Ahem and love: a split heart

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Posted: 12 years ago
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A split heart is what Ahem has. One part of him understands his mothers viewpoint and the other is his love for his wife, Gopi.

No doubt Ahem has been remarkable thus far.

The old angry Ahem has been firmly locked up inside him. He bore no rage or aggression. Neither did he show an iota of venom, like he had earlier that day to her mami or to her in their earlier part of their marriage.

This is an Ahem who is keeping things together at present. His heart feels for his mother and recent horrible experiences. He believes that this time she is justified in her viewpoint over Gopi. He understands fully his mother's point of view.

Further, he knows that she will instil some sort of punishment against Gopi. This is a trademark of Kokila, which Ahem is well aware of. His silence on returning home was very audible. This was his way of buffering Gopi's punishment. At the same time, keeping peace with his mother.

The outcome of his advice to Gopi that she should have talked to him about this is an opening for Gopi to heed. It is this that will form a stronger sense of trust should she take this on board in the future.

At the dining table it felt as though we were back to the earlier days of his resistance against Gopi but we are aware of his private life with Gopi in their bedroom. If he wants to keep the peace and not show his support and understanding openly for his Gopi he will have to tread carefully. Very carefully!!

His words have been few but have been very purpose driven and to the point. His love for his wife is so very evident when her walked up to her and talked. There was kindness, warmth and genuineness for Gopi. It is not that she is split in her affections but it is with whom she is connected with, this being Urmila and Rashi. This is what he despises the most.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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wonderful analysis ...
loved Saathiya today..th eshift to gohem and Koki is so fascinating..
the tension bet gohem at the dining table was just so heart wrenching...both their eyes showing such sadness and hurt...
my heart went out to gopi today though...
I am hoping ahem will go to the root of all this problem with gopi's soft hearttedness with urshi and he will help her to overcome this indebtedness and be free and happy..
devna chemistry was rocking today..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Amazing analysis Swasthi👏

It was a heart wrenching episode today and what I loved was Ahem's balance in his relationship.. You put it beautifully⭐️

Ahem proved again that he is the mature person he has always been and also fair. Somewhere he gets Gopi but he is disappointed at her not confiding atleast to him about her Maami and the fears and like all of us he does understand Koki and her point of view..

The best ever part was his statement.. Twice he asked Gopi why she did not confide in him atleast and I think Gopi now knows that she has done something wrong. She will try to make sure that this does not happen in the future. I sure hope that she does make sure of it but it will not be easy..

Circumstances like Rashi's video today and Urmi's emotional blackmails will come inbetween but then it is how Gopi will learn. She now understands what Rashi and Urmi are costing her.. I hope that however long this track goes, we see a relationship that builds stronger than before.. A relationship Urmi would never be able to break.. A stronger Gopi who trusts and is honest with Ahem and her Maaji😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Amazing analysis swasti
and it was one of the wonderful episode love Ahem and his concern and dissappointment over his wife
Today Ahem did a fablous job that he has a balance the relationship btw the two women in his life as you said he is concern and hurt while they are in private and in dinning he shows his dissappointment by being with his mother so sweet
today i not at all feel bad for Gopi she is having the punishment she desever
A True wife is always share his happyness and sadness first with her husband every time she can't fight alone a husband is the only man who always be with them when his trust broken this what the result ill be
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Awesome analysis. Ahem is truly coming out of this an understanding but hurt husband and how. The emotion etched on his face is so telling. I hope that Gopi gathers some sense but from what I saw last night it seems to be a little way off of her realising what she had, has and could lose. Of cpurse Urmila is not helping matters by harrassing Gopi.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Awesome post Swasthi! 👏...you never go wrong with Ahem 😳
yep I loved Ahem. There was absolutely no accusation, he trusts Gopi. But he is disappointed in her and his grief is understandable and valid. He is grieving for his mother's pain and somewhere I thought he felt inadequate that Gopi did not trust him enough to share the truth with him. How could he help her when he is not able to understand her silence himself. But I loved that he listened to her patiently and didnt hold back from telling her twice that she should have told him.
I dont think Gopi has understood Ahem's sorrow yet...she is still trying to convince the family that she did not intend to hide the truth..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: mona05

wonderful analysis ...
loved Saathiya today..th eshift to gohem and Koki is so fascinating..
the tension bet gohem at the dining table was just so heart wrenching...both their eyes showing such sadness and hurt...
my heart went out to gopi today though...
I am hoping ahem will go to the root of all this problem with gopi's soft hearttedness with urshi and he will help her to overcome this indebtedness and be free and happy..
devna chemistry was rocking today..


Thanks so much Mona.

Well said too.

Expecting Ahem to take the lead in resolving Gopi's situation has not as yet happened even though he could easily do. There has got to be something stopping him from doing this. Either her interconnected relationship with Urmila and his mother or that he believes that his mother will sort this out or that it will sort itself out.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Amazing analysis Swasthi👏

It was a heart wrenching episode today and what I loved was Ahem's balance in his relationship.. You put it beautifully⭐️

Ahem proved again that he is the mature person he has always been and also fair. Somewhere he gets Gopi but he is disappointed at her not confiding atleast to him about her Maami and the fears and like all of us he does understand Koki and her point of view..

The best ever part was his statement.. Twice he asked Gopi why she did not confide in him atleast and I think Gopi now knows that she has done something wrong. She will try to make sure that this does not happen in the future. I sure hope that she does make sure of it but it will not be easy..

Circumstances like Rashi's video today and Urmi's emotional blackmails will come inbetween but then it is how Gopi will learn. She now understands what Rashi and Urmi are costing her.. I hope that however long this track goes, we see a relationship that builds stronger than before.. A relationship Urmi would never be able to break.. A stronger Gopi who trusts and is honest with Ahem and her Maaji😊


You are welcome Harini.

This is what the outcome of this track should be having gone through the twists and turns and much melodrama.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: delsi

Amazing analysis swasti

and it was one of the wonderful episode love Ahem and his concern and dissappointment over his wife
Today Ahem did a fablous job that he has a balance the relationship btw the two women in his life as you said he is concern and hurt while they are in private and in dinning he shows his dissappointment by being with his mother so sweet
today i not at all feel bad for Gopi she is having the punishment she desever
A True wife is always share his happyness and sadness first with her husband every time she can't fight alone a husband is the only man who always be with them when his trust broken this what the result ill be


Much appreciated Delsi.

Well said too.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Xarina

Awesome analysis. Ahem is truly coming out of this an understanding but hurt husband and how. The emotion etched on his face is so telling. I hope that Gopi gathers some sense but from what I saw last night it seems to be a little way off of her realising what she had, has and could lose. Of cpurse Urmila is not helping matters by harrassing Gopi.


You are welcome Xarina.

This is just the start. There is still some time to go. If he is pressed further he will flare up.

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