Originally posted by: katrinasalman
Gopi had killed Radha for the benefit of the whole family. She spent 10 years in jail only for the family forgoing her husband & kids. Have you forgotten what not Radha had done? Just for her baseless revenge, she made Gopi slip thereby making her to drop Meera in the pond accidentally. It was because of her Vidya missed the fatherly figure for 8 years & Meera lived like an orphan. Not only that, Radha has been torturing the family especially the kids. She had stuffed chillie powder in Meera's mouth & made Meera massage her back like a servant. She even beat her up for that.
Oh this sacrifice -_- I thought you were talking about the upbringing and all, in which case Gopi has had very little contribution - in Meera's case at least. But even though, this may be sacrifice, it still didn't do good to her family. Killing Radha wasn't the only option, she could have been sent to jail and kept away from the Modis. I would say Gopi did right because Radha was just another level of evil but I wouldn't say it was the best thing to do, not only she sacrificed her family but she made her family sacrifice too. Her kids and husband had to live without her.
Yes, Mansi took care of Meera & Vidya but did she do other than manipulating Meera & talking to her sweetly? She only covered Meera for her mistakes but it only spoilt her & Meera didn't know that.
When Meera came with her boyfriend in the late night, where was Mansi at that time? Did she keep any control? What experience she has got to handle kids?
Didn't say mansi was the best mother figure, but she was there when Gopi wasn't.
Agree what Gopi did was wrong and she could not do much for the girls but what about Ahem? He took care of them single-handedly. He gave them whatever they wanted. He has done sacrifices for them & fulfilled the duties of a father. What do you say for that?
He took care of them with mansi, why did he have to stay with her? And him giving them whatever they wanted isn't sacrifice please, that's the basic duty of a parent. To make sure their kids have all the necessary resources. If ahem was poor and he worked day and night just to earn a little bit of money, used that money for his kids and even sacrificed his own needs, then that'd be a sacrifice as well as fulling duty of a father. Here, ahem had enough money and he was simply providing for his family like one ought to. The girls don't owe him anything you know.
No parent can give permission to their children to jump in the fire. They always wish well for for them. Even they have some plans & dreams for them which children need to understand & be outright if they don't feel good about it.
Dharam is hot I know but being with him isn't going to burn Meera 😆 If they think it's wrong, they should also try and think about their daughters happiness. What's more important? Meera being with Dharam isn't going to hurt them, if they care about what the society thinks then yeah. But I would always think about my family first and then what others think. Each to their own.
@bold: You are right in saying that. However, it is only in the eyes of the individual but in the eyes of the law, it means everything. Things should be systematic otherwise what is the difference between man & the beast?
If people marry for visa, that is only for their convenience. It will be easy for them to settle abroad. They won't hesitate to part once their purpose is served & there is no compatibility in their marriage. But they won't go deep like Dheera & be emotional.
Meera said the right thing to Dharam today & I appreciate her for that.
Meera said the right thing but it's also true she's forcing herself to say it. What is the point of a husband and wife's relationship when they treat each other like strangers? A husbands duty is not just to provide shelter and resources and stay in the same room (which is what Meera is implying I believe), a husband and wife must have love too. If you make a cake without the key ingredients, flour and butter, it won't be a cake. You need all the ingredients and especially the key ones, otherwise it won't work.
If the cvs decide to make Dharam have feelings for Durga then that'll be legit. I'll stop watching but at least I wouldn't be able to question their marriage.
Dharam too said the correct thing today, one shouldn't force and lead others on. If there's no love there's nothing. However, I wish he would clarify why he can't love Durga.
