What exactly gargi meant?

Today's episode was fun. Got to see a team work of maurya family including Deepu. Shyamlal's insult is on way, though Deepu's anger is understandable this time.

What exactly gargi's whole argument with Manu meant? What I decipher that gargi meant that Manu mostly depends on kismat(as she said lakeer ke phakeer), instead of taking action. He straightaway believes that "jab kuch galat kiya hi nahi hai to kuch galat hoga bhi nai" instead of taking the action.

I am I right?

I think she meant to apply some buddhi over the principle ""jab kuch galat kiya hi nahi hai to kuch galat hoga bhi nai." I think while Manu firmly believes in this principles, he is oblivious to the duniadaari ki tor tareeke toh in a sense, this principle has a double edge sword on him.

Toh in a way, you are right. He wants to be self-sufficent completely as opposed to taking some help. Although I do feel it is important to where the help is coming from, so this is where I'm disagreeing with Gargi over. I mean, perhaps the statement needed some clarity ki supposed help milti h from a person like Daddy ji, toh karza utar dena chahiye.

Like when jiju asked his relatives for help but efforts were futile, at least doodh ka doodh paani ka pani toh hua. Deepu ka toh pata ta ki he's selfish and everyone in the family is cognizant of this.

I feel both are right and wrong at the same time.

Gargi is right that world doesn't work the way Manu thinks. Acche ke saath accha ho ye zaruri nai hai. He is blessed as he never done bad with anyone not because people around him are good. However, Manu is also not wrong it's always good to be self-sufficient instead of depending on anyone. He can't always take help from daddy. He already have a 7.5 lakh to pay. Yes daddy not mind helping over and over again, but taking constant help from someone constantly can shut your brain and make you dependent. As a business owner he need to cultivate problem solving trait. Plus FIL helping SIL is not so good in the long term. Deepu ko hi dekh lo.😆

Both actually misinterpret the situation, Manu thinks that gargi called her father for obvious reasons i.e. vishwas, because it's kanak who told her to do so. Gargi thinks that Manu sabke saamne dhaus jamaake chala gaya, so need to put some sense into him, as she said bahar pati ka role nibha kar aaye ho na.😆

Originally posted by: rbpll

I feel both are right and wrong at the same time.

Gargi is right that world doesn't work the way Manu thinks. Acche ke saath accha ho ye zaruri nai hai. He is blessed as he never done bad with anyone not because people around him are good. However, Manu is also not wrong it's always good to be self-sufficient instead of depending on anyone. He can't always take help from daddy. He already have a 7.5 lakh to pay. Yes daddy not mind helping over and over again, but taking constant help from someone constantly can shut your brain and make you dependent. As a business owner he need to cultivate problem solving trait. Plus FIL helping SIL is not so good in the long term. Deepu ko hi dekh lo.😆

Both actually misinterpret the situation, Manu thinks that gargi called her father for obvious reasons i.e. vishwas, because it's kanak who told her to do so. Gargi thinks that Manu sabke saamne dhaus jamaake chala gaya, so need to put some sense into him, as she said bahar pati ka role nibha kar aaye ho na.😆

Dono apni jagah sahi b h aur sahi b nhi h. Manu's point is right asking for help will make be in debt & down the road, reliable on his FIL, which is not healthy for business growth in the long term especially if his B2C becomes profitable down the road toh karza toh utar jaiga but the FIL helping despite cognizant of Manu's words is what becomes overbearing.

Problem is he didn't ask about source of the call (Kanak) while she didn't disclose it by herself either. Toh MU toh develop ho hi gya ta. Though it was nice to see the entire family minus Deepu & Pinki chime in over Shikha's social media ka idea for garnering funding for the business in terms of starting off as a B2C funda. Taakhi awareness wapas se bhi jage aur faida b ho.

Also, I think you mentioned in the past as to how Manu's BIL and grandma were at fault but I feel part of this also comes from the fact that Manu somewhat relied on his BIL for source dependence. Like for example, woh 4 dinn tak bank se loan lena was futile, partly also from Shyamlal's bad debt history, toh he relied on his BIL for help in terms of documentation and logistics.

Abhi khud ka business start kia toh thokar khaakey gira that he didn't sign the contract for agreement thereby losing the location for his business. Uske BIL ne source pucha and nothing happened, but Manu stated that there was no need to doing this but the BIL saw it as apnapan toh tazurba b milta, kaun difficult conditions mein support deta h and whatnot. Manu needs to basically get a balance of this principle to figure out how and when to ask for help perhaps which I think might be his journey of.

I think Deepu deposited 5000 because probably in the future, bhaichara par sawal uth sakta h unless he deeply considers Manu his brother by heart toh tabh ka tabh pata chalega.

Also, woh bank ne hadaplia hoga all the money.

Originally posted by: Myrah_2020

Also, I think you mentioned in the past as to how Manu's BIL and grandma were at fault but I feel part of this also comes from the fact that Manu somewhat relied on his BIL for source dependence. Like for example, woh 4 dinn tak bank se loan lena was futile, partly also from Shyamlal's bad debt history, toh he relied on his BIL for help in terms of documentation and logistics.

Abhi khud ka business start kia toh thokar khaakey gira that he didn't sign the contract for agreement thereby losing the location for his business. Uske BIL ne source pucha and nothing happened, but Manu stated that there was no need to doing this but the BIL saw it as apnapan toh tazurba b milta, kaun difficult conditions mein support deta h and whatnot. Manu needs to basically get a balance of this principle to figure out how and when to ask for help perhaps which I think might be his journey of.

Despite all the struggles maurya family has gone through , Manu has pretty much secure, loving, and supportive family. Apart from Deepu and pinky, everyone in the family believes and support him. Nobody is there to give him reality checks, and this is where gargi comes into picture. Her practical approach will help him to understand duniyadaari. He is going to learn from all the hustles and mistakes in his business, which is fine. All of us are pretty naive in start of our career and learn from the mistakes, same going to be for Manu.

The whole journey is of Manu where his belief "jab galat kiya hi nahi to galat hoga bhi nahi" is to going to be challenged at every step which was clear in promo itself that says "Is Duniya E Fareb Me Koi Usool Nahi Hota, Acche Ke Saath Achha Ho Aisa Koi Rule Nahi Hota..."

Though I wonder gargi who herself keep on challenging his belief, is going to fond of same kindness and innocence which she at times find irritating.😛

Originally posted by: Myrah_2020

I think Deepu deposited 5000 because probably in the future, bhaichara par sawal uth sakta h unless he deeply considers Manu his brother by heart toh tabh ka tabh pata chalega.

Also, woh bank ne hadaplia hoga all the money.

I think this time it is genuine. A day before he was saying ki bura laga ki daadi ka sapna pura nai ho saka. I don't think makers are going to make him dark, he is grey.

Originally posted by: rbpll

Though I wonder gargi who herself keep on challenging his belief, is going to fond of same kindness and innocence which she at times find irritating.😛

She has started to bond with Kanak even though it is still neutral at this point, but I do wish Kanak tones down a bit at times. Like for example, when Shyamlal bought Urmila to the store inauguration, there definitely is some form of complexity or strained relationship with her in-laws.

I think uska bhi journey parallel mei chalega but more emphasis onto how she evolves as a character after bonding with Manu and the Mauryas. Vishwas ki reality woh kaise pehchanti h, only the writers are cognizant of this fact for synopsis development. Majority of her attention is on Manu as opposed to Vishwas. it's in front of Manu, where a character called gargi exists.😁...In front of rest of the character, she is pretty normal or neutral, I mean she doesn't talk much including her dad. And don't get me started on vishwas.

Manu is the central character, show revolves around Manu, to Manu hi Manu hone waala hai. In fact vishwas bhi Manu ke jaap lagata hai.

She has started to bond with Kanak even though it is still neutral at this point, but I do wish Kanak tones down a bit at times. Like for example, when Shyamlal bought Urmila to the store inauguration, there definitely is some form of complexity or strained relationship with her in-laws. In a way I like kanak and the actress's acting. Yeah she can be loud at times. But after daadi, she is sort of matriarch figure in the family so I understand the stress.

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LOL, this text disappearance is just a jarring thing man, so I'm just copying the post and tagging you here.

Haan, uski kahani shayad parallel mein showcase karenge but ensuring that it doesn't take over the entire crux of the story jiss par kahani bani h. Manu is the more major role for sure.

I do like Kanak, Jiju, and Daadi. Even Shyamlal is good but I feel character is more of a narrator wala role in disguise of Manu's dad.