she cries ... She's using it as a trump card !! :/

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achiever

@achiever

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: Shaily.
I don't understand why she can't do this? Obviously she doesn't like him so she's going to do whatever it takes to get back at him.. she doesn't owe him anything. He is mean to her and so is she.
Randhir takes advantage of sanyukta's family ALL the freaking time... He uses Sameer against her and he uses her family against. She has feelings for her family and he uses those feelings against her. I don't see you defending Sanyukta when Randhir is mean to her.

right bt is this same sanyukta who wud go out of way to help even someone like Vidhushi!!! Yes, Randhir is mean and very very rude sometimes, he irritates her like hell and if i wer in her place he would've been my dushman no. 1 and i obviously i wudnt see his good points or gestures or the way he is changing esp wen i dont even like him and especially after the way he hurt my feelings, betrayed my trust tht however evil he might be he wudnt do the drastic.

But her trust was broken when he revealed her secret to her dad after helping her out all through the way! Since then the doors of her heart have been closed for him and she doesnt want to see Randhir beyond tht image and to help her, there is always Parth around her and she no longer needs Randhir.

so i dont blame her or her attitude towards Randhir but I always thought she wud remain dignified in her revenge and that wud b wat wud make Randhir melt finally! But this, this is just downgrade of her character. She can be mean, but then she has to b consciously clear about her acts and shud at least mull and justify to her self.. but sadly she comes out to be totally manipulative and insensitive girl.. a complete opposite to what she is to others and it isnt even out of frustration! It was cold and calculative vindictive approach and that is what bothers me and many other Sanyukta fans perhaps!😳

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