Kokila and her bhashan

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pyaaribehna

@pyaaribehna

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Posted: 10 years ago

Kokila's speech on Gopi reminded me of some politician don't know who honestly.

But Kokila was commendable in defending Gopi in front of her own kids.

Best is Maansi saying murder is murder. true. Maansi sticks to her own point that she is scared.

Now Ahem what is Ahem doing in all this? Does he think he cannot live with Gopi because she committed murder?

All said and done Gopi did not kill Radha to save Rashi. Rashi was already safe. with many people around her.

Radha the "one man army" gave real hard time to many people including men. Gopi almost died because of Radha.

But when she came out she came to kill Radha who was not attacking her.

Gopi killed Radha out of anger. But she could have stopped with injuring her and need not have killed her at "point blank range" and in such a horrible way.

For that Kokila has nothing to say . and on top of that Gopi got the punishment only because of that that her killing Radha was not exactly self defense.

Rather a late reaction to Radha pushing her under water and trying to kill her.

it is pretty sad anybody would have done such a thing. Even Meera almost murders Gopi. but with no intention to murder.

But stabbing Radha with trishul was done knowning Radha will die if she gets stabbed like that.

Totally what Gopi did was not considered wrong by Modi people. because they know radha's "track record"

But to a total third person it does look bad.

Terrible Gopi got involved in all this. especially when she could have gone to America and had a good life. she ruined it all by going to jail.

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pyaaribehna

@pyaaribehna

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Posted: 10 years ago

I don't support Maansi one bit.

My sympathies are with Gopi. She did sacrifice for the Modis. and it is good that Kokila stands by Gopi in tough times. And so does Paridhi.

Ahem is deplorable. On one hand he never did anything to solve the problems created by Radha.

On one hand he as a man "insisted" on Gopi covering her head even as slept. On the other hand what decisions has he ever taken to solve any problem in the house.?

Radha the "creator" of all problems what has Ahem done to rectify the harm done by Radha?

True Devi maa did vadh of Mahushasura in those days it was not considered murder. When a person harms so many helpless good people it was considered right to kill such a person.

A soldier does kill enemies in battle it is not considered murder. that is his duty. his dharma as a soldier.

A person who hangs criminals working in jail does not commit murder he does his duty as per his job.

Gopi killed Radha may be it is right under the circumstances in some other time period in life.

Ladies do kill others when their life is threatened or their near and dear ones life is threatened.

Gopi did the same it is not murder. she solved problems by Radha . by stabbing her in anger.

But one cannot give excuse of that in court. She could have spared Radha's life and got her punishment.

That way she would have no regrets and she would not have wasted ten years in jail.

Kokila had to shout herself hoarse to justify Gopi. I feel Kokila has a point.

Still in twenty first century there is such a thing as court.

May be what Gopi did was like police do "encounter" purposely in shootouts. That way one cannot call her a murderer.

Maansi of all people cannot butt into this.

Gopi killing Radha had nothing to do with Radha wanting to marry Ahem. At the time Radha got killled it had nothing to do with Ahem and Radha.

And Radha got preggy with Jigg's child . at the time the incident took place.

Maansi has no right to bring herself into this. calling Gopi a khooni.

If Gopi is a khooni so are numerous soldiers, numerous police officers and other people who defend innocent lives by putting their lives at risk.

Same killing as a soldier does it is not murder, if a police shoots a criminal if such a necessity arose then it is not considered murder.

Gopi saved the Modis so they should defend her and say it is not murder.

Maansi shoujld be clarified as to Radha's murder had nothing to do with Ahem. In fact Ahem almost killed Radha by choking her. So that means he could kill Maansi too the same way. If someone tells Maansi that she will run back to Mumbai.

Edited by pyaaribehna - 10 years ago

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kavita

@kavitha_r

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: pyaaribehna
I don't support Maansi one bit.
My sympathies are with Gopi. She did sacrifice for the Modis. and it is good that Kokila stands by Gopi in tough times. And so does Paridhi.

Ahem is deplorable. On one hand he never did anything to solve the problems created by Radha.

On one hand he as a man "insisted" on Gopi covering her head even as slept. On the other hand what decisions has he ever taken to solve any problem in the house.?

Radha the "creator" of all problems what has Ahem done to rectify the harm done by Radha?

True Devi maa did vadh of Mahushasura in those days it was not considered murder. When a person harms so many helpless good people it was considered right to kill such a person.

A soldier does kill enemies in battle it is not considered murder. that is his duty. his dharma as a soldier.

A person who hangs criminals working in jail does not commit murder he does his duty as per his job.

Gopi killed Radha may be it is right under the circumstances in some other time period in life.

Ladies do kill others when their life is threatened or their near and dear ones life is threatened.

Gopi did the same it is not murder. she solved problems by Radha . by stabbing her in anger.

But one cannot give excuse of that in court. She could have spared Radha's life and got her punishment.

That way she would have no regrets and she would not have wasted ten years in jail.

Kokila had to shout herself hoarse to justify Gopi. I feel Kokila has a point.

Still in twenty first century there is such a thing as court.

May be what Gopi did was like police do "encounter" purposely in shootouts. That way one cannot call her a murderer.

Maansi of all people cannot butt into this.

Gopi killing Radha had nothing to do with Radha wanting to marry Ahem. At the time Radha got killled it had nothing to do with Ahem and Radha.

And Radha got preggy with Jigg's child . at the time the incident took place.

Maansi has no right to bring herself into this. calling Gopi a khooni.

If Gopi is a khooni so are numerous soldiers, numerous police officers and other people who defend innocent lives by putting their lives at risk.

Same killing as a soldier does it is not murder, if a police shoots a criminal if such a necessity arose then it is not considered murder.

Gopi saved the Modis so they should defend her and say it is not murder.

Maansi shoujld be clarified as to Radha's murder had nothing to do with Ahem. In fact Ahem almost killed Radha by choking her. So that means he could kill Maansi too the same way. If someone tells Maansi that she will run back to Mumbai.

Firstly, I would like to appreciate your post in which you have mentioned your thoughts. I second your views.

I feel that it was Kinjal who told Mansi to do this. Mansi knows the truth but she can go to any extent to marry Ahem.

If killing is wrong, why are the criminals hanged till death? When the soldiers shoot their enemies is it murder? They are doing their duty to protect the country.

Gopi killed Radha though Rashi was safe in Kokila's hands. When she went to kill Kokila, Gopi swam back and stabbed her with Trishul.

Radha tried to kill Gopi by banging her to the rock, tied her leg with a stone and pushed her to the river. She had almost killed Gopi.

In Ahem's POV, he cautioned Gopi to stay away from Radha. Ahem did not to anything to kick Radha out of their lives.

Some members say that Gopi gave more priority to her in-laws than her husband and daughters. Ahem wanted her to focus on her immediate family. But if she had gone against Koki's wishes and displeased her, Ahem certainly wouldn't have supported her. Gopi never bothered to discuss with Ahem about what his mom told her.

When she can spend romantic moments with Ahem, it was not a big deal for her put Kokila's word to him. Had she done that, Ahem would have spoken to his mom & come out with the plan. She has not balanced between her immediate & overall family.

I don't sympathize with Gopi but I empathize with her. If I was Gopi, I would have put my MIL's words before Ahem.

She handed Rashi to Radha thinking that she has changed despite being told by Kokila & Ahem that Radha won't change. That was her biggest mistake. She could have slapped Radha & handed her to the cops like she did in the previous leap.

Though Kokila rejected Ahem's choice, was initially rude to Gopi & blaming her for Meera's loss, she did the right thing standing by her.

I don't have even an ounce of sympathy for Mansi. Gopi's killing Radha is noway related to Ahem's marriage with her.

It was Kinjal who told Mansi to do that. Mansi has no right to provoke the girls against their mother by calling her a khooni. She is resorting to cheap tricks for that worthless Ahem

Edited by sharoon3210 - 10 years ago

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pyaaribehna

@pyaaribehna

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: sharoon3210

Firstly, I would like to appreciate your post in which you have mentioned your thoughts. I second your views.

I feel that it was Kinjal who told Mansi to do this. Mansi knows the truth but she can go to any extent to marry Ahem.

If killing is wrong, why are the criminals hanged till death? When the soldiers shoot their enemies is it murder? They are doing their duty to protect the country.

Gopi killed Radha though Rashi was safe in Kokila's hands. When she went to kill Kokila, Gopi swam back and stabbed her with Trishul.

Radha tried to kill Gopi by banging her to the rock, tied her leg with a stone and pushed her to the river. She had almost killed Gopi.

In Ahem's POV, he cautioned Gopi to stay away from Radha. Ahem did not to anything to kick Radha out of their lives.

Some members say that Gopi gave more priority to her in-laws than her husband and daughters. Ahem wanted her to focus on her immediate family. But if she had gone against Koki's wishes and displeased her, Ahem certainly wouldn't have supported her. Gopi never bothered to discuss with Ahem about what his mom told her.

When she can spend romantic moments with Ahem, it was not a big deal for her put Kokila's word to him. Had she done that, Ahem would have spoken to his mom & come out with the plan. She has not balanced between her immediate & overall family.

I don't sympathize with Gopi but I empathize with her. If I was Gopi, I would have put my MIL's words before Ahem.

She handed Rashi to Radha thinking that she has changed despite being told by Kokila & Ahem that Radha won't change. That was her biggest mistake. She could have slapped Radha & handed her to the cops like she did in the previous leap.

Though Kokila rejected Ahem's choice, was initially rude to Gopi & blaming her for Meera's loss, she did the right thing standing by her.

I don't have even an ounce of sympathy for Mansi. Gopi's killing Radha is noway related to Ahem's marriage with her.

It was Kinjal who told Mansi to do that. Mansi has no right to provoke the girls against their mother by calling her a khooni. She is resorting to cheap tricks for that worthless Ahem

It was Gopi's own insecurity that she gave more importance to Kokila's words than her own husband's.

She was not Ahem's choice to begin with. Neither was she very rich or from an influential family who would support her in times of need.

And added to that Radha turned out to be what she was. Jealous of Gopi, playing all kinds of tricks and trying to marry Ahem and all that.

Through this all Ahem never supported Gopi in times of need. He only claims to love Gopi. Going down on one kneed does not absolve a person. He has to see through Gopi's problems and her place as Kokila's bahu. In fact during the times of Paridhi he was the one who told Gopi not to go against his mom even to support Paridhi. Then why does he not understand Gopi's dilemma between supporting her husband and supporting Modi family?

And then Gopi should have had control over her anger and just stopped Radha from doing further damage. Couldn't the whole of Modi family including Ahem and Jigar controlled Radha and tied her up or something? Stabbing once in anger Gopi could have done that. but stabbing over and over again with Trishul was a wrong thing to do. Not killing by accident. or killing someone with no intention of killing them. It was intentional killing in anger at point blank range ( I am saying this because Radha was in no position to run away and save her life she was down on the ground. Gopi gave way to anger justified anger but still killing a person is considered a crime in front of law. Because laws are made for the general public to keep law and order inside the country. People should not take law into their own hands and commit murder saying it is to save others. That is why Gopi did get punished for murdering Radha.

For other instances like when a case where husband tried to kill wife by hitting her and she killing him and law pronouncing her not guilty is a different case.

The lady defended herself and in the process killed her own husband who would have killed or injured her . (it came as movie too Aishwarya Rai , nandita bose)

Gopi did not commit murder in self defense. She came back and killed Radha to prevent her from killing others . Sad but justifiable though this kind of killing should not become an example for others.

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kavita

@kavitha_r

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: pyaaribehna

It was Gopi's own insecurity that she gave more importance to Kokila's words than her own husband's.

She was not Ahem's choice to begin with. Neither was she very rich or from an influential family who would support her in times of need.

And added to that Radha turned out to be what she was. Jealous of Gopi, playing all kinds of tricks and trying to marry Ahem and all that.

Through this all Ahem never supported Gopi in times of need. He only claims to love Gopi. Going down on one kneed does not absolve a person. He has to see through Gopi's problems and her place as Kokila's bahu. In fact during the times of Paridhi he was the one who told Gopi not to go against his mom even to support Paridhi. Then why does he not understand Gopi's dilemma between supporting her husband and supporting Modi family?

And then Gopi should have had control over her anger and just stopped Radha from doing further damage. Couldn't the whole of Modi family including Ahem and Jigar controlled Radha and tied her up or something? Stabbing once in anger Gopi could have done that. but stabbing over and over again with Trishul was a wrong thing to do. Not killing by accident. or killing someone with no intention of killing them. It was intentional killing in anger at point blank range ( I am saying this because Radha was in no position to run away and save her life she was down on the ground. Gopi gave way to anger justified anger but still killing a person is considered a crime in front of law. Because laws are made for the general public to keep law and order inside the country. People should not take law into their own hands and commit murder saying it is to save others. That is why Gopi did get punished for murdering Radha.

For other instances like when a case where husband tried to kill wife by hitting her and she killing him and law pronouncing her not guilty is a different case.

The lady defended herself and in the process killed her own husband who would have killed or injured her . (it came as movie too Aishwarya Rai , nandita bose)

Gopi did not commit murder in self defense. She came back and killed Radha to prevent her from killing others . Sad but justifiable though this kind of killing should not become an example for others.

Gopi had slapped Radha before stabbing her. She should have called the police after slapping her. The men should have tied her so that she won't escape.

Gopi had killed Radha to save the family from the upcoming crisis. If Meera or Vidya was in Rashi's place, Gopi would have done the same thing.

When Ahem told Gopi to concentrate on her smaller family, it was her duty to consult him as to what Kokila told her.

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