Originally posted by: angelic8219
Even Ahem told Gopi that his mother comes first. At the start he only married her on his mother's say so. So she supports her mother in law more what did they expect from Gopi when they both gave the message that Koki is important. Gopi initially was hoping to serve her husband and keep him happy but Ahem squashed those dreams and took forever to come round, hence Gopi has bonded way too much with Koki.
Exactly, so it is not completely Gopi's fault. It was also Ahem's fattedness. Gopi is grateful to Kokila that she gave her a respectable life and stood by her to win Ahem's heart in whichever way it was.
Hating Koki or Ahem is not in Gopi's cup of tea.