that was indeed a fabulous episode..but... - Page 2

Originally posted by: Xarina

I just read the write up and have to say that although I am sad for Gopi I am not altogether surprised. For too long she has had the belief that her maami and cousin are misunderstood. That facade had dropped in recent months but her hesitancy, procrastination and belief has led her to where she is at this stage. If she could not have disclosed to her maaji, why she did not use her noodle and tell Ahem or even Baa. This comes back to the issue of honesty in a relationship. Could she not trust Ahem enough to tell the truth?

I love u Xar.. U said all i want 🤗 thats my point why she not tell Ahem abt any thing.. Exactually could she not trust him.. In between husband wife turst are main n important factor but Gopi didnt show her turst on Ahem.. I understand interfering Urmi thats why she wont tell Koki truth but Ahem dont he deserves her wife turst n beleive.. Im also dissapointed with Gopi on this note.. U remember when Rashi leaves MM after milkman fisco on that time she just cried infront of him even he ask her why she crying but She do not uttering any single word.. I dont like it..

Originally posted by: Hetp

.not others but atleast she would have spoke to ahem!she had many chance when at RN that she could have disclose it to ahem...this means she doesnt believe in him that she never ever discuss with him.Gopi herseld struggle with all the situations at times which ends up a mess...but then why she dont speak up.Hope this incidence teach her something...and of all this fiasco she has to get back faith of ahem n koki which she has lost it because of this incidence

exactually Hetal.. I saw Ahem how badly he hurts to hear that her wife hidding truth not from his mom infect with him aswell.. How badly his believe broken husband wife relations ship are stood on turst.. I cant bear tears in Ahem eyes.. Always hate when Gopi cries infront him but wont tell him any thing.. I dont care wht Gopi suffer i just want she teach a lesson n trying to eran KoHem turst again..

Originally posted by: -GiNa-

I love u Xar.. U said all i want 🤗 thats my point why she not tell Ahem abt any thing.. Exactually could she not trust him.. In between husband wife turst are main n important factor but Gopi didnt show her turst on Ahem.. I understand interfering Urmi thats why she wont tell Koki truth but Ahem dont he deserves her wife turst n beleive.. Im also dissapointed with Gopi on this note.. U remember when Rashi leaves MM after milkman fisco on that time she just cried infront of him even he ask her why she crying but She do not uttering any single word.. I dont like it..

Originally posted by: Xarina

Aww I love you too 🤗. Gopi is in a situation where, I believe, that even now Ahem is going to question her and doubt her. He once said to her in the beginning never to cause any hurt to his mom. Will we see shades of the old Gopi/ahem relationship too? Koki spending time in the lockup when she did not have to may prove too much.

Xari and Sherry, I can realize just how much hurt KoHem should be feeling right now and it is their prerogative to be angry.

Xari I totally agree that Gopi had it coming to her for hiding the truth of her cousin and Maami for so long from the family. Now what I am interested to watch is how Rashi plays this out to her advantage or if she helps Gopi mend her relation.

Knowing Rashi ,she will do #1 which hopefully will remove those rose tinted glasses from Gopi's eyes about her cousin and make her stand up for herself.

Maybe this was needed for Gopi. She needs to be stranded from all sides to find herself. He cocoon of safety with KoHem is in jeopardy and she may actually stand up and fight for herself to get this relationship back on track.

I just hope it is not too late.. As for trust, I don't think it was the lack of trust in KoHem but the fear of the consequences because she knew them so well, that it stopped Gopi.. I don't think she was right but she is human and she is allowed to make mistakes😊

Originally posted by: Xarina

Aww I love you too 🤗. Gopi is in a situation where, I believe, that even now Ahem is going to question her and doubt her. He once said to her in the beginning never to cause any hurt to his mom. Will we see shades of the old Gopi/ahem relationship too? Koki spending time in the lockup when she did not have to may prove too much.

Xar i dont think KoHem were wrong in their way.. Any person goes shetter when their close love hid such a big truth n or any husband rising question abt turst.. Gopi should prove them that whos more important for her Urmi or KoHem.. Dont u think Gopi should tell all truth when Koki come out into the jail when they making mountain of of Urmi praising.. Why she not?? So wht if Urmi interfering again n again she should take stand determindedly n then said it to every one.. Again i said not every one but atleast Ahem.. Yup i also seen another rift of GoHem.bcoz still Koki is every thing for Ahem he never bear this just for Gopi hiding truth his mom spending so much time in jail.. Hmm seems like in coming weeks SNS getting more interesting n also we get our old angry ahemji back though.. Finally GoHem track woohooo..

@Harini how many time Gopi free for making mistakes.. Dont u think its her third one.. Vansh n milkman fisco were also like same.. Im always said to u that Gopi did wrong to hid truth from KoHem today Koki hurts so badly eventhough she had tears after hears that her Gopi vahu knew all Ahem the same.. This time is not easy for KoHem to forgive Gopi more then Urmi the hurts with Gopi..😕

Originally posted by: -GiNa-

@Harini how many time Gopi free for making mistakes.. Dont u think its her third one.. Vansh n milkman fisco were also like same.. Im always said to u that Gopi did wrong to hid truth from KoHem today Koki hurts so badly eventhough she had tears after hears that her Gopi vahu knew all Ahem the same.. This time is not easy for KoHem to forgive Gopi more then Urmi the hurts with Gopi..😕

She was wrong Sherry and she is and will suffer for it.. After all she lost the only mother she knew and had respected more than her own mother. Is that not punishment enough? To added to that she will lose the husband she got after so much trials and tribulations... She suffered in silence and GOpi will suffer more.

My only wish is that she becomes truly honest.. I mean truly honest. Enough of letting everyone use her as her punching bag. Yes. Gopi did wrong. She lost her trust. But it is time for Gopi to tell them exactly what she fears too.. This is indeed Gopi's worst nightmare come true. I pity her..
Her mistake was hiding the truth and she will get maximum punishment by losing everything she suffered so hard and so long to gain.. Sweet justice right?😊


And I may be wrong but it is not like Ahem and Koki have been the most easiest people to talk to.. Mind you, I love KoHem for their closeness to reality. But to be frank, they are not the easiest people to spill your guts to. Ahem loves Gopi and so does Koki. But when Gopi has something to say, both have something to say too. They do not give her the space.. Did not Gopi try? She was railroaded by Koki's need to feel grateful to Urmi and Ahem's need to romance😆

But I agree it was Gopi's mistake because she procrastinated something that was long due.. She will pay her dues but did KoHem pay theirs? Did Rashi pay hers? I cannot see anyone else but Gopi suffering🥱

Harini.. Gopi eat her own furit.. She always did same mistake it just Urmi one reveal so then KoHem getting mad just imagine abt other two.. Gopi lost her closest loves by her own hands.. Ur right KoHem were easiest i agree she trying to tell Koki but Ahem he always with her why she not him.. U know Harini this incedent learn a strong lesson to Gopi for lifetime.. Being nave wasnt always good it threw trouble ur loves eventhough urself aswell.. I really want to see always a determinded an strong Gopi as koki said that she know well right n wrong.. She knows but she havnt gurds to exicuted them.. This time itseem more difficlut for Gopi to eran KoHem trust n loves back..

As for Rashi is concren so i know why she took the step to stay with modi's clever.. She knows Koki get out her mother already if even she takes her side so then couldnt this kagdi kick her out to.. Rashi is very selfish person might be on spot she really serious but behind all her actually reason is as same as always..

Sherry, this is where I disagree. Yes Gopi did a big mistake. She was wrong and I understand KoHem anger but her mistake was not something they cannot forgive her for. That is why I feel that they take her for granted..

Everybody does things in mistake.. Koki shouted at the heavily pregnant Gopi and told her that Ahem was in danger only because of her. It was luck that made sure that Gopi and the child were not in deep trouble.. they may have died for all we know but as much as I understood Koki's rant, wasn't she let off easily because Gopi was kind enough and generous enough to see Koki's PoV?

Ahem.. He may have changed to become the most wonderful husband but he still cannot understand Gopi and her silences. She tells him that she has something to say on VD. He railroaded her and told her his wishes and never once asked what she wanted to say.
She cried on his shoulders and instead of sitting her down and asking her what distressed her, he stood there wondering what could make Gopi cry.. His world is around his own daughter, wife and mother while he knows that hers is around the entire family. But yet he did not ask.. Why?

So now that Koki is in jail and came out, and just because Gopi knew it not at the time of crime mind you but later after Koki was in jail and she hid it, she needs to be punished completely by being declared as Urmi's agent. Nice. That is expected.. Maybe a little bit deserved too..

But my point is, I did not see Koki being punished for the emotional and yes, physical torture that Gopi was put through at the beginning of her marriage which was not too long ago.. I did not see Ahem suffer for his silence about Anita. .It was because Gopi put them above herself and everyone else.

I may be KoHem's fan, I may defend them but I still remember Koki worried more about Ahem making his slap public rather than worry what that would have done to a newly married DIL. I do still remember Ahem telling Gopi that she is there only for his mother.

They put each other over Gopi.. Maybe rightly so. But they should not and indeed are in no position to 'punish' Gopi. She gives her own punishment anyway by suffering for everyone. Why should her timidity and weakness be used as an YES for everything she is dished out.. And if they do punish her, what is the difference between Urmila who emotionally tortures her and KoHem who should know better😊

@Harini i understand wht u come from.. But if u watch the episode then u see Koki condition that how badly her turst n blind believe were crush.. She even not able to stood on her feets.. Koki always feels her vahu will not hid any thing from her.. Remember last time wherein Rashi throw out from MM..on that time to Koki hurts but not as much as today.. Koki always said her donot hid any thing from her espeacially related with UrShi then wht she hids.. Dont Koki deserves to shows her anger and Ahem so we all knew for Ahem his mom come first after her Gopi n his daughter Ahem loves 3 of them ladies in his life but his mom dont take any ones place..or Gopi hurts his mom.. Infront of that dont think Ahem seen any thing else.. May be after some time he realise n understand Gopi but now he fully shows his concren with his mother.. Im also a KoHem n i understand their unconditional relationship.. But today the way both shettered to heard Gopi truth was we never seen before..