how many of u wants to get a husband like aham?

as per my pov,

as a wife we can't and we should not do such things to keep a son away frm his mother and mother to away frm her son. Cz i know how much i will suffer if i will not get my sons love and attention in my old days ahead.
But i dont like d way aham behave blindly for his mothers love. He is not a kid who cant understand whats wrong and whats right without mothers pov.
Gopi married him with having lots of hopes ie
afterwords she is having someone to share her life and a life time faithfull support. With a great difficulty she has won what she wants but still...
She was there with aham in his all d difficult times. She struggled for him and for his entire family's sake.
But aham didnt stand for her when she really needed him.
Koki gave a one sided judgement and aham too obeyed blindly to his mother's words.
In any court hav we heard that any judgement given by d judge without hearing excuses frm any criminal. But koki done that injustice to her dil and aham agreed to all that completely like a unpad gawar...
Yes thats true we loves our parents uncoditionally. But is that means that we have to act like this and leave our life partner alone. In my books it says we have to be with our life partner whether time is good or bad. And we hav to keep our trust for them.

I cant c any good thing on aham rather than his office work. In family life he is completly a zero man.

Its just my pov...no offences

Originally posted by: Nilu.Dasuni

as per my pov,

as a wife we can't and we should not do such things to keep a son away frm his mother and mother to away frm her son. Cz i know how much i will suffer if i will not get my sons love and attention in my old days ahead.
But i dont like d way aham behave blindly for his mothers love. He is not a kid who cant understand whats wrong and whats right without mothers pov.
Gopi married him with having lots of hopes ie
afterwords she is having someone to share her life and a life time faithfull support. With a great difficulty she has won what she wants but still...
She was there with aham in his all d difficult times. She struggled for him and for his entire family's sake.
But aham didnt stand for her when she really needed him.
Koki gave a one sided judgement and aham too obeyed blindly to his mother's words.
In any court hav we heard that any judgement given by d judge without hearing excuses frm any criminal. But koki done that injustice to her dil and aham agreed to all that completely like a unpad gawar...
Yes thats true we loves our parents uncoditionally. But is that means that we have to act like this and leave our life partner alone. In my books it says we have to be with our life partner whether time is good or bad. And we hav to keep our trust for them.

I cant c any good thing on aham rather than his office work. In family life he is completly a zero man.

Its just my pov...no offences

this hero is a complete and utter zero. he needs to let his mothers pallu go and its time kokilas real husband also becomes a man and puts kokila in her place

Originally posted by: suk19

this hero is a complete and utter zero. he needs to let his mothers pallu go and its time kokilas real husband also becomes a man and puts kokila in her place

yes! She is using over doses of women power. Everything has a limit

I dnt think anyone will want a husband like Ahem who s just puppet in hands of his mother... Im nt saying aftr marriage guy shouldn't give importance to his parents he defo should it is his responsibility to take care of them but in Ahem's case all he cares about is his mom ,her decisions, satisfying her ego... we call Jigar lallu but Ahem is no less... almost four years and we have never seen Ahem taking decision regarding his life... Not even single instance he stood of for his wife.. it is all mom mom... Ahem is neither ideal hubby nor ideal son... yep he may be gud son to koki but not to Parag... he being gud brother well I feel Jigar nd Dhawal are far better than him as sibling.. He cant take stand for his life I wonder if Chirag and to an extent Jigar was not there how successful he would have been in handling Modi empire..

in this show saathiya only womens have power 😆 and nibhana is men only..😆 like Ahem maa ka laadla...😆 all womens in saathiya was hero except Baa and Gopi...and all men are big zero...😆🤣 ..like this...😆🤣

NO WAY! A husband should be understanding Which is not ahem at all..he claims to love Gopi and then blamed her of killing her own daughter without even once asking what actually happened. That's just ridiculous! 🤢

See i understand him having a special relationship with Kokila . His mother is an efficient disciplined lady and he idolises her is Ahem's character . In the siblings it was always Kinjal who questioned her mother not him . I even understood that he did not want Gopi as a wife etc in the beginning . But

Ahem is a bad husband. ..more so cause he is ready to sacrifice and live like a depressed man. ...just for his mom...even he knows he is doing wrong. .but he is so ready yo blindly listen to his mom...no one matters. ...ahem is a very bad husband. .The kind who doesn'teven xcare where u r or what u do... crying privately and looking at his wife's pictures in secret...means nothing. ... He will break your heart and not look back...

Never ahem is completely a dumbo. He doesn't really know what and when he wants something. He is a big chamcha(spoon) of his mother.yeah but in islam... Ahem would be called as a really good son. Because its says in islam that " always listen to ur parents. Ex. Even if they ask u to leave yr wife."
Yeah but Kokila she just wears a frame of being a good mother. She got Gopi married to ahem because she wanted a bahu like Gopi... Ahem never wanted a wife like Gopi.. She kicked Gopi out of the house... Because she was mad.. It was not ahem who was mad.
Thus, she is a selfish mom. I can say that for sure.