OK why Is GOPI soo shocked at Ahem?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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So shes back less than 24 hours and already over involved in everyone elses life.
Still hasnt met her own biological kids or husband but thats just by the by .😉
AFTER being out of their life why is she so shocked that Ahem is not waiting for her with open arms?
the fact that she has been so detached from her family in jail without any contact or updates besides being simply bizarre,was it not an indication that all was not well on the husband front??
She's always done what she thinks is right even though Ahem told her not to interfere she continued to do so.So now why is she so shocked to hear Ahem blames her for the disintegration of his family ?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: MARHABAA

So shes back less than 24 hours and already over involved in everyone elses life.

Still hasnt met her own biological kids or husband but thats just by the by .😉
AFTER being out of their life why is she so shocked that Ahem is not waiting for her with open arms?
the fact that she has been so detached from her family in jail without any contact or updates besides being simply bizarre,was it not an indication that all was not well on the husband front??
She's always done what she thinks is right even though Ahem told her not to interfere she continued to do so.So now why is she so shocked to hear Ahem blames her for the disintegration of his family ?



In a way Ahem's anger is right. He kept telling her to keep away from others matters. He was immensely patient and believed that she will realize her responsibilities.
He tried to make her understand in all possible ways but she always did what she felt is right. Ahem also blamed Kokila for Gopi getting imprisoned. Kokila was the one who told her to stand for the truth.

So Gopi should not get shocked if she is blamed for the family split.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Ahems anger is justified and Gopi needs to be rejected let her realise her mistakes
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I agree with you. Let him try his relationship with that lady and see whether it works out or not. Gopi should realize her mistakes. Ahem shouldn't forgive her so easily. He should make her realize the worth of their family.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Well said and agree with you all! :)
Ahem all he ever wanted was to spend the rest of his life with her and his kids, have a family of their own and create memories and become the "saathiya" that they were but Gopi instead of following hands on with Ahem, she to an extent completely ignored him and got herself involved in all the dramas, got herself in trouble leading to separation.

I'd say she neglected not only Ahem but also her kids. And yes, she deserves to be taught a lesson, god hope she finally opens her eyes and realizes what sort of mistake she has done and corrects it. And for once does not get involved in Kinjal or anyone else's matters again!!!


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: DiVAnCRazyFAn

bakwaas show!!🤢🤢


And yet you took time out of your precious life to visit this forum, enter this topic and post this comment.


Thank you very much! 😃
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sophiewonzer14

Well said and agree with you all! :)

Ahem all he ever wanted was to spend the rest of his life with her and his kids, have a family of their own and create memories and become the "saathiya" that they were but Gopi instead of following hands on with Ahem, she to an extent completely ignored him and got herself involved in all the dramas, got herself in trouble leading to separation.

I'd say she neglected not only Ahem but also her kids. And yes, she deserves to be taught a lesson, god hope she finally opens her eyes and realizes what sort of mistake she has done and corrects it. And for once does not get involved in Kinjal or anyone else's matters again!!!




@bold: Agree with you. Why should Gopi involve in Kinjal's matters. Let her sort it out by herself & it has to be the elders of the house to sort it out. Why should Gopi do everything? Ahem & Gopi didn't spend much time with each other because of the work pressure, family politics etc.

Past is past. When Ahem wanted to make up for those 8 years separation and spend the rest of his life with her & the kids, Gopi has been ignoring him. So far everyone was saying that Gopi is treated as a doormat but it is she who is treating Ahem as a doormat. She has taken his love for granted.

If Ahem welcomes Gopi once again, what is the guarantee that she will not do the same thing again? He should make her realize her mistake. For that even if he has to make her jealous he should do it.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: DiVAnCRazyFAn

bakwaas show!!🤢🤢

Was that worth your energy?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Since the day Gopi stepped into MB she was charged with many responsibilities. But she is not alone. In other serials the elder DIL is given the task to keep the family together, come what may, even if it is to the detriment to her own health:as in another serial where the DIL gave up a perfectly good career opportunity to come back and save her MILs life even though she was cast out the house through no fault of her own.
Why do you marry a girl to come into your family and expect her to care for the whole family, many times leaving the husband and the bottom of the pecking order. And furthermore, if Gopi was helping to please his family why wasn't Ahem more proactive with her family. Why does the man not take up the same vows?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Guys , all kokila said to gopi is that ahem left the house because of her (gopi) but we don't know if it is in a negative way or not so we will have to wait and see till tomorrow.
Whatever gopi did was to save her family from her evil sister who has always troubled their family constantly so please stop being mean about gopi.

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