How stupid can Kokila be? .....

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Posted: 10 years ago
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First she let Radha inside the house. Then let Tripti inside the house.
Now she is letting Gaura inside the house.

That too fixing Meera's marriage with Gaura's grandson. I have never heard of such nonsense ever in my life. Meera has not seen the guy nor knows about him.Of course Kokila is "magnanimous" enough to let Meera "decide" on her own. How "great"!

But what of Gaura's grandson? Nobody has seen the boy in MB. How can Kokila decide about the boy she has never seen never met? Also how can Gopi /Ahem decide if he is a good boy or not without seeing him and finding out about him enough?

What for are the Modis business people if they do not have even this much common sense?

Gaura is Kokila's childhood friend. But is not necessary for parag to meet Gaura's husband? also for Kokila to find out info about Gaura's family what they did where they went etc?

Kokila because of her stupidity has put the Modis at risk time and again.

Now this time too.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Kokila takes her own decisions. But the good thing is that she is letting Meera to decide on her own. It is difficult to make about Gaura's character.

How can Kokila believe her so blindly? She has not seen her son or grandson.

Kokila accommodated Anita, Radha, Umang, Tripti, Vivaan & Mansi but all of them are negative. Mansi has been the most dignified among all.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Also how can Gopi /Ahem decide if he is a good boy or not without seeing him and finding out about him enough?

I have a doubt. Is Meera in fact Gopi and Ahem's daughter? Because so far I haven't seen them behave like parents at all. They've left everything in Kokila's hands. These days they just walk around the house, have their coochie-coo moments and talk about how they are such great friends towards each other.

Has Gopi forgotten that Meera hates her guts? Does she want to sort out her relationship with her daughter? Or just follow what Maaji says, throw Meera into married life, pray to Kanhaji and hope for the best?


What I would liked to have seen?
Gopi put her foot down in front of Kokila. Make sure both Meera and Vidya complete their studies and become financially independent. At least be sure that in case they encounter problems in their married life, they will be able to look after themselves the way Gopi did after Meera's accident. Otherwise they might end up like Kinjal.

If not, can they at least show Ahem being a responsible father by looking into the background of the boy?

At this rate, Kokila will be dictating her great great grandchildren's lives.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Nikki, this Kokila h as been shown as dominated MIL.. no matter what, however she changed in the years, she is still old school... No one has seen the boy, Kokila herself does not know abt Gaura's family.. how can she just say Meera is a good match for Gaura's grandson? this is getting really stupid..
We dont even know if the girls completed their studies...😆
Meera is probably 21 and Vidya is 18 and they are talking abt marriage already...
I too prefer girls to be independent, no matter how good their in laws and husbands are..
Edited by ani_gr - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sharoon3210

Kokila takes her own decisions. But the good thing is that she is letting Meera to decide on her own. It is difficult to make about Gaura's character.

How can Kokila believe her so blindly? She has not seen her son or grandson.

Kokila accommodated Anita, Radha, Umang, Tripti, Vivaan & Mansi but all of them are negative. Mansi has been the most dignified among all.


Kokila did not accommodate Maansi . She put up with Maansi.

And Maansi could have been the most "dignified" vamp but she was sure obnoxious.

Kokila needs to find out more about Gaura since she had not heard from her for so long after a nasty incident.

If Kokila ko zara sa bhi parvaa hain Meera ke baare main she should find out more about Gaura's family. Ahem is sure a duffer like Gaura says if he puts up with his mom and her idiocy.

It is a question of the grandchildren's lives. I hope they don't make it like Tolu/Molu inherit the wealth of Modis and Meera Vidya get carted off to their in laws for better or for worse.

In this case Kokila has not even made proper inquiries about Gaura's grand son. It is one thing about Gaura being Kokila's childhood playmate another thing about Gaura's husband and children her in laws etc.

Kokila is being stupid.
Edited by pyaaribehna - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Koki is epitome of stupidity.
She feels Modi Mension is a guest house where anyone can come and stay. In guest house at least they taje rent but Modi house is free of cost.

She has recently solved her problem with gaura and she should not think about giving meera/vidya.
Edited by White-Rose - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Ahem is still a mamma's boy so he wont ever question her decision..
as for gopi v all know she is koki's mouthpiece now a days but brain is still koki...
so watever koki decides that is it...

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sharoon3210

Kokila takes her own decisions. But the good thing is that she is letting Meera to decide on her own. It is difficult to make about Gaura's character.

How can Kokila believe her so blindly? She has not seen her son or grandson.

Kokila accommodated Anita, Radha, Umang, Tripti, Vivaan & Mansi but all of them are negative. Mansi has been the most dignified among all.


Great post but we have forgotten that master who came to teach Meera n was responsible for Rashi's death.
Edited by Raadhni - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: pyaaribehna


Kokila did not accommodate Maansi . She put up with Maansi.

And Maansi could have been the most "dignified" vamp but she was sure obnoxious.

Kokila needs to find out more about Gaura since she had not heard from her for so long after a nasty incident.

If Kokila ko zara sa bhi parvaa hain Meera ke baare main she should find out more about Gaura's family. Ahem is sure a duffer like Gaura says if he puts up with his mom and her idiocy.

It is a question of the grandchildren's lives. I hope they don't make it like Tolu/Molu inherit the wealth of Modis and Meera Vidya get carted off to their in laws for better or for worse.

In this case Kokila has not even made proper inquiries about Gaura's grand son. It is one thing about Gaura being Kokila's childhood playmate another thing about Gaura's husband and children her in laws etc.

Kokila is being stupid.


Yes, Mansi is no doubt obnoxious but certainly better than Anita, Radha & Tripti & even Kinjal.
Kokila needs to find out more about Gaura since she had not heard from her for so long after a nasty incident.
That is the problem with Kokila. Although the person may be a childhood friend, we don't know what are the good or the bad qualities they would have developed over a period of time.

Does K0kila know what are Gaura's positive or negative signs?
Ahem is sure a duffer like Gaura says if he puts up with his mom and her idiocy.
Ahem was telling Gopi that Kokila must have thought a lot about it before deciding to get Meera married but his concern is about Meera's education. She should be financially independent which is right. But he is a mamma's boy and Gopi is MIL's girl.

Why should Kokila decide about the grandchildren's life when parents are very much alive? In fact she rejected Ahem's choice only for her convenience. Both, Ahem & Gopi are equally stupid.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ani_gr

Nikki, this Kokila h as been shown as dominated MIL.. no matter what, however she changed in the years, she is still old school... No one has seen the boy, Kokila herself does not know abt Gaura's family.. how can she just say Meera is a good match for Gaura's grandson? this is getting really stupid..

We dont even know if the girls completed their studies...😆
Meera is probably 21 and Vidya is 18 and they are talking abt marriage already...
I too prefer girls to be independent, no matter how good their in laws and husbands are..


Kokila is not only a dominating MIL but also a dominating bahu, mother, wife, sister-in-law & grand-mother.

Ahem was telling Gopi that Meera has to complete her education & be independent. So it is obvious that the girls have not completed their studies. 😊

Girls should be economically independent no matter how much ever rich family they belong & how much ever good their husbands & in-laws might be.

If anything goes wrong, they should be able to fend for themselves like how Gopi did. Meera might right match for Gaura as a DIL but how can she say that she is a right girl for her grandson?

Gaura's grandson's opinion also matters as much as Meera's. It is a question of their lives.

Kokila is always in a hurry to get the girls married.😆

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