Munni 🤗
I agree to an extent about what Koki is trying to do. I agree that her intentions are good. She does want Gopi to be assertive, strong and capable. I don't doubt that.
But inspite of her intentions, I still see that there is this ego in her that makes her go back again and again to one thing.. "Gopi should come to ME and consider ME as her first priority than anything else"
You see, I totally agree that Koki is Gopi's mother and wants Meera's mother to be more aware of her surroundings but what I don't agree is that Koki does not treat Meera's mother as such. She treats Meera's mother as a kid and insults her..
Yes, at one point any normal human is supposed to break free and fight back but we all know that Gopi will not. She will feel guilty more and more for letting Koki down and Koki knows it too.. Punishments to Gopi are just an everyday occurrence until a year back. They never caused her to do any rebellion..
Gopi did remain silent. I agree but she also tried protesting but was categorically denied to be listened by Koki which I find very difficult to swallow. This is not the first time. When Gopi tried telling Koki about Urmi, even then Koki stopped her with her own opinion and never gave Gopi a chance to continue and when she did, Urmi was quicker.🥱🥱
Now as much as I don't doubt Koki's intentions, I still feel that this is no way to treat a DIL much less another woman. Koki if you hear her talk to Gopi, does stress a lot on "You put ME below your Maami in your priority list" That should not be an issue if all this is only to make Gopi strong. Koki should talk only of right or wrong.. She should stop being so egoistic about not being always confessed to.
For example when the doctor came yesterday.. There was no need to tell Gopi that she should have come to HER first. Gopi has every right to tell Ahem something without telling Gopi. Ahem is her husband and he has proved himself to be her saathiya. Moreever it was Koki who handed Gopi over to Ahem. So expecting to be the first with Gopi is not possible anymore.
Yes. Koki's intentions started out right but somewhere in the middle her ego, her anger and her disappointment has taken the front seat.
I still believe that this will all end with Koki realizing that Gopi still keeps her faith but I am not satisfied even a bit.
I know GoKi share a bond that will not break inspite of these silly punishments and anger but when will Rashi pay ?😡
This track is about Gopi seeing the reality of RAshi and Urmi. It is not about Gopi and Koki rediscovering themselves but by making Koki this blind, the CVs are paving way just for that. By showing Koki being blind and not separating the 'good' from the 'bad' which Koki insists Gopi should know, all the punishments look hypocritical.
If Gopi is blind, so is Koki. The only difference is that Koki will open her mouth at all times and Gopi remains silent at all times. I don't think either Gopi or Koki know the difference between the right and the wrong. Both of them forgive and forget all faults. Koki did by not letting Ahem call the police.. She did by not questioning Rashi about calling her a murderer.
Likewise Gopi also forgives and forgets.. Both Gopi and Koki are no different. They are blind to UrShi and they will stay blind to UrShi.. Gopi more obvious than Koki..
It does not make me hate or dislike Koki. This track just makes me sad. She is and will always be a favorite of mine but she is no different than Gopi in this track and she is more a hypocrite because atleast Gopi understands that she was wrong.. Koki is not even ready to see that
Edited by Justlikethat1 - 12 years ago