Why is everyone ignoring the white elephant in the room?

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Posted: 9 years ago

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well,i dont know what Cv is going to show but it would be good for Durga to move on her life bcz its A forced marriege & he clearly told That he loves Meera & Durga has Shravan her son who can take Her responsibility so honestly i feel she should File for Divorce ..
If Its nt Reel then i might use different words for Married man Issue but its Reel so here every1 deserves happiness and same goes with Dharam-Durga-Meera..
And about living In Same house or fulfilling duty then i guess after divorce Durga can stay here as Shravan's mother or If Dharam ready to fulifil responsibility then he can ..

Sorry to say but i can't agree with the theory of Waiting for Dharam's love or acceptance & Keeping This unwanted relation ..

Its modern age so Give Few chances if it works then keep it otherwise leave its ...

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Originally posted by: sanw
This can happen only in serials
But I am sure none of the law makers or social activists are watching
other wise this show could have come to an end for showing wrong things on TV

one complaint can put an end to the show

😊 no,no im not referring Complaint regarding this issue if need to complaint then i guess most of the serial will b in complaint list
i just told bcz i found its totally illogical specially when gaura came to take back her Daughter in law just after Court drama & Modi's kept mum ..atleast they could say something ... & then few lines ...
They could show Meera need to Stay Suyravanshi mension for 6 month for filling Divorce..

Anyway , u r r8 its possible only in serial & About Lawmakers/social workers they might b aware about CV's Fiction ..

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Originally posted by: sanw
This can happen only in serials
But I am sure none of the law makers or social activists are watching
other wise this show could have come to an end for showing wrong things on TV

one complaint can put an end to the show

😊 no,no im not referring Complaint regarding this issue if need to complaint then i guess most of the serial will b in complaint list
i just told bcz i found its totally illogical specially when gaura came to take back her Daughter in law just after Court drama & Modi's kept mum ..atleast they could say something ... & then few lines ...
They could show Meera need to Stay Suyravanshi mension for 6 month for filling Divorce..

Anyway , u r r8 its possible only in serial & About Lawmakers/social workers they might b aware about CV's Fiction ..

sorry double post

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Originally posted by: sanw
This can happen only in serials
But I am sure none of the law makers or social activists are watching
other wise this show could have come to an end for showing wrong things on TV

one complaint can put an end to the show

In that case, SP will warn them against these things. If the CV's don't mend their ways, then SP will take action.

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Originally posted by: Sana_J.
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well,i dont know what Cv is going to show but it would be good for Durga to move on her life bcz its A forced marriege & he clearly told That he loves Meera & Durga has Shravan her son who can take Her responsibility so honestly i feel she should File for Divorce ..
If Its nt Reel then i might use different words for Married man Issue but its Reel so here every1 deserves happiness and same goes with Dharam-Durga-Meera..
And about living In Same house then i guess after divorce Durga can stay here as Shravan's mother or If Dharam Give this permission ..
Sorry to say but i can't with the theory of Waiting for Dharam's love or acceptance & Keeping This unwanted relation ..
Its modern age so Give Few chances if it works then keep it otherwise leave its ...

Even if Dharam divorces Durga, the fact still remains that he is Shravan's dad & that will not clear the mess. Yes, Shravan can take care of his mom but that is a separate case. He can't take Dharam's place & do that as he has to take care of his immediate family as well. Meera & Vidya should complete their education. It is a long way to go for them. Durga has wasted her time & life to make her identity but there is plenty of scope for Meera. Dharam has a grown up son who will possibly become a grand father but he is behaving like 16 year old guy. He has spent so many years with Durga & Meera was not even born at that time. Even if I take out 10 years from their quota, the couple has definitely spent the remaining time with each other & that is not less either.

I don't think that in a modern age any girl would marry a person of their dad's age (though age is not a problem for me). Dharam is not only a married man but also a FIL of her own sister. These things used to happen in olden times wherein a man could marry as many times as he wants.

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Solution of FIL issue is Shravan being other couple's son ..
yeah i agree thats different case but she isnt getting what A Wife deserves and already she faced lots of things and in serial its better option rather then turning into vamps..
and about Completing education if u checked my post i told many times regarding meera-vidya's further study ..
Come here after reading "Vidya's Pregnancy Track"

And same here , Age gap issue isnt main problem but Sisters as MIL-DIL which is unacceptable ..

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Originally posted by: Sana_J.
@katrinasalman

Solution of FIL issue is Shravan being other couple's son ..
yeah i agree thats different case but she isnt getting what A Wife deserves and already she faced lots of things and in serial its better option rather then turning into vamps..
and about Completing education if u checked my post i told many times regarding meera-vidya's further study ..
Come here after reading "Vidya's Pregnancy Track"

And same here , Age gap issue main problem but Sisters as MIL-DIL which is unacceptable ..

Thanks for replying and giving your point of view. For me the age gap isn't a problem, like I said people fall in love with unexpected people, ie Celine Dion, who was very happy with a man much older than her. I'm not comfortable with the fact that Dharam already has a wife and hasn't divorced her yet and the MIL/DIL relationship doesn't help.

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Originally posted by: Sana_J.
@katrinasalman

Solution of FIL issue is Shravan being other couple's son ..
yeah i agree thats different case but she isnt getting what A Wife deserves and already she faced lots of things and in serial its better option rather then turning into vamps..
and about Completing education if u checked my post i told many times regarding meera-vidya's further study ..
Come here after reading "Vidya's Pregnancy Track"

And same here , Age gap issue main problem but Sisters as MIL-DIL which is unacceptable ..

Yes, Shravan should be other couples son but It has to be out of Suryavanshi family. That family should have nothing to do with Suryavanshi family except being a family friend. Otherwise it is unacceptable. Dharam and Durga spent major portion of their lives together love or no love. If he had not married Durga or divorced her earlier, that would have been a different story. But that's not to be. Agreed, there is no love in that relationship but his marriage with Meera is not even a marriage as it is illegal to marry second time unless the first one is dead or divorced.

I agree that age is only a number. Huge age difference doesn't matter me but it has got plenty of disadvantages. Yes, Dharam is hot right now but will he be the same after 20 years? Secondly, both Dharam and Meera belong to different generation. Yes, Dharam has brought a dress for Meera from her favorite fashion designer but once if Meera succumbs to her emotions and decides to stay back then we will get to see the differences of opinion between them.

If Dharam is unable to move after 20 years, the entire burden will be on Meera. These are the main concerns. Love is beautiful in the initial stages but it gives pain later on.

Whether Dharam loves Durga or not is their problem. It is not Meera's problem. It is not right on her part to interfere between husband and wife. Meera asked Dharam to sign the divorce papers and she is regretting now. Even the court has not accepted this marriage. When this relationship is not valid, the question of divorce doesn't arise.

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Originally posted by: Xarina

Thanks for replying and giving your point of view. For me the age gap isn't a problem, like I said people fall in love with unexpected people, ie Celine Dion, who was very happy with a man much older than her. I'm not comfortable with the fact that Dharam already has a wife and hasn't divorced her yet and the MIL/DIL relationship doesn't help.

my pleasure 😊
👍🏼 r8 .. 😊

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Family friends or some1 else im ok with it ..

valid point lets C how CV handle this..

(There is lots of illogical/unacceptable tracks but u know its Serial u cant expect logic 😡 )
& about 2nd marriege yes i would like to C Dharam-meera wedding after clearing Dharam-Durga issue & revealing Shravan's Identity .. 😊

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