Should Gopi and Ahem divorce?

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pyaaribehna

@pyaaribehna

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Posted: 10 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: librapiscesarie

THIS HAS TO HAPPEN

Someone is interested in the "adla badli" game.

A lady who went to prison for the sake of her sasural. would she remarry? and then Jiggs is married to chipkali Paridhi who lives at her will and pleasure.

Jiggs is poor thing he could do no better than marrying Paridhi. Why put him through test a third time?

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kavita

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Posted: 10 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: purvim
divorce to thik hai lekin uski betiyan ko gopi se kyun problam hai? 😡
woh kyun use nafrat karti hai?

Meera & Vidya felt ditched when Gopi left them. By the time they came back, they had adjusted with Mansi. Meera accepted her as her mom. Even Ahem gave them the false information which made them hate Gopi. Yeh Ahem toh kameena ho gaya hain.

Before Radha's death, I wanted Gopi & Ahem to be together but now whether they compromise or divorce, it dosen't make any difference to me. There has been no understanding between them.

Ahem was initially surprised & happy to see her. He was about to hug her but when he remembered Gopi killing Radha & taking the promise, he got angry. His ego came between his feelings.

Many of us say that Ahem never really loved Gopi. He could not do that because of his ego plus he is/was mamma's boy. Even when Gopi saved him from the snake, everyone appreciated her. Although Ahem saw this & thanked Gopi, his tone changed suddenly. He said that it was better if the snake had killed him rather than dying with her. That is nothing but ego. He never really saw the brighter side of Gopi because of his ego.

Pairing Gopi with Jigar is good. He never yelled at Gopi. He always stood by her. Even when Gopi made gravious mistakes, Jigar stood by her. Although he is a mamma's boy, his mom is very much understanding & kind-hearted. Jigar is a better match for Gopi than Ahem.

Even if I say or agree that Ahem loves Gopi, there are many factors to consider. Gopi was never his choice as a life partner. However, he also never loved Anita. He only loves himself.

I feel that it is better for them to part. Either the CV's should kill Paridhi & get Jigar married to Gopi or introduce a person for Gopi who is much better than Ahem.

Yes, they should legally divorce.

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1030048

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Posted: 10 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: pyaaribehna

Someone is interested in the "adla badli" game.

A lady
who went to prison for the sake of her sasural. would she remarry? and then Jiggs is married to chipkali Paridhi who lives at her will and pleasure.

Jiggs is poor thing he could do no better than marrying Paridhi. Why put him through test a third time?

Correction - 4th time.

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ANJ4

@ANJ4

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Posted: 10 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: librapiscesarie
Yes..gopi shd divorce Ahem

Pari should die with H1N1.

Gopi should marry Jigar.

love it i vote for this

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kavita

@kavitha_r

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Posted: 10 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: Millerrr88
no because they still have love for each other but it will take time and they'll be reunited one day

What kind of love Ahem has for Gopi? His love towards Gopi has been conditional. How many times will they break up & how many times will they patch up? There is a limit for everything. It is better that they divorce.

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1030048

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Posted: 10 years ago

#16

SHAROON3210 &. ANJ4 MY DARLING FORUM MATES - U ROCK IN TALLYING MY POINTS

U SEE JIGAR ADORES GOPI TONS
&
GOPI CARES & RESPECTS HIM TONS-SQUARE.

TOLU MOLU ALREADY LOVE GOPI IN QUINTALS.

Remaining- MEER-VID, AT ANY POINT MANSI KICKS THEM AWAY...JIGAR, ANYDAY WILL LOVE TO HAVE THEM.

SO..CHALO THEN...DONE

DIVORCE A-G
KILL PARIDI
MARRY GOPI-JIGU

(WAISEY BHEE PARIDI Ka baap padaa hua hai - Pakistan mein
😆 (in qubool hain) 🤣

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kavita

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Posted: 10 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: librapiscesarie

Correction - 4th time.

Even Gopi is put to testing times.

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pyaaribehna

@pyaaribehna

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Posted: 10 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: sharoon3210

Even Gopi is put to testing times.

Yeah whatever. But Ahem and Gopi should not divorce.

Ahem misleading the kids should come out into the open.

Ahem can speak out openly about Kokila.

He already started openly after Gopi went to jail.

now everything in his mind every grudge every angry thought about kokila and what she did should come out into the open.

Only then Kokila can realize what she did to her son's life. Hence after she will not try to run his life and will let Ahem and Gopi be to have time for themselves.

May be stay in Mumbai and have time for themselves before coming back to Rajkot.

Gopi and Ahem should have a one to one relationship. Not sassuma's chamcha stuff.

Edited by pyaaribehna - 10 years ago

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kavita

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Posted: 10 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: pyaaribehna

Yeah whatever. But Ahem and Gopi should not divorce.

Ahem misleading the kids should come out into the open.

Ahem can speak out openly about Kokila.

He already started openly after Gopi went to jail.

now everything in his mind every grudge every angry thought about kokila and what she did should come out into the open.

Only then Kokila can realize what she did to her son's life. Hence after she will not try to run his life and will let Ahem and Gopi be to have time for themselves.

May be stay in Mumbai and have time for themselves before coming back to Rajkot.
Gopi and Ahem should have a one to one relationship. Not sassuma's chamcha stuff.

I have no problem if Gopi & Ahem are together but he should tell the truth to the girls and leave Mansi. Ahem just cannot swagger like a pendulum switching to the sides. Either he should come near or go far.

If Gopi had the same relationship with Anurag, would Ahem keep quiet? No way! he would have kicked Gopi out so even Gopi is doing the same thing.

I agree that Gopi made a mistake by killing Radha & she did not allow any of the family members to meet her. But if Ahem had sensed these things, he should have made a plan to get rid of Radha. In fact at least for the girls, he should have given the top priority to kick Radha out of their lives. Either Ahem & Gopi should mend their ways or they should part.

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pyaaribehna

@pyaaribehna

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Posted: 10 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: sharoon3210

I have no problem if Gopi & Ahem are together but he should tell the truth to the girls and leave Mansi. Ahem just cannot swagger like a pendulum switching to the sides. Either he should come near or go far.

If Gopi had the same relationship with Anurag, would Ahem keep quiet? No way! he would have kicked Gopi out so even Gopi is doing the same thing.

I agree that Gopi made a mistake by killing Radha & she did not allow any of the family members to meet her. But if Ahem had sensed these things, he should have made a plan to get rid of Radha. In fact at least for the girls, he should have given the top priority to kick Radha out of their lives. Either Ahem & Gopi should mend their ways or they should part.

Of course Ahem should tell the truth to the kids. Of course he has to leave Maansi. calling Ahem a pendulam is 😆 but true.

Of course Gopi had same relationship with Anuraag Ahem would never keep quiet. But at least Gopi went and saw the outside world.

Ahem should have done something used his connections in the police force or even used detectives to find out what Radha is up to or at least fixed grills in the windows of MB.

He should have fixed Radha's problem instead of ignoring it.

His fault is there in addition to Gopi's fault. If she had not taken promise from him that he will not meet her in prison at least part of this would not have happened.

Self respect is the key to everything. Gopi did not know the outside world . But she lived alone in the boarding school after Meera's accident. So now how can Ahem say Gopi was uneducated and does not know the outside world?

What he means is how Kokila was making him and Gopi dance to her whims and fancies.

That was what made Kokila bring Gopi in in the first place into MB.