Was kokila right in taking Meera?

Coming to the question,was kokila right in taking meera? umm for me,no! She accused gopi of separating her son from her,which actually gopi didnt do! Ahem as a husband,unable to see the injustice spoke to kokila like that. Not that Koki was right and Ahem unnecessarily shouted on her! Kokila out of her ego,behaved really very bad with gopi and ahem being husband couldnt take it. Keeping ahem's feelings and koki's feelings aside,even if koki is not there with ahem 24*7 its ok,but what about meera? Can she stay without Gopi? A mother is a mother,not even a father can take her place. So even if Gopi out of sadness has given away meera,is it right on Kokila's side to separate a 4 month odd baby from her mother??

Do share your views...

if Kokila feel that her son is away from her and that makes her heart werching then what did she do when Gopi told that she ill be away from meera till maa and son together is that right Ahem is married he has wife and a daughter his duty to look after them and stand with them at that time of a problem thats what Ahem did "iam still wondering little bit of humiliation ill makes a women a heart less who refeuse to see the tings around her"