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grao

@ani_gr

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Posted: 10 years ago

so weak... he is begging Meera to go and ask for forgiveness... Meera is such a brat and she is totally hopeless.. that's how Ahem has brought her up and now he is crying .. why? Since when he is so weak.. that he cries for her his daughter's behavior...

If I was in his place, I would give her a tight slap and ask her to and say sorry to Gaura...

He has not said anything to Meera even for insulting Gopi... even today she hates Gopi and he does not say anything..She would not listen to him even if he says that's different thing...

What does Meera want ?

How do you think she can be mended?

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Nikki

@touch_of_pink

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Posted: 10 years ago

I wrote this long post in the the topic you accidently posted in BW forum and can't remember it now. 😆

But the gist was Ahem and Gopi need to do some serious parenting before even thinking about marrying Meera off.

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grao

@ani_gr

Stunner

Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: touch_of_pink
I wrote this long post in the the topic you accidently posted in BW forum and can't remember it now. 😆

But the gist was Ahem and Gopi need to do some serious parenting before even thinking about marrying Meera off.

😆 😆... I realized it immediately and I deleted and posted it again... lol.. sorry..

yes agree...😃

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kavita

@kavitha_r

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: ani_gr
😆 😆... I realized it immediately and I deleted and posted it again... lol.. sorry..
yes agree...😃

Ahem & Gopi need to talk to Meera & ask why she still hates her mom. They should tell her how she was separated from family for 8 years which was because of Radha. They should tell her Radha's history.

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Nikki

@touch_of_pink

Sparkler

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: ani_gr
😆 😆... I realized it immediately and I deleted and posted it again... lol.. sorry..
yes agree...😃

Don't worry about it, it happens. 😊

Another point I wanted to make is that since Ahem and Gopi got back together, they have left it upto Kokila to sort out Meera. After the Rashi Jr. incident though, even Koki could no longer discipline Meera as she proved she was the last person to give a good upbringing.

What exactly have Ahem and Gopi done as parents? All I see is them have coochie-coo moments from time to time. And once Gopi complained to Koki that Meera does not do household chores, what will she do when she's married?

Your right, instead of crying Ahem should do something. Not slap her though. So far slaps have done nothing but only made her more determined to rebel.

Current track should be Ahem and Gopi mending their relationship with Meera and spending some much needed time together as a family.

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khushi

@khushi_shankar

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Posted: 10 years ago

I just realized that hte best people to explain about upbringings are Hetal, Raashi (the original one after her reformation and before her death), and Paridhi. The three of them have raised Tollu and Mollu who seem to be pretty good people so far. Primarily, Hetal and Paridhi need to give some dvice to Gopi and Koki on parenting. Ahem seems to be a very hopeless case.

They all need to sit down and explain the circumstances to all children under which Gopi had to kill Radha and what she had done with Mira as a kid. Ahem needs to apologize to Gopi, Mira, and Vidhya for taking them all apart. Gopi also needs to apologize to both of her daughters and realize that a mother in jail is better than a mother not existing.

These TV shows seem to hink that marriages are the solution to all problems. Mira does not have a decent education, not even a tiny bit of manners or matuirty, does even want to learn basic cooking, and has no desire to do any chores around the house. Shadi karke kya kar legi? In the real world, her in-laws would just end up kicking her out of the house for making everyone's life miserable.

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grao

@ani_gr

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Posted: 10 years ago

Agree Nikki... GoHem need to spend time with Meera and try to understand her and work on her.. Koki has long given up on Meera.. Meera too answers back really rudely to her dadi.. it is really sad..

But as parents GoHem did not do anything for their daughters.. Gopi who always talks about sanskar this that is totally useless.. No doubt she was away for 10 years, but she could have taken charge immediately when they all united though Meera hates her.. it is her responsibility... Ahem did not give any upbringing at all..

No one knows what their daughter's education is .. what did they study.. did they even go to collage ?😕.. just because they are 18-20 they want marry them off so quickly because Shravan is a grandson of Gaura who is Koki's childhood freind..😡

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kavita

@kavitha_r

Sparkler

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: ani_gr
Agree Nikki... GoHem need to spend time with Meera and try to understand her and work on her.. Koki has long given up on Meera.. Meera too answers back really rudely to her dadi.. it is really sad..
But as parents GoHem did not do anything for their daughters.. Gopi who always talks about sanskar this that is totally useless.. No doubt she was away for 10 years, but she could have taken charge immediately when they all united though Meera hates her.. it is her responsibility... Ahem did not give any upbringing at all..
No one knows what their daughter's education is .. what did they study.. did they even go to collage ?😕.. just because they are 18-20 they want marry them off so quickly because Shravan is a grandson of Gaura who is Koki's childhood freind..😡

Gopi has not put any effort to win Meera's heart. She & Ahem should have taken charge of Meera & bring her to track.

The girls are going to college but it is not known what they are studying. If the girls get engaged, their marriage can always wait. More than Koki, Gaura is in a hurry for additional family member.

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kavita

@kavitha_r

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: khushi_shankar
I just realized that hte best people to explain about upbringings are Hetal, Raashi (the original one after her reformation and before her death), and Paridhi. The three of them have raised Tollu and Mollu who seem to be pretty good people so far. Primarily, Hetal and Paridhi need to give some dvice to Gopi and Koki on parenting. Ahem seems to be a very hopeless case.
They all need to sit down and explain the circumstances to all children under which Gopi had to kill Radha and what she had done with Mira as a kid. Ahem needs to apologize to Gopi, Mira, and Vidhya for taking them all apart. Gopi also needs to apologize to both of her daughters and realize that a mother in jail is better than a mother not existing.

These TV shows seem to hink that marriages are the solution to all problems. Mira does not have a decent education, not even a tiny bit of manners or matuirty, does even want to learn basic cooking, and has no desire to do any chores around the house. Shadi karke kya kar legi? In the real world, her in-laws would just end up kicking her out of the house for making everyone's life miserable.

@bold: The circumstances has been explained to all the children. All the children except Meera has not accepted that reason. But they should give additional information about Radha i.e what she did to Meera when she was a kid.

Ahem is guilty of what he did. He apologized to his mom & Gopi. He should also apologize to the girls & discipline Meera instead of begging & requesting her.

Vidya though younger to Meera is more matured than her. Meera neither wants to learn basic cooking nor do any other household chores. Even if she had married Sanskaar, that wouldn't have worked out.

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ANJ4

@ANJ4

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+ 2

Posted: 10 years ago

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if meera gets married ...hope she has a MIL like kinjal ... that is what meera needs.

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