Bully - Page 2

This considering the fact that Gopi saw Rashi referring to Radha as her servant and giving her old saris and saying they are new. I agree when Gopi says we should respect our elders, but that does not mean we should ignore all their wrongdoings and disrespect and bully those younger to us. When Gopi forgave all the endless mistakes that Rashi made from Day 1 I just thought it was because she was an innocent person who couldn't do wrong to anyone, even those who harmed her. While Radha should not have gone that far, Gopi hitting her and throwing her out of the house shows that she CAN bring the wrong-doers to book. However she chooses to be soft on Rashi and even panders to her on the pretext that she is elder. In one of the episodes in Rajpal Nagar when Kinjal says something against Rashi she gently calms her and when Radha speaks up she tells her authoritatively, "Tujhe beech mein bolne ke liye kisne kaha?".
When Radha first came, she was just like a younger version of Gopi- innocent and sincere (Jayanti bhai pointed out how she took care of Madhu ben like a mother). Infact when Urshi's kalakari was revealed to her, she didn't take any action immediately. It was only after Rashi created a rift between Gopi and Ahem (putting love letter in his lunch box)- that was the final straw.
This serial reminds me to be fair and respectful in my behaviour using only people's character as criteria, not age.

I see your point in this post but remember that Radha has never actually respected Gopi so why should she love her so much?????? Gopi has ried to be a nice elder sister and befor she even met radha she was confused of what gift to but her, but Radha never respected this love shes always talked to her rudely never trying to understand that Gopi has always wanted best for her

Originally posted by: NISHADEEP

I see your point in this post but remember that Radha has never actually respected Gopi so why should she love her so much?????? Gopi has ried to be a nice elder sister and befor she even met radha she was confused of what gift to but her, but Radha never respected this love shes always talked to her rudely never trying to understand that Gopi has always wanted best for her

Radha was fond of Gopi originally but Rashi created misunderstandings between them. Radha cared so much for her sister that she took her place in the mandap in the whole 'Murali Nanohar' fiasco (again created by Rashi). While it can be seen from the current Umang track that she has concern for Radha yet somewhere she is herself responsible for turning this innocent child to a girl who doesn't trust her own family.

Agree. Gopi has been blinded by Rashi. When Radha tried to tell her about Rashi's misdeeds she didnt listen and threw Radha out of the house. Rashi is selfish. She just cares about herself. 😡

i really am unhappy with gopi

Gopi is blinded not by Rashi but by Kokila and her very traditional ways. Gopi has made Koki's rules and ways as her own - hence her treatment of Radha. Koki is no. 1 in Gopi's heart.

When Radha had come to Modi Bhawan first time after marriage Gopi scolded her saying, "Umang ke naam ki aisi patti bandhi hai teri aankhon mein ke tujhe aur kuch nazar hi nahi aata." If I were Radha I would repeat the same sentence to Gopi substituting Umang with Rashi! Umang deceived Radha by his kind words but despite having seen Rashi's numerous kks and being treated badly by her, Gopi continues to pander to her.