Ahem blames everybody but himself

From the beginning of the show till now, Ahem has been largely at fault but he blames everybody but himself.

1. He was a mamma's boy till Gopi got the sentence for 14 years. He is blaming Kokila for everything which is right but he has not been open. That is his fault as well. If he has considered his mom as God, then why didn't he open with her?

2. He blames Jigar & Paridhi that the couple involved Gopi in their problems as a result of which she made her hands dirty for a third rate woman like Radha.

3. He blames Kokila for Gopi leaving the house on Meera's accident saying that she blamed her & made her feel uncomfortable which made her do that. It was not him. Yes, Kokila was the first person to blame Gopi but he had backed his mom instead of asking Gopi what had exactly happened.

4. He blames Gopi for not listening to him when he told her to keep away from Radha due to which his immediate family got ruined. Agree that what Gopi did was wrong. But did Ahem take any action when Radha was torturing his daughters? At least on that basis he should have worked with Gopi to get rid of Radha. It is his fault as well.

If Ahem has left MB after Gopi went to jail cutting the family contacts, it shows that he is a coward. He always chose to run away from the problems instead of facing it. Running away from the problem does not solve the problem.

If Ahem has found the companion that he saw in Mansi then why didn't he marry her all these years?

Please post your views about this. Your comments are welcome.😊

Great post Kavitha..

I missed today's episode ..can any1 brief me up 😊

Originally posted by: natville25

I missed today's episode ..can any1 brief me up 😊

Originally posted by: sophiewonzer14

There is no episode telecasted today dear. Unless u want yesterday's one.

Originally posted by: natville25

oh yes sorry i meant to say yesterday's ... brain fuse is worn out 😉

Originally posted by: sophiewonzer14

Firstly nice post Kavita. That's true that he was under Kokila's control and never opened up, and it would probably be due to the fact that since child-hood he has had this controlled lifestyle where he has been ordered or told what to do. However, despite saying that, he has been under no obligation to not voice his opinion out, so agree with you on that.

In terms of him blaming Jigar even Jigar could have shouted back at Ahem in regards to Rashi too. Ahem and Gopi both are at fault (That's true) and while Gopi has admitted about hers, Ahem is too adamant and egoistic to admit to at the least admit his own mistakes. The ego has to be broken and secondly Kokila too needs to stop interfering in Gopi and Ahem's life.

In relation to Mansi, he never has really loved Mansi and Like I said above, it's his ego comming out, he wants to show that he does not give a damn when he clearly does. This really has to break or he'll fall into his own grave.

Thanks a lot Sophie.😊

Originally posted by: ani_gr

Great post Kavitha..

He always blamed everyone else, he thinks he is perfect.. If he had loved his mom so much, he could share anything, he could have told her I love Anita dearly and I will marry her..

He again listened to his mother..

Even in case of Radha..
Every time he has made blunders and he blames the rest of the family..

Totally agree with your post..

Thanks Gayatri 😊