Was Urmila right in burning Kinjal's sarees?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Urmila has been entertaining. She promised Kokila that she won't do kalakaris with any of the Modis. She made Kinjal fall on her grahapravesha. That was fine. She did the same thing to Gopi. She made Kinjal to do the housework. Even that was fine. She stopped Kinjal to go to MM in the name of serving her & doing housework. Even that was fine.

But I didn't find it convincing about burning Kinjal's sarees. What do you guys say about that? Please post your views.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I hate this whole track.

How come Urmila, who has done so many bad deeds in the past, has full rights to punish Kinjal in anyway she wants?

Why does Urmila never get punished?

How come everyone's forgotten why Kinjal left Urmila's house to begin with? How come Kinjal's forgotten herself what the original problem was?

10 years ago Kinjal was upset that Dhaval slapped her and Urmila was always causing trouble in their lives. Post leap, I don't like the way Kinjal has been made negative only to justify Urmila's bad behaviour with her. I bet when Kinjal becomes good again with Dhaval, Urmila will still not change her behaviour. She will then go back to causing trouble in Kinjal and Dhaval's lives to hold onto control.

CVs completely missed the point...as usual.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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i agree with you ...urmi is getting away with everything... the modi's should let meera live with urmi
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Originally posted by: ANJ4

i agree with you ...urmi is getting away with everything... the modi's should let meera live with urmi


If Meera stays with Urmila, Kinjal will be with her & it will be worse. Meera should be kicked out of the house. Then she can go wherever she wants. She has no knowledge about the outside world.

Just let her get some beatings from the outside world. Only then she will realize that it is the family who stand by her.



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Posted: 10 years ago
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cvs hv always let urmi go scott free
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sharoon3210

Urmila has been entertaining. She promised Kokila that she won't do kalakaris with any of the Modis. She made Kinjal fall on her grahapravesha. That was fine. She did the same thing to Gopi. She made Kinjal to do the housework. Even that was fine. She stopped Kinjal to go to MM in the name of serving her & doing housework. Even that was fine.

But I didn't find it convincing about burning Kinjal's sarees. What do you guys say about that? Please post your views.


Been telling the same thing over and over again. Damaging somebody else's personal belongings to make them "humble" what kind of nonsense is that?

Let me tell you someone must bring a whip and beat up Urmila public on the road for lying , stealing from one's own house, frauding as a mad person , etc how would that look?

Numb nut Modis cannot bring Radha to tow the line, cannot fix Urmila (to date) and cannot fix Ahem the right way they talk about Kinjal and her "attitude" and "humbling" her by burning all her sarees so that all the sarees have burn holes in them and she goes around wearing torn sarees and gets mistaken for a maid.

👏 I have to "clap" for that one. (Sarcastic)

Damaging personal belongings burning sarees that too expensive ones and the "offering" old second hand sarees to "humble" Kinjal (whatever she may have done the sarees are hers. Just like every bad person out there has personal property Kinjal too must be having personal stuff. Damaging her goods that too by Urmila is it the "right" way to "humble" Kinjal who has "attitude" ?

Kokila "approves" of such nonsense? if a saree gets burn holes by mistake it is considered Apashagun in our culture. and a married woman suhaagan does not go around wearing torn sarees. It is bad for the house. But why would Urmila care about what is bad for the house? Apart from having a "haircut" she tried to "style" Kokila's hair.

And Urmila burnt her sarees to make her "humble"? And Modis speak so loudly of religion and culture and tradition and relgion clearly says about how to treat women that too daughters of the house.

Urmila cannot "mete" out "justice" to Kinjal being the biggest fraud of Saathiya herself.

By showing Kinjal and Meera being to "humbled" to be "brought back" to "track" cvs are paving the way for the mass viewers to unleash atrocity on womenfolk of the house on the pretext of bring them back to track.

Urmila should be punished for what she did.
Edited by pyaaribehna - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: pyaaribehna


Been telling the same thing over and over again. Damaging somebody else's personal belongings to make them "humble" what kind of nonsense is that?

Let me tell you someone must bring a whip and beat up Urmila public on the road for lying , stealing from one's own house, frauding as a mad person , etc how would that look?

Numb nut Modis cannot bring Radha to tow the line, cannot fix Urmila (to date) and cannot fix Ahem the right way they talk about Kinjal and her "attitude" and "humbling" her by burning all her sarees so that all the sarees have burn holes in them and she goes around wearing torn sarees and gets mistaken for a maid.

👏 I have to "clap" for that one. (Sarcastic)

Damaging personal belongings burning sarees that too expensive ones and the "offering" old second hand sarees to "humble" Kinjal (whatever she may have done the sarees are hers. Just like every bad person out there has personal property Kinjal too must be having personal stuff. Damaging her goods that too by Urmila is it the "right" way to "humble" Kinjal who has "attitude" ?

Kokila "approves" of such nonsense? if a saree gets burn holes by mistake it is considered Apashagun in our culture. and a married woman suhaagan does not go around wearing torn sarees. It is bad for the house. But why would Urmila care about what is bad for the house? Apart from having a "haircut" she tried to "style" Kokila's hair.

And Urmila burnt her sarees to make her "humble"? And Modis speak so loudly of religion and culture and tradition and relgion clearly says about how to treat women that too daughters of the house.

Urmila cannot "mete" out "justice" to Kinjal being the biggest fraud of Saathiya herself.

By showing Kinjal and Meera being to "humbled" to be "brought back" to "track" cvs are paving the way for the mass viewers to unleash atrocity on womenfolk of the house on the pretext of bring them back to track.

Urmila should be punished for what she did.


So where am I telling that Urmila did the right thing by burning Kinjal's sarees? I said in the last line that it is not at all convincing or acceptable to me.

There are many ways to humble a person. In today's episode, Kinjal found out that Urmila is perfectly alright.

She has called the cops. So lets see how Urmila will react to this.

Edited by sharoon3210 - 10 years ago
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Kinjal called the cops. And they found nothing. in today's episode.

What are the cvs trying to say? Burn and ruin kinjal's sarees, steal her jewelry and threaten to throw her out if she messes with anyone?

And maike people throw her out for trying to plot behind Gopi's back.

Tell me something is there anyone in Saathiya who has not plotted against Gopi?

Or tried to ruin Gopi/Ahem's marriage?

Gopi was stupid enough to do whatever Rashi misled her to do. and Gopi the other Gopi went acting stupid all over Ahem even when Ahem was rude to her.

Even now even today Ahem is not spontaneously nice to Gopi. He has a lot of Ahem in him.

And Kinjal gets thrown out for plotting against Gopi from her maike. and Urmila the chorni fraud is trying to fix her by tearing and damaging her sarees and making her do all housework making her fall down slip and fall in water, and now staealing her jewerly.

And Kinjal has to "win Urmila's heart" ? A fraud like Urmila her heart can be "won" only when others give her their hard earned money for her beauty parlor needs. or give her money for her own embezzling. Even Rashi's married life Urmila tried to ruin just because she will get almony from her husband.

And such a human being is trying to "fix" Kinjal who went to maike not doing seva for paagal Urmila and live in chawl. Kinjal is a woman and she was in love with Umang who dumped her with badnaam. and she had to be humbled by being married off to dhaval and made to live in chawl with fai saas. and after years of living in chawl and fighting with Urmila she became total chawl waasi. And then she left husband to live in luxuries of maike and to stay there she tried to plot against Gopi.

Every soul in Saathiya who is negative has plotted against Gopi manipulated the Modis for the sake of money.

Rashi, Paridhi, Radha, Urmila all are guilty of it.

But Kinjal should be made bekari sarees torn, no food, cell phone taken off, no bank account, now jewelry stolen by Urmila.

Now even police cannot find the stolen goods. and she is supposed to win Urmila's heart. tch tch tch .


And because she did not "win" Urmila's heart she is being "punished" now. being made into a bekari.

Don't "worry" she is getting a "share" in Modi property. After she gets "humbled" and "wins" Urmila's heart.

I don't think Urmila is someone whose "heart" can be "won"> She has no place for anyone in the world her husband (is he in bhuj with his sister? ) She did not care for Dhaval, Paridhi, Pappu or now even Tolu Molu. Such an "exemplary" person is "trying" to bring Kinjal to "track" by "humbling" her. I am getting "goosebumps"

It has become a habit with cvs or movie makers writers in general to pick a person a woman in general a rich woman married to "poor" person and shows "attitude" so has to be "fixed" by insulting her damaging her goods, making her penniless, making her good for nothing and showing her as araam ki zindagi jeene wali.

these steretyped spoilt rich characters are then "fixed" by crude insulting methods and treated like animals and these characters are shown as spoilt and throwing tantrums etc.

and it has such a bad effect on viewers who think they need to act so cruel with these spoilt people just to bring them to track.

Disgusting how they characterise Kinjal and show how she turned so negative after Gopi's prison term. No logic or reasoning in that.
Edited by pyaaribehna - 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: pyaaribehna


Kinjal called the cops. And they found nothing. in today's episode.

What are the cvs trying to say? Burn and ruin kinjal's sarees, steal her jewelry and threaten to throw her out if she messes with anyone?

And maike people throw her out for trying to plot behind Gopi's back.

Tell me something is there anyone in Saathiya who has not plotted against Gopi?

Or tried to ruin Gopi/Ahem's marriage?

Gopi was stupid enough to do whatever Rashi misled her to do. and Gopi the other Gopi went acting stupid all over Ahem even when Ahem was rude to her.

Even now even today Ahem is not spontaneously nice to Gopi. He has a lot of Ahem in him.

And Kinjal gets thrown out for plotting against Gopi from her maike. and Urmila the chorni fraud is trying to fix her by tearing and damaging her sarees and making her do all housework making her fall down slip and fall in water, and now staealing her jewerly.

And Kinjal has to "win Urmila's heart" ? A fraud like Urmila her heart can be "won" only when others give her their hard earned money for her beauty parlor needs. or give her money for her own embezzling. Even Rashi's married life Urmila tried to ruin just because she will get almony from her husband.

And such a human being is trying to "fix" Kinjal who went to maike not doing seva for paagal Urmila and live in chawl. Kinjal is a woman and she was in love with Umang who dumped her with badnaam. and she had to be humbled by being married off to dhaval and made to live in chawl with fai saas. and after years of living in chawl and fighting with Urmila she became total chawl waasi. And then she left husband to live in luxuries of maike and to stay there she tried to plot against Gopi.

Every soul in Saathiya who is negative has plotted against Gopi manipulated the Modis for the sake of money.

Rashi, Paridhi, Radha, Urmila all are guilty of it.

But Kinjal should be made bekari sarees torn, no food, cell phone taken off, no bank account, now jewelry stolen by Urmila.

Now even police cannot find the stolen goods. and she is supposed to win Urmila's heart. tch tch tch .


And because she did not "win" Urmila's heart she is being "punished" now. being made into a bekari.

Don't "worry" she is getting a "share" in Modi property. After she gets "humbled" and "wins" Urmila's heart.

I don't think Urmila is someone whose "heart" can be "won"> She has no place for anyone in the world her husband (is he in bhuj with his sister? ) She did not care for Dhaval, Paridhi, Pappu or now even Tolu Molu. Such an "exemplary" person is "trying" to bring Kinjal to "track" by "humbling" her. I am getting "goosebumps"

It has become a habit with cvs or movie makers writers in general to pick a person a woman in general a rich woman married to "poor" person and shows "attitude" so has to be "fixed" by insulting her damaging her goods, making her penniless, making her good for nothing and showing her as araam ki zindagi jeene wali.

these steretyped spoilt rich characters are then "fixed" by crude insulting methods and treated like animals and these characters are shown as spoilt and throwing tantrums etc.

and it has such a bad effect on viewers who think they need to act so cruel with these spoilt people just to bring them to track.

Disgusting how they characterise Kinjal and show how she turned so negative after Gopi's prison term. No logic or reasoning in that.



Posting from Kinjal's POV, the only answer for her is to become independent & stand on her own feet. This will also keep her engaged & keep her away from plotting. Tbh, Kinjal is not tactful like Urmila, Rashi, Paridhi & Radha when it comes to plotting. She & Meera are kachcha khiladis who gets caught.

For that matter, even Radha got caught in her game with Rashi. But no one knew what Rashi did to Radha. That is the tact.
Even Urmila is tactful. That is why they get away with the kalakaris.

Although Ahem has been unpredictable towards Gopi, he never plotted against her. Lying to the girls cannot be called as a plot. When Gopi didn't want the girls to know that she is in jail, Ahem fulfilled her wish. Even Kokila didn't plot against Gopi though she punished her often, blamed her for Meera's accident & threw her out of the house. Apart from that Jigar, Hetal, Vidya, Tolu, Molu & Baa never plotted against Gopi. On the contrary, they are interested in her welfare.

Vidya after knowing the truth wanted her parents to reunite like any other children & that is not wrong.
Paridhi was plotting against Gopi before her marriage with Jigar but loved her after getting married to him. So I don't have anything against Paridhi except that she has not accepted Rashi.

As for Rashi, she plotted against Gopi but she is the one who stopped Radha's marriage with Ahem & re-inserted Gopi. She helped Gopi in many ways. She helped Gopi when Anita was trying to take away her suhaag. She exposed Neelam before the family who was trying to take Meera away after Gopi delivers her.

She helped Gopi to get her right after her re-entry in MB after 8 years. She helped Gopi & Kokila to get Radha & Tripti arrested. She also sacrificed her life while saving her from masterji. She became close to everybody's heart. So I don't have anything against Rashi either.

More than mother & daughter, Urmila & Rashi were close friends. when Rashi began to help Gopi, even Urmila was positive towards Gopi. After Rashi's death, she apologized to Gopi for torturing her & not making her study though she initially blamed Gopi for her daughter's death.

She got attached to Kokila when she was with her for 10 years & befriended her after she revealed to Kokila that she is perfectly alright.

Radha was a psycho. She always trusted wrong persons. Less said, the better.

Kinjal can still lodge a complaint on Urmila for torturing her & even Dhawal for that matter.


Edited by sharoon3210 - 10 years ago

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